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VOLUME XVI ISSUE NO.6 | JUNE 2024

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Breakthrough
"Productive insight; clear (often sudden) understanding of a complex situation." Free Dictionary

Pop the bubble of conditioned thinking and emerge into the creative realm of "no absolutes," continuous change, uncertainty and unlimited possibilities.

Then, there can be innovation, adaptation and optimal performance.
Performance and Open-minded Mindfulness
Open-minded:  questioning everything, accepting diversity and uncertainty.  

Mindful:  consciously aware; concentrated. 

Foundation for blending process, project, engagement and knowledge management into a cohesive approach to optimize performance.

What Difference Does Practice Make?

By George Pitagorsky

"For most of us, it takes work, intentional applied effort, to stop holding on to the things that get in the way of living as best as possible, i.e., “optimally.” The good news is that the work becomes increasingly easier as you do it until eventually it becomes effortless and self-sustaining."[1]



Someone asked a great question, "What is the difference in my daily moment-to-moment experience because of practice?" They were inquiring about the practical results of meditation and practices like Yoga and Chi Kung (Qigong). We need a good reason for taking the time and effort required to meditate and take on body-mind practices.


Positive Results

In my experience, meditation, yoga, and Chi Kung have led to increasing moments of calm happiness, and contentment. I am better able to manage my anger and other negative emotions and more easily let go of obsessive thinking about the political situation, ecological doom, and the upcoming confrontation with old age, sickness, and death.


I cannot fully attribute my good health to these practices. Still, at 82 I have outlived by two decades my immediate family's history of heart disease, asthma, addiction, and diabetes going back three generations. However, there are many studies on the health effects of Yoga and Chi Kung. These effects include improved immune function, and relief of cancer-related fatigue, low back pain, depression and anxiety, and more.[2]


While the studies are not definitive, they are evidence enough to see for yourself. Practice promises results and the only way to see if the promise is fulfilled is to experiment on yourself.


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Coaching – Wellness, Mindfulness, Self-Awareness, Performance


If you feel that you can be happier and more effective but something is in the way, consider coaching by George Pitagorsky.

 

Whether it is a session or two, or a longer or more structured program, George can help you breakthrough the barriers and transform you life.


Schedule an appointment to explore whether a coaching relationship is right for you.

www.self-awareliving.com


Check out my book The Peaceful Warrior's Path: Optimal Wellness through Self-Aware Living

Possible Side Effects

But be careful because studies also point to potential negative effects like "headache, dizziness or vertigo, distension of head, tinnitus, stuffiness in the chest and worsening shortness of breath, heart-pounding or palpitations, muscular soreness or pain, and so on."[3]


Many of these effects may be caused by a heightened awareness of existing conditions or from anxiety resulting from a confrontation with previously subconscious issues like past traumas and fear of death or illness. Other symptoms may be caused by overdoing physical and mental exercises.


Personal Program

Getting positive results relies on finding the right program for you. The practices we are talking about are not one-size-fits-all. You start with a yoga class or meditation training and you "play with it" so it fits your lifestyle. Then you tune into the way it is affecting you and adjust.


Tuning into your body and mind requires mindfulness - objectively observing what is going on. Are you backing off because you can't take a bit of discomfort? Are you pushing yourself too hard? Are you expecting too much too soon?


The Difference

So, what difference does it make? For me, the biggest difference is in the capacity to accept things as they are and let go of the attachments and aversions that cause unnecessary stress.


Anger and other emotions still arise. The same with negative thoughts, aggression, selfishness, etc. I still get frustrated with computer glitches, long waits for support, people blaring their horns to disturb the little peace that we have in the heart of the city, and idiotic bots asking stupid questions. I am still ruminating about how people can support self-serving authoritarian leaders.


The difference is that I recognize these self-imposed stresses and can choose to let go into a quiet mind that experiences the sky, trees, sounds, and smells more clearly and appreciates the gift of mindful awareness.


The Process

First, you analyze the options, then you start practice, overcome resistance, and even as soon as a month or two, you recognize positive changes. You recognize distracting thoughts and feelings as they arise and observe them dissolve on their own. When they don't, you apply a remedy, for example, a mantra or aphorism that replaces the thought or a breathing technique that relieves tension. With positive results and persistence, practice becomes a self-sustaining part of life.


There is a paradox. The reason you practice is to get positive results, yet to get the best results, drop your expectations. Practice and every so often take a moment to reflect on the difference between how you were and how you are until you let go into the flow of optimal living.


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[1] Pitagorsky, George, "The Peaceful Warrior's Path", Self-aware Living, 2023, p. 1.

[2] See the 2022 paper “Yoga and Qigong for Health: Two Sides of the Same Coin?” https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9312231/#:~:text=Reychler%20et%20al.,adherence%20and%20long%2Dlasting%20effects.

[3] “Safety of Qigong Protocol for an overview of systematic reviews” https://journals.lww.com/md-journal/fulltext/2018/11020/safety_of_qigong__protocol_for_an_overview_of.49.aspx#:~:text=At%20the%20same%20time%2C%20Qigong,the%20arms%20or%20legs%2C%20profuse



Emotional Support for Ukraine  
       
To support people experiencing the horrors taking place in Ukraine, we have published and wish to distribute freely

"How to Manage Difficult Emotions and How to Support Others"

in English and Ukrainian. Please pass the toolkit on to anyone who can benefit from it or can distribute it further.


Emotional Support for Ukraine is a small ad hoc group of coaches seeking to help relieve the suffering of those under fire, refugees, and helpers across the world. 
How to be Happy Even When You Are Sad, Mad or Scared:

How to be happy...How to be Happy Even When You Are Sad, Mad or Scared is available on Amazon.com. It is a book for children of all ages (including those in adult bodies). Buy it for the children in your life so they can be better able to “feel and deal” - feel and accept their emotions and deal with them in a way that avoids being driven by them. You can order the book at https://www.amazon.com/How-Happy-Even-When-Scared/dp/1072233363
Performance and Open-minded Mindfulness
Open-minded: questioning everything, accepting diversity and uncertainty. 
 
Mindful: consciously aware; concentrated. 

Foundation for blending process, project, engagement and knowledge management into a cohesive approach to optimize performance.

By George Pitagorsky

Success is measured in how well and how regularly you meet expectations. But what exactly are expectations, and how do you effectively manage them when multiple priorities and personalities are involved?
Using the case study of a Project Manager coordinating an organizational transition, this Managing Expectations book explores how to apply a mindful, compassionate, and practical approach to satisfying expectations in any situation. George Pitagorsky describes how to make sure expectations are rational, mutually understood, and accepted by all those with a stake in the project. This process relies on blending a crisp analytical approach with the interpersonal skills needed to negotiate win-win understandings of what is supposed to be delivered, by when, for how much, by who, and under what conditions.

Managing Conflict in Projects
By George Pitagorsky

Managing Conflict in Projects: Applying Mindfulness and Analysis for Optimal Results by George Pitagorsky charts a course for identifying and dealing with conflict in a project context.

Pitagorsky states up front that conflict management is not a cookbook solution to disagreement-a set of prescribed actions to be applied in all situations. His overall approach seeks to balance two aspects of conflict management: analysis based on a codified process and people-centered behavioral skills.

The book differentiates conflict resolution and conflict management. Management goes beyond resolution to include relationship building that may serve to avoid conflict or facilitate resolution if it occurs.
 

The Zen Approach to Project Management 
By George Pitagorsky

Projects are often more complex and stressful than they need to be. Far too many of them fail to meet expectations. There are far too many conflicts. There are too few moments of joy and too much anxiety. But there is hope. It is possible to remove the unnecessary stress and complexity. This book is about how to do just that. It links the essential principles and techniques of managing projects to a "wisdom" approach for working with complex, people-based activities.


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