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The First Sunday of Lent 2026
The Lent of my youth, and that of many reading this, was one of sacrifice (denial), and personal prayer for the forgiveness of sin. The focus was on what we were giving up and, along the 40-day journey, we checked in with each other to see how it was going. One vivid memory from my childhood Lent was the rule against eating meat on Friday. We genuinely believed that eating meat on Friday during Lent was a sin.
I checked in with my sister to ask about her memories of Lent in our household of six children. Given that she is nearly 10 years younger than I am, her experience, while similar, had a gentler tone. She agreed that the rule of abstaining from meat on Fridays was a prominent memory, adding that she also remembered Lent as a time apart, a special time we observed as a family. She reminded me that she came of age after Vatican II, when the spirit of the law balanced the letter of the law.
While almsgiving, fasting and prayer remain the prominent themes of Lenten practice, the way we observe them has evolved. Fr. Patrick Mullen, pastor of Padre Serra Parish in Camarillo, shared a list in the weekly bulletin that expanded on the lists of Pope Francis and Pope Leo. The list looks at fasting through a broad lens and includes consideration of fasting from:
- despair
- taking God or other people for granted
- blaming others for personal failures
- judging others by surface details
- teasing
- nagging,
- impatience,
- disrespect,
- envy
- eating poorly
- careless driving or bicycle riding
- loving things more than people or God
- giving bad example
- any untruth, lies
- self-centeredness
- blindness to others' needs
- gluttony with food or drink
- thinking the worst of others
- insecurity, accepting honestly one's own strengths
The change that would take place if even one of these fasting suggestions were followed for the forty days of Lent would certainly bring a change of heart. It would also be a gift to those who live and work with us.
Richard Rohr is quoted as saying, “If, in reading the Gospels, we do not hear Jesus speaking to our contemporary situation, we are missing their meaning.” Today, we hear of the temptations Jesus faced as he prayed alone in the desert for forty days and nights. Satan offered to assuage his physical need for hunger, test his trust in God, and give him unlimited power over the world. Jesus rejected each temptation with words that left no doubt of his belief and trust in God.
We can relate to these temptations. They speak to our physical, spiritual, and emotional needs – our appetites, faith, and yearning for status and success. Each is a human need that must be continually checked, as each can derail us if misused. While few of us can retreat and pray alone for forty days, we do have the freedom to spend some time each day in prayer, asking for the wisdom to live in accordance with God’s will. That might be enough for Lent this year. In the quiet it is possible that things unimagined will be revealed.
Whatever choice each of us makes to observe Lent this year, let it be gentle and nurturing. Let it bring greater awareness of God into our lives.
Peace,
Anne
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