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As the title of this newsletter suggests, I am thinking a lot about what a "good" gift is, and while there are details to those thoughts, they all really boil down to time and intent.
There are two paths here-
Have I invested the time to get to know someone well enough that the small, impulse purchase is actually the right thing? My life long friend, Veronika, knows I love nothing better than a good laugh and silliness. When I was feeling down a couple of years ago she sent me a surprise package to cheer me up. It was the single, most hideous thing I have ever been given- a neoprene fanny pack printed with the photograph of a bare, hairy, man-belly. I guffawed so loudly while opening the box on my porch it brought my neighbour to the window to see what was going on! We don't carry hairy belly fanny packs here (I wonder if I could make a convincing tapestry of one?), but we do have plenty of yarn, a few Malabrigo "Entramado" knitting kits, natural dye kits... and of course, gift certificates. I was telling someone this morning that there is nothing impersonal about a gift certificate. Knowing that someone is happier choosing their own yarn/tool/hat means you have spent the time getting to know them. The second path is the gift that was made with time, attention, and intention. The time could be mine, or someone else's. While it is not for sale, the first rug below is an example of what I am talking about. I forget the name of the weaver at the moment, but she was a very well known rug maker who spent her creative life trying to bring recognition and respect to the Navajo weavers she learned from. When I stand on this rug, I stand in a space created by her effort, her desire to learn and share, and her passion for a tradition that was threatened at the time she made this rug. The second rug (which is for sale) is one that I have finally finished that was woven with the last Icelandic wool to come out of Sunnyside Farms in Janesville, CA. It's an entirely experimental rug that I loved making, and I hope whoever standing on it can feel the care that went into the raising of the sheep, the calm joy of the weaving, and the warmth it generates.
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