Volume 24, Issue 6 | October 8, 2024

Praising Your Athlete

It's an incredible gift to see your child participate in youth sports and a thrill to see them be successful. For many sports parents, we want so badly to see them succeed that we can easily become a little too invested, willing that to happen through our words or actions from our place on the sideline. While our hearts are often in the right place, this enthusiasm can be counterproductive to a child's development.


So how should we react? In this week's video, Play Like a Champion Program Director Kristin Sheehan shares important tips for sports parents, especially when it comes to how we praise our young athletes. From what we should say after the game to how we can give feedback that is supportive and helpful, Sheehan's advice is a must-listen for sports parents.


This week, spend 80 seconds watching the video above and examine your own relationship with your young athlete(s). First, consider whether your behavior on the sidelines reflects the reality that the game belongs to our kids. Then, consider how you interact with your child(ren) post-game. Do you tell them how much you love watching them play? If you offer feedback, what does that look like? Is it positive, supportive and helpful? Remember that your child's coach will help correct mistakes and develop skill; our role as parents is to support our child, to boost confidence and remind them of our unconditional love.

“At that time the disciples came to Jesus, saying, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” And calling to him a child, he put him in the midst of them, and said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child, he is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven." ~ Matthew 18:1-4

A Prayer for Parents

God, I thank you for the wonderful blessing it is to watch my children play sports. Thank you for the smile that it brings to their face and for the ways in which sports help them to grow in virtue and skill. I ask that as they participate you protect them from injury and harm and bless them with the grace to reach their full potential.


Bless their coaches that they may embrace their role and have the courage to always do what is right for the children you have entrusted to their care.


Grant all sports parents the graces we need to be supportive and to have perspective. May we seek not our own will for our child, but yours, and in doing so be freed to let them enjoy this experience no matter the result. May each of us - child, coach and parent - glorify you through our actions and come to know you better through this experience. I ask this through Christ, our Lord. Amen.

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