Lesbians of Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley Outings and Events

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Back in the hot life again. Implant surgery went well, and I was on store-bought Ibuprofen the next day for pain. I am safeguarding my Tylenol 3 with codeine for hiking 1st aid kit. I spent much time thinking about connections on the 2400-mile drive home. It amazes me that you get on a road in Michigan and, with a few exits and interchanges, arrive in Palm Springs. I find comfort in the roads that lead me to the people I love. I know that that family and friends are at the end of the roads leading north. I know the ones leading east take me to my in-laws, and other roads take me to places I love and want to immerse myself in. Still, distance creates a strange time warp. A place left in the morning seems a week away the next morning in a new destination. Those we love sleep in our hearts, waiting for the next visit, phone call, or email.


On the way home, we overnighted at Homolovi State Park in Arizona, and I hiked to one of the ruins at sunrise. There is a series of pueblos here, some of which have 2 to 3000 rooms. Pottery shards and cutting tools are scattered on the grounds. I touch a painted black and white shard and feel a faint connection back to the hands that created it and used it. We cannot envision each other's lives, but somehow, our hands touch across time for a moment. I feel wonder, I feel peace, I feel gratitude.

“People leave traces of themselves where they feel most comfortable, most worthwhile.” ― Haruki Murakami, Dance Dance Dance


Home on Wednesday, but not without a little drama. We blew a back tire just outside of Quartzsite and managed to limp into town on the dual tire still inflated, but we had to spend the night waiting for the correct tire to be sent. I always discover something delightfully weird in this town.

Quartzsite, Arizona, is a small town with a thing for camels. The town's welcome sign is adorned with camels; its graveyard is the final resting place for Hadji Ali, a camel herder for the U.S. military; and just off of the 10 freeway sits Georgette, a scrap metal camel with ties to a fascinating bit of folklore: Arizona's Red Ghost.

In the 1880s, stories spread throughout Arizona of a giant red horse with a devil on its back. The Red Ghost trampled a woman to death at one campground, tore through a second campground, and supposedly flipped over two freight wagons at a third. At the scene of each event were signs of the creature: enormous hoof marks larger than any horse, and strands of red hair.

Stories of the Red Ghost rampaging all over the territory lasted for a decade, until a farmer found it: a red camel grazing with the skeletal remains of a man strapped to its back. The camel was likely a straggler, released from Hadji Ali's team after the government abandoned the U.S. Camel Corps. The Red Ghost mystery was mostly solved, though no one knows who roped the corpse to the camel's back, or why.


Kim - You have a good week

My book Travels Into Discomfort is available on Amazon.

It is a travel adventure in its prose and a journey to the heart in its poetry.

Travels Into Discomfort


“Invisible threads are the strongest ties.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

“We are like islands in the sea, separate on the surface but connected in the deep.” ― William James


Businesses - Let's Support Our Community
Local Lesbian Hangouts - Cocktails & Dancing

The Roost

V Lounge

Community Bulletin Board 

Sound Bath

Grant Writer Wanted

Local Lesbian Authors and Books

Two new books this month

Community Resources - Food, Medicare Counseling, Advocacy, Behavorial Health
Women's Music Festivals, Weekends, Travel etc.
  • Cork Women's Fun Weekend
  • REI Women's Hiking
  • AdventureWomen: organizes exceptional women’s only travel groups spots around the globe.
  • Trafalgar: offers women-only guided vacations to various destinations, with local female guides and experts.
  • Road Scholar: provides educational and cultural trips for women of all ages and interests.
  • Adventures in Good Company: creates active and adventurous trips for women who love the outdoors.
  • Intrepid Travel’s Women’s Expeditions: explores local cultures and traditions from a female perspective, with female leaders and hosts.
Take Me Home - Pet of the Week

Fur babies needing family at Animal Samaritans

Shelter — Animal Samaritans


Email me at gabriolakim@gmail.com if you want something posted on the bulletin board, or an event promoted.

Hollywood Times - Valerie Milano

1. The frustrations wrought by medical “gate keepers” on their transgender patients come to life in “Are You Sure?”

https://hollywoodtimes.net/the-frustrations-wrought-by-medical-gate-keepers-on-their-transgender-patients-comes-to-life-in-are-you-sure/



2. Comedy short “Willa Justice: Drag Queen Private Eye” brings campy fun to the inaugural 29 Queer Film Festival

https://hollywoodtimes.net/comedy-short-willa-justice-drag-queen-private-eye-brings-campy-fun-inaugural-29-queer-film-festival/



3. LGBTQ History Alive! meets Katharine V. Forrest

https://hollywoodtimes.net/lgbtq-history-alive-meets-katharine-v-forrest/


Thank you.


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Women’s History


Women, We Should Know -

Jaguarina, real name Ella Hattan, dressed in armor, and holding her broadsword and helmet. One of the greatest swordswomen of the Victorian era, Hattan defeated more than sixty men (half of them fencing masters) on foot and horseback, mostly with the broadsword. She was also proficient with the foil, rapier, dagger, Bowie knife, and in pugilism, having more than once having had fought off a male attacker in the street. She also carried scars on her body as a result of her many contests. She was one of the greatest female martial artists, who deserves to be remembered.

Queen of the Sword (herstory-online.com)

LGBT History Alive with Ronni & Kelly


Podcasts | Ronni

Sanlo

In The News


Lesbian Kansas City Firefighter To Win $1.3 Million Discrimination Settlement - GO Magazine


Charli XCX Surprises MSG Crowd By Bringing Out Special Guests - GO Magazine - I don't know who any of these entertainers are, but they seem to be lesbians.


gomag.com/article/chappell-roan-will-perform-on-snl-for-the-first-time/ At least I have heard the name Chappell Roan


'Agatha All Along' Stars Hail The New Show As A "Gay Explosion" - GO Magazine


The Room Next Door Trailer: Tilda Swinton & Julianne Moore Star in Pedro Almodóvar Movie (msn.com)


History: Look closely to see 'hidden' rock houses, other handmade structures across desert (msn.com)


Rapists will be banned from self-identifying as women, says Police Scotland Chief Constable Jo Farrell | UK News | Sky News

Good news - a major reverse! Previously, Police Scotland stated that suspects would be treated as whatever gender they presented as and that trans-identifying men  would be recorded as female in police systems. If only Canada and States would follow Scotland's and Britian's example instead of threatening prison staff with dismissal and lawsuits if they talk about assaults resulting from ideology without common sense.


Welcome Back - Coffee in the Park

Sept 19th, 10 am - Ruth Hardy Park


There are two parking areas off Tamarisk. We will set up a little to the west of them.


We will bring the coffee and cups. Please bring a snack to share if you'd like. We are looking forward to seeing familiar and new faces.


Please feel free to register if you are interested.

Happening this season


Claire and Cindy are working on monthly meetups for the downtown Village Street Fair on Thursday nights and the College of the Desert Fair on Saturday mornings plus other fun outings throughout the season.


Lez Party Oct 20th 3-7PM


PALM SPRINGS PROMOTE PRESENTS:

LEZ PARTY

BRING ON FALL!

OCT 20TH 3-7PM

Sip, Savor & Groove

GUEST DJ

FUN ENTERTAINMENT

$10 CASH DOOR

PROCEEDS BENEFIT

THE L-FUND 


Low Desert Restaurant & Bar in Smoketree Plaza.

Shann Carr's

Bitch Please

DEC 7th at 3pm  $40 and up


Comedian Shann Carr debuts her new show “Bitch Please” full of silly, snarky and sultry storytelling. Shann has headlined on over 100 gay cruises and thousands of cool gigs worldwide with a warm and easy crossover appeal for truly diverse audiences. She offers a night of laughs you can count on to leave you feeling good about yourself and your community!


Revolution Stage Company Presents: Comedian Shann Carr's BITCH PLEASE (onthestage.tickets)

Queer Salon - Joshua Tree Oct 10-13th


The Festival is 3 full days, accessed daily or also via a four-day pass, which includes camping on-site. We have a Queer Salon campsite, open to all LGBTQIA+ identified festival-goers, and their allies. It is usually a campsite of 6 - 8 ppl, so relatively small but fun within the entire JTMFestival, which hosts anywhere from 300 - 3000 (prior to pandemic). Would love to invite all to attend.


This October 10 - 13 we have some fun stuff! Here is the full schedule : https://joshuatreemusicfestival.com/queer-salon/


Our playshops offer art making, queer faery make-up, gardening info, community histories, writing, playwriting, and circles to share feelings, resources, and needs.  It is a time to be together in a safe space to touch down, before or after heading out to dance to the three days of music - from folk to funk! 



Masters of Melody

A Tribute to Singers Who Shaped History

October 17, 2024

Agua Caliente Casino Palm Springs

​401 East Amado Road Palm Springs, CA 92262

Join Us for Sweet Baby J'ai Presents: Master of Melody: A Tribute to Singers Who Shaped History! Step into a night of enchantment on Thursday, October 17th, as we pay homage to the legendary voices that have left an indelible mark on the world of music. We will take you on a journey through time, celebrating the iconic artists who have defined generations with their unforgettable melodies and timeless hits. This tribute show will feature a lineup of talented performers bringing to life the songs and stories of music’s greatest legends. Each performance promises to capture the essence and spirit of the artists we honor, delivering an evening of pure musical magic.


Sweet Baby J'ai's Masters of Melody, Singers who Shaped History Tickets, Thu, Oct 17, 2024 at 7:00 PM | Eventbrite


The Palm Springs Sunset Music & Comedy Festival



Escape to Palm Springs for a Veterans Weekend getaway filled with music, laughter, and relaxation. Sweet Baby J'ai Presents the Palm Springs Sunset Music & Comedy Festival offers three days of non-stop entertainment, featuring a diverse lineup of jazz, pop, soul, classical, and country music. Join us in our Palm Springs "Jazz Crawl" and explore the city's vibrant music venues. Enjoy delicious food, captivating performances, and unforgettable memories. Food & beverages is not included with ticket price.

 

Use code WEEKENDPASS for 10% off your three-day pass. Must purchase all three days to use promo code

CLICK HERE TO GET YOUR 3 DAY WEEKEND PASS 

Thursday, November 7

I'M SPEAKING: Female Veterans Experiences & Healing

Join us for a powerful gathering where female veterans share their stories, find healing, and reclaim their voices.


Thursday, November 7 · 6 - 7:30pm PST

Mountain View Grille at the Desert Princess

28555 Landau Boulevard Cathedral City, CA 92234

I'M SPEAKING: Female Veterans Experiences & Healing Tickets, Thu, Nov 7, 2024 at 6:00 PM | Eventbrite

Impala Bar & Grill in downtown Palm Springs is closed for summer

Easy/Moderate Hikes - Hikes will resume again in Sept/Oct when the weather cools down.



Registration

2024 Walks - Starting Soon. Regular Friday walk at Butler Abrams - Rancho Mirage - Dogs Welcome


. Email me

kim@lesbiansps.com

The more you walk, the healthier you can become, major study finds (msn.com)

Details and Registration

Movie Meetup

Wednesday - Mary Pickford Theater


Lee with Kate Winslet

Noon at Mary Pickford

Kate Winslet melds into a model turned war photographer in ‘Lee’ | Reuters

Details and Registration

Check This Out - The Lesbian Project Podcast

Episode 42 FREE: Deadloch, pomegranates, bullying at work, and mad studies (thelesbianprojectpod.com)


I love listening to these gals as they argue, debate, and commiserate.

Book and Movie Salon/Club -

2024 Schedule 2nd Mondays 5:30 pm



"What are you doing?" "What I've wanted to do since I first saw you."



Monday, the 14th of October at 5:30p PST/8:30p EST BAM Salon will discuss the movie Snapshots directed by Melanie Mayron, 2018


When a grandmother's secret past collides with her granddaughter's secret future and her daughter's angry present, can the love of three generations be enough to accept decades of deceit. With a simple roll of film it begins.


Snapshots is currently airing on various streaming services including YouTube, tubi, PrimeVideo, Peacock, Freevee.


Flynn and I look forward to discussing this moving portrait of love and family.


Details and Registration

The Palm Springs Cultural Center brings you a season of films directed by women. And we think our timing is pretty good, too! Curated by Deserted Films. It all begins on Sept. 8th with CLUELESS, and lasts through Spring of 2025. It's about women. And it’s about time. TICKETS: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/she-did-it-8-riveting-films-directed-by-women-clueless-tickets-1001604805937?aff=oddtdtcreator

Email terryprod@aol.com for more information. WOMEN'S BASKETBALL -Games are at the Indio Recreation Gym on Tuesday Nights. On Sept 21, they will select teams , and then start in early October 8 through November 19. There are 22 spots available . It is $50. Call Manny at the Center at 760-347-4263 for any additional info. All ages 18+.

This Week's Recommendation


Nobody Wants This on Netflix


Sometimes, I just want something light and frothy that doesn't hurt my brain or make me hate men. This fit the bill.


'Nobody Wants This' Review: Kristen Bell and Adam Brody in Netflix Rom-Com (indiewire.com)



Palm Springs Front Runners & Walkers - Pride 5k (psfr.org)

Sunday, October 20

Pride on the Page 2024 Book Festival

The Palm Springs Public Library Foundation presents the Third Annual Pride on the Page Book Festival Celebrating LGBTQ Authors and Voices.


Pride on the Page 2024 Book Festival Tickets, Sun, Oct 20, 2024 at 10:00 AM | Eventbrite

Weekend of Women - Cherry Grove - Fire Island


https://cg-wow.com/


Here is the link to Antigone Rising & BETTY 

HERE


And here is the link to the Belvedere Ball:

HERE


Sunset Music & Comedy Festival


Nov 9th


Early bird tickets on sale until May 31st


Use promocode EarlySunset for 15% off


Don't miss out!! Tickets for the Palm Springs Sunset Music & Comedy Fest this November are on sale now at a special Mental Health Month discount. Limited-time offer: secure your spot and a dose of future fun!


www.sweetbabyjai.com


Desert Legends


For this month’s seminar information and to register HERE

For more information, events, updates and to sign up for email notifications on



Planning Ahead For LGBTQ Seniors | PALS (palsinthedesert.com)


9:30 to 11 am. 3rd Saturday

September thru June

A Death Cafe is a group-led open conversation about death and dying; and in doing so to live life more fully. It is not a counseling or bereavement group; and there is no agenda, specified topics, or designated outcomes. 


Join the conversation. Bring your curiosity and questions and engage in a discussion about the aspects of death and dying that interest you. 

Please register via the following link. Looking forward to your joining us!


https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYoceCprT8sEtS8CE9CKHzOVvnxbTZvGsf4  

Creating a community that looks out for each other.


Every Monday 6pm via Zoom


https://bit.ly/3RB2o0C




Lesbians Embracing Aging



Lesbians Embracing Aging: An Introduction

The mission of LEA is to encourage and assist LBTQIA women with healthy aging by creating

support networks of socialization, information, and healthcare.


We are forming a hub of LBTQIA Women and allies willing to help one another navigate the

changes and challenges of aging and help make the myriad of available services more accessible.


Please join us for our next meeting as we make progress toward our goals.

If you would like more information, be on our email list or join us for our next meeting TBA Please send an email to

LEAofCoachellaValley@gmail.com



The LEA women:

Kelly Watson, Lauren Nile, Barbara Tyler, Rita Gonzales, Kate Ullman, Ronni Sanlo


Evening Chat Group 5:30pm to 7 pm Every Wednesday


LIDS (Lesbians In The Desert) Wednesday evenings, 5:30 pm - 7ish — join us for a lively Zoom chat, catch up with friends, and make new ones! Open to Lesbians in and out of the Coachella Valley — California — all 50 States — and beyond. Please email NurseJaynes@yahoo.com to receive the invite with Zoom meeting ID & Passcode. Bring a friend! Hosted by Cindy T, Crickett, & Jayne


Hosted by Crickett and Cindy

Register Here

Every Friday is Wine Down Friday’s with the Coachella Valley Ladies of Justice at V-Lounge 5PM-6P. 600m E Tahquitz Canyon Way, Palm Springs.


Network, share info about your business/upcoming event or just drop-by to unwind and make new friends!


Thank you,

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All things Pickleball


For more information about pickleball, including lessons, leagues, and other lesbians playing pickleball - contact Mary Barsaleau.

Mary is a registered Pickleball Ambassador.




Pickleball points: Here are some tips and strategies specifically for seniors (msn.com)

Gay Country Western Dancing - Friday Nights

 

Join the Dance Ranch for a great night of country western dancing, including two-step, waltz, shadow, East and West Coast swing, and line dances. 


It all happens at Step By Step, 316 N. Palm Canyon Drive in Palm Springs.

Admission is $5.

Lesson is at 7 pm. Dancing from 7:30-9:30 pm. 


Dance Ranch Palm Springs is a country western dance group serving the LGBTQ+ community and its friends. Country dancers of all levels are welcome!

Learn more about Dance Ranch and find out what they’re teaching at danceranchps.org.

 

Our history will NOT be hidden!


Not with us two old lesbians and our awesome guests on guard! Our free podcast LGBTQ History Alive! with Ronni and Kelly begins

January 1, 2024. 


Meet the Two Old Lesbians!


Ronni Sanlo, Ed.D. is a retired UCLA professor and LGBTQ Center director, founder of the award-winning Lavender Graduation, and editor of the four volume This Day in LGBTQ History. Kelly Watson, Ph.D, DDS, is a retired recovery center director and business professional, and still and always involved with 12 step recovery.


2024 Schedule - Check it Out!

The L-Fund empowers cis, trans, and queer identifying lesbians through financial crisis assistance as well as grants in the areas of education, the arts, and health and wellness.

If you would like to donate, please find us at https://l-fund.org/


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The Palm Springs Women’s Jazz and Blues Assoc. exists to preserve and foster an appreciation of jazz and blues music and to support female jazz and blues musicians who traditionally struggle for recognition and employment. The festival includes concerts, exhibits, presentations, films, and other events that promote an understanding and enjoyment of the work of women artists.

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