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When You Can Do Nothing
-Outside Your Control-

by Selacia

No matter where you live in the world, right now is a tense and uncertain time. It's human nature to want to do something when you see society in a meltdown and you're unsure how this will impact you and your future. In this article I outline specific steps you can take, that when you take them will help you sleep better tonight and find more inner peace the next few days.


As I outlined last week, we're sitting on a huge cusp of change. Our entire world is impacted - so are we as individuals. Since what's happening is so unprecedented, we naturally get nervous and want to find a sense of control - or at least answers that help convince us all will be okay. In fact, the more uncertainty we face, the more we cling to our desire to control. As part of that, we want to DO something to feel we are taking an active role in our life experience.

Below are examples of 7 things triggering the human need for control, 7 life situations we cannot control, and 5 things you can do to navigate this juncture.

Happenstance triggering human need for control:
1.  Chaos
2.  Uncertainty
3.  Social unrest
4.  Volatile news
5.  Misinformation
6.  Global pandemic
7.  Polarized society

Situations in life you cannot control:
1.  Change
2.  Weather
3.  Future
4.  Past
5.  Traffic
6.  Opinions of other people
7.  Outcome of election after you voted

Our Big Challenge Now

A big challenge now is our ego-desire to want answers immediately, and to see outcomes unfold in a way that we can accept. Our common sense and inner wisdom - when we listen to it - remind us that it's silly to insist on instant answers or guarantees of outcomes. However, when we feel that stakes are high, our conditioned ego-self can override our common sense.

5 Things You Can Do Now

If you are stressed about an election result or some other life-changing result - factor in the stages involved in happenstance. Outcomes unfold in stages, as do all changes. Sometimes the stages are in the background, undetectable to those not familiar with how things unfold.

The November 3 US elections are an example. There are laws and procedures that can differ from state to state. Oftentimes election outcomes aren't officially known for days or longer. Factor in the pandemic to what I describe above - and how it radically changed how and when people voted - meaning we have longer periods of vote counting and knowing results. Fact check information you take in - many things are not as they appear, and we now live in times of authoritarianism involving no moral compass. Related to that, look for evidence to back up allegations and threats.

Strive to see the big picture. Many issues we collectively face are impacted by a long history of societal dysfunction. The outmoded needs to be dismantled, but it will take time - especially in a polarized society.

Allow for surprises and delays. Whether you are waiting for a job offer or following an issue like an election that causes you stress, remember that these are unusual times. Many things are delayed, and historic surprises can occur.

Apply patience. The chaos and polarization we've experienced in 2020 won't disappear anytime soon. Many wounds must be healed. Regardless of who is America's president in 2021 - it will take time to address the country's polarized society, the pandemic, broken systems, compromised international alliances, and dismantled institutions needed for effective government and international relations.

Find something daily to feel positive about. This will boost your mood, help your sleep, and make you more productive.

I look forward to your feedback on these themes and knowing how I can serve you in an expanded way. Feel free to contact me at my website.

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November 14 New Moon Global Meditation
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November 14 New Moon
This new moon, on its own, is a powerful catalyst for transformation and opening new doors. Beyond that, other planetary energies and the chaotic state of our global society mean that this moon's impact will be magnified.
Note: on November 12 ahead of this moon Jupiter will conjunct Pluto for the 3rd time in 2020. An event happening only every 13 years or so, this 3rd alignment provides opportunity to apply insights and awareness one has gained this year - opening the door for positive large-scale achievements and manifesting the fruits of one's efforts and learning.

December 14 New Moon with Solar Eclipse
This December moon with eclipse will be the preparatory to what has been heralded as the really big event of 2020 - The Great Jupiter-Saturn conjunction on the December 21 solstice.
That alignment happens in a 20-year cycle - signaling the beginning of something brand-new. Previous such alignments occurred in times of revolution, the fall of empires, and other mega historical events.
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Your Guide To This Rare Year Of Upheaval & Change
In this book, I describe the happenstance and energies of 2020 and provide insights about our potentials during this rare year. For context I describe themes continuing this year and how to understand them with a long view.

A year setting the foundation for 2020s. To help you understand just how pivotal 2020 is to our future, I outline themes unfolding now that will continue throughout the decade. This is a long view and big picture perspective of what we have in store - and how to best prepare.

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Resilience & Self-Awareness in Crisis

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  • Interpreting Symbols & The Esoteric

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Selacia recently wrote this on Facebook for context:
"In 2020 humanity is experiencing an unprecedented spiritual initiation. Our norms have been upended, our daily life disrupted, and our views about countless things turned upside down. It’s like the ground we stood on has disappeared. We are being prepared, in fact, for more of this during the 2020s. What we learn about ourselves and how we respond to this year’s initiation sets the stage for what unfolds next. When you feel overwhelmed or disheartened, keep this big picture in mind."
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Astrology sessions on a regular basis are a must for this rare junction. We haven't had a time like this before. Much is shifting within us, and in the collective we engage with. Planetary energies impact us, even if we know nothing about them or aren't in touch with our astrology and how those energies line up with our personal chart.

The 2020s will involve countless changes and a mega restructuring of our lives. Knowing how the planetary energies impact us personally provides an essential roadmap to our personal and spiritual transformation. If we know we have an "energy opportunity window", for example, to advance our career or initiate/enhance a key relationship, simply knowing that helps us prepare on an inner level and take actions.
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