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February is a month that reminds us of connection -- of showing up for one another. I am guessing many of you thought I would reference Valentine’s Day, but I was actually thinking about the lady who blocked traffic on an arterial, jumped out of her car with no coat or gloves, and gave me a push as I had somehow managed to high center my car at a stop sign in the snow.
While I yelled my appreciation out the window, she shouted back, “I got you, momma.” It made me bust out laughing and smile deep all the way to Wichita State.
See, she didn’t have to do that. It would have been much easier, warmer, and safer for her to drive on. But she showed up for me, a stranger.
Each month, regional city/county managers come together in our Local Government Network for a virtual (and quarterly, in-person) meeting to discuss issues impacting local governments. Experienced managers share wisdom. New managers share new approaches. No one has to show up, but they do to connect and to serve each other as well as their communities.
The PPMC provides staff support to six associations. All have a volunteer board of public servants with many other responsibilities. They do this to build connections, ensure educational opportunities, and support each other. They don’t have to show up, but they do.
Last week, through our literacy work with Wichita Collective Impact, more than 20 caregivers, 40 kids, a dozen volunteers, and several nonprofit / public school professionals gathered to support Family Literacy Night at Washington Accelerated Learning Elementary School. Wichita State College of Education provided tools and resources to help parents with literacy at home, volunteers made meals and entertained kids, and community came together. No one had to show up, but they did.
Public service is essential and only happens when people decide to show up, creating space for different perspectives, shared learning, and collective action. Our democracy depends on each of us making civic friendship a priority. The easy road is to point out what is going wrong or what should have happened. The hard road is getting out of the car in the cold and giving someone a push when they are stuck in the snow with a cheerful call of, “I got you, momma.”
Warmest regards,
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