When Both of Us Own a Problem: The Six Steps of the No-Lose Method
Many of you already know a problem solving method and if you took P.E.T., you learned this one. So here's either new information for you or a good, basic reminder for the next time you find yourself in a conflict with your kids, your spouse/partner-or anyone!
Set the Stage. Before using the No-Lose Method, the people involved need to understand the method and agree to use it to solve the conflict or quarrel.