Although women can be incredibly different, there is one common denominator we share when it comes to what we desire from a partner…A sense of connection.
The meaning of connection tends to be subjective when examining relationships. A disconnection many times is labeled as a “gut feeling” by women explaining, “something is just not right”. Commonly, feeling alienated, distant, detached, or even abandoned.
“Connection” is a term used to describe various forms of bonds, relationships, or associations between individuals. It can encompass different aspects of human interaction and can be understood in several contexts:
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Emotional Connection: Emotional connection refers to the bond formed between individuals based on shared emotions, empathy, and understanding. It often involves feeling a deep sense of closeness and attachment to someone, whether it’s in a romantic relationship, friendship, or family. Emotional connection is many times difficult to describe in words and felt deeply.
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Interpersonal Connection: Interpersonal connection refers to the quality of interactions and relationships between people. It involves effective communication, mutual respect, and a sense of rapport. Building positive interpersonal connections is essential for healthy relationships and social well-being. This connection generally grabs the meaning of quality friendships, family relationships, social events, and volunteering in the community.
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As we continue our theme this month focusing on the needs of a woman in the relationship, I’d like to offer over twenty statements that I have found to be extremely beneficial for women to hear. In my previous article “What Women Want“, I mention that although women can be incredibly different, there is one common denominator we share when it comes to what we desire from a partner…A sense of connection.
In my practice and experience, women in my office describe emotional intimacy as one of the most important aspects of connection, which involves a deep, meaningful, and often vulnerable connection with their partner. It includes sharing thoughts, feelings, and vulnerabilities, as well as feeling heard, understood, and valued. Spending “quality time together” commonly means talking.
Here are over twenty statements that women desperately need to hear from their partners:
1. “I will always be in your corner”
Even if you have a healthy dose of self-confidence, it’s nice to know someone supports you. Whether you’re in line for a promotion or perhaps a new career opportunity or maybe there’s a situation with a close friend. It’s helpful to know there’s someone behind you to boost that confidence when you might have a moment of uncertainty.
2. “I’m rooting for you” “You can do this” “I believe in you”
People need cheerleaders. We all want someone who believes in us. This proves to be true with our partners. People tend to overthink their situations and life. When alone, this escalates. Having someone we love believe in us will eventually teach us to believe in ourselves.
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Women are resilient. Women will be steadfast in intimate relationships they find worthwhile. They tightly hold on to hope and the belief the relationship will someday return to what it once seemed to be. Women tend to feel unhappy and dissatisfied for long periods of time (sometimes years) before they end the relationship. They will plead, ask, beg, nag, cry, pout, yell, and threaten to leave relationships they are committed to. Women do have a breaking point and when women are truly “done”, their partner generally reports being “shocked” or “blown away” with the news she is gone.
Between the four walls of my office, I have heard repeatedly that lack of emotional connection or intimacy is the primary reason women lose the love they once felt with their partner.
Women value emotional connection and intimacy in relationships. When they feel emotionally disconnected or that their emotional needs are not being met, it can be a significant reason for ending the relationship. This may manifest as a lack of affection, communication, or understanding between partners.
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Lack of emotional connection or intimacy: Many women value emotional connection and intimacy in relationships. When they feel emotionally disconnected or that their emotional needs are not being met, it can be a significant reason for ending the relationship. This may manifest as a lack of affection, communication, or understanding between partners.
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Communication problems or conflicts: Communication is a vital aspect of any relationship, and when it breaks down or becomes filled with frequent conflicts and misunderstandings, it can lead to dissatisfaction and ultimately, the end of the relationship. Poor communication can create feelings of frustration, resentment, and a sense of being unheard or unappreciated.
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Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want
Hosted by Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
This podcast takes you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across.
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Men's Survival Guide to Women
Hosted by David Crowther
Learn from their mistakes, understand women on a whole new level and avoid the pitfalls that held them back. All by listening to this Podcast wherever you happen to be.
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The New Man Podcast: Understanding Women's Emotions
Hosted by Tripp Lanier
Therapist and relationship coach, Alyson Schwabe Lanier, is here to help us understand women’s emotions and give us some practical direction to use when things go from bad to worse.
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RECOMMENDED BOOKS & AUDIO
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The Man's Guide to Women: Scientifically Proven Secrets from the Love Lab About What Women Really Want
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Women Who Love Too Much: When You Keep Wishing and Hoping He'll Change
Audible Audiobook
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Understanding Women:
Unlock the Mystery
Audible Audiobook
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How to Understand Women: The Secret Behind How They Think and What They Really Want
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Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.
I want each person I work with to know they do have a voice, and by becoming accountable, they can change their lives for the better.
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CRT, CCDC, CACC
Life Coach & Counselor
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