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SUPPORTING LOVED ONES EXPERIENCING APATHY CAUSED BY DEMENTIA:
IDENTIFY WHERE THEY FIND JOY. Art can be a great way to engage.
Favorite music, played or sung along to, can be helpful.
REMINISCE AND ASK QUESTIONS ABOUT THE PAST. Photos from childhood and trips and vacations from the past can stimulate interest as well.
INTRODUCE SMALL AMOUNTS OF ACTIVITY AT A TIME. If an activity seems overwhelming, learn to be flexible and adjust it. Short periods of time that involve engagement can be quite rewarding if one is in tune with a pace that is responsive to the moment. Coming back to it later can also be effective. Sensitivity to interest level is key.
EMPHASIZE THE PROCESS OVER THE OUTCOME. Help them to initiate and allow them to enjoy the process. Working on a puzzle, as an example, can be collaborative and mutually enjoyable. The goal to keep in sight: quality of connection and engagement as the end game. Collaboration over competition.
HAVE PATIENCE: Avoid expressing frustration or disappointment. Be clear in communicating; use a gentle tone. Focus on what they CAN do, not what they CAN'T.
PROVIDE POSITIVE FEEDBACK: Set them up for success. Focus on what they like to do, what they are good at doing. Make sure they feel included and rewarded for trying to participate.
These strategies can help the person experiencing apathy related to dementia feel less alienated and more valuable and productive. It is important to take into consideration the cognitive and physical functioning variables of each individual. "Flexibility in the process, with a willingness to experiment using gentle engagement, can be mutually rewarding.
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