What is a Facilitator?

By Karen Gimnig

Facilitation is a thing we talk about a lot in cohousing. We ask our members to facilitate meetings. We may look for facilitation training. We use the word facilitator, but what does it mean?


My now-husband asked me that question early in our dating. It was Covid time and I was spending a lot of hours facilitating meetings online. He overheard bits and was intrigued. In his forty years of work, he’d participated in thousands of meetings. He’d never seen anyone facilitate one.  


Facilitation, I told him, is the art and skill of guiding a group through a time together toward a shared goal. Successful facilitation begins with a clear definition of what wants to be achieved in a meeting and ends with a stronger sense of belonging and commitment to the group purpose. What happens in between depends on the goal of the meeting, the time available, the culture and traditions of the group, the skill of the facilitator, and the needs of the participants.  


Many people enter cohousing with experience like my husband’s. They think facilitation means standing in front of a group, naming topics and calling on speakers.  This is a start, of course, but it often leads to meetings that are all cognitive, lack deep listening, and miss the deeper conversations that will reveal better solutions to problems and build more community engagement. 


Facilitator Training can build on a basic skill set or start from the beginning. In training, facilitators learn how to prepare for a successful meeting, how to encourage broad and full participation, how to share information and welcome the emotional wisdom of the group, and how to seek genuine consensus, all while deepening the connection and belonging of the group.  


This approach to facilitation can be life-changing for communities and their members. For more information about facilitation and our upcoming training, see the blog posts listed below join us for “The Power of Facilitation” on January 30th or check out our blog for "stories from the field." These examples, based on real-world stories, demonstrate what facilitation truly looks like.


Know you want to dive deeper? Register for our Facilitator Training by January 20th and receive an additional, early-bird discount.

Benefiting the larger community: Shepherd Village helps less fortunate 


Most senior cohousing communities value giving back to the larger community in which they live. This can take various forms, from volunteer work to donations of cash, goods or food. The holidays often prompt an extra burst of community involvement. 


Shepherd Village in West Virginia is one such community. They published the following article in their August 2024 newsletter.



Read more on our blog

Upcoming Events

The Power of Facilitation


Thursday, January 30th

3-4:30pm MT


Price: $45 (free for CohoUS members)


What does a facilitator do? Why do we need one? What makes a good facilitator? Should we all take a turn? We’ll touch on all these topics and take your questions introduction to facilitation.

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Facilitator Training



February 13 - March 20th

Thursdays, 3-5pm MT


Price: $360 ($270 for CohoUS members)


Receive an additional discount if you register by January 20th!



In this course we’ll cover the structures that make meetings run well and the artistry of creative planning and intuition that build safety and connection. Like most skills, facilitation comes more easily to some than others, but everyone can improve. This course is full of opportunities for participation and will meet you where you are. You will return to your community better able to lead meetings your members will want to attend.

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Join us for our free monthly events to learn more about cohousing!

The Commons


Curious about cohousing but don’t know where to start? Want to meet with cohousing newbies and experts alike?


This (free) monthly gathering will include a Cohousing 101 presentation and ample time to connect and ask questions. Join us once, or every time – we’ll be here every month on the 10th at 10am MT.

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Senior Cohousing Q&A


Want to learn more about what it's like to build, join, and participate in cohousing as you age?


The Senior Cohousing Advocates Committee will be facilitating an informal conversation for those interested in senior cohousing and/or senior living in intergenerational cohousing. This (free) event will take place every month on the 20th at 10am MT.

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We’re shaping the future of the Cohousing Association of the United States (CohoUS) and want your input!

Join us as we reimagine CohoUS, and co-create a vision for a more connected future. Your insights and ideas are essential as we shape a vision that reflects the needs and dreams of our community of communities.


We’re hosting two 90-minute focus groups to hear directly from you—whether you’re an actively engaged member or someone who hasn’t yet joined.


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