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Second year - tougher than many think
Second year can feel deceptively heavy: you’re “supposed” to have it figured out, but the pressure shifts instead of disappearing. Recruiting outcomes, internship return offers, club leadership, academics, and the constant social churn can combine into a low-grade stress that’s easy to normalize. If you’re noticing irritability, numbness, trouble sleeping, or you’re always “on” but never present, treat that as a signal—not a character flaw. Mental health isn’t something you manage after you’ve crossed everything off your list; it’s part of how you stay functional, connected, and capable of making good decisions.
Start by reconnecting with the basics. Aim for a consistent sleep window, movement you can actually maintain (for instance, a 30-minute walk around your favorite part of your city), and meals that are more deliberate about what you are eating. Then compartmentalize your time: block 2-3 “no-meeting/no-networking” sessions during the week for deep work and recovery, and protect them like you would a coffee chat with a dream company. Predictability can help calm your nerves.
Second year is also when comparisons with peers can get tougher. You’ll see peers announce offers, startups, fellowships, relationships, and “best year ever” posts while you may feel uncertain or behind in some aspects of your life. When you feel that way, check in with one trusted friend, call home, or talk to a coach/therapist—someone who helps you reality-test instead of perform. Build a short list of fast resets (ten minutes outside, a quick workout, journaling, prayer/meditation, music) and use it before you try to “power through.” You’re not weak for needing regulation; you’re human.
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