A Definition of Island
Time
Jenni
Lansberg
What
exactly is the definition of "Island Time"?
To most of
you it probably goes something like this.. Taking life slow and
finding that some things don't necessarily need to assume a
schedule, right?

Well, the more time I spend in the
Caribbean the term "Island Time" seems to take on a capacious
direction, and to define it would be a task beyond what Merriam
Webster offers, I'm certain.

One person told me that Island Time to
them meant a time later than what the clock says. Another
concluded that it meant "the unwillingness to conform to the norms
and structure of a governed society".

I agree to some extent to both responses,
but I feel "Island Time" more so encompasses a way of life in
relation to the attitude you have about the world and the people
around you.

Isn't it
ironic that our fellow islanders have far less worldly possessions,
and yet their love for life is more enriched simply by their
enjoyment of a passing moment? They are living Island Time, because they
are not concerned by yesterday nor consumed by tomorrow but fully
involved in today.

Captain
Rick would certainly be my first lesson.
As I'm sure
all of you know, Capt. Rick was not born in the islands but rather
Canada.

Boy, is he living island time! His
typical response to my questions involving anything that has
something related to time commitments is as
follows;
Me: Rick, how much longer do you think you'll
be??
Rick: (5-10 second delay in
response) ummmmmm..... not too much longer.
Me: Not much longer as in 5 minutes or
an hour?
Rick: (scratches his head, leans back in his
chair.. another 5 second pause ....grins slightly...another 2
second pause...) hmmmmmm soon, I suppose...

What I've
learned: There is no changing someone whose watch
is set to Island Time. Captain Rick's schedule consists of "soon,
maybe, possibly, I suppose, that's fine," and my all time favorite
"not much longer". I've learned to admire this about him because
he has taught me that life shouldn't be based on constraints or
excessive obligations.

So, this
brings me to my second course in understanding "Island
Time".
My classroom for this revelation was Clarke's Court Marina in
Grenada.

It was a little different than my first
lesson, but Icertainly
feel that this experience further helped me to develop my own
personal definition. After our 2 week holiday in Canada, Rick and
I were welcomed by all of our fellow cruiser friends at Clarke's
Court and were entertained with many stories about how "Lucky", our
parrot, brought even more sunshine to their Caribbean
day.

You see, the reason why this meant so
much to us was not only their devoted involvement in the care of
our beloved "Lucky", it was the simple fact that they truly
enjoyed the laughter and company our parrot gave in return.

This exchange was as timeless as it was
precious. Lucky wasn't a burden but rather an added joy, an
extension of an Island Time gift.

What
I've learned:
A favor for
someone doesn't have to be an inconvenience. It is what you make
it as you give of your own time. May you find happiness in helping
one another in a bind and realize that your generosity means so
much.... that within time you and others reap a wholeness of
spirit. When you are on Island Time, you are able to turn a task
into an opportunity to be a friend and find some unexpected
joy!

My third and final lesson takes place on
Hog Island's "Roger's Beach BBQ".

It's a Sunday evening where great friends
old and new come together as the sun sets with an array of
beautiful oranges and yellows laced with turquoise water.

This is a time when the salty sailor tells
a tale of sea voyage or exchanges ideas on how to fix a broken
head.


Either way, it's a time when we all come
together as a community to celebrate the closing of another week.
On Hog Island a single moment seems to stand still, and the sunset
always lasts a lifetime.

Make sure you bring the flashlight on your
dinghy because there is no curfew. The party ends when the last
sailor unties his line and motors into the night.

What I've
learned: Those moments when time stands still and
the sun sets into the night sky are those we remember forever when
we share them with friends. The magic lies in the "Island Time".
It's that place where forever meets a moment passing.

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enjoy!
Cheers!
Jenni
'Sophisticated
Lady'