"Enforcers of Patriarchy" Murder Girls and Women with Implied Authority from Our Culture

Reading Carol Lee Flinders' book, At the Root of This Longing, is like being hit with a bolt of lightening called "Truth." She writes with profound insight about violence perpetrated against females throughout history, culminating with the murder of Polly Klaas - a 12-year-old girl who lived in Flinders' home town of Petaluma, California. Polly was abducted from her bedroom at knife point and callously murdered by a man named Richard Allen Davis in 1993. The passages that hit me the hardest follow (the bold-face emphasis is mine):

"I had kept such a silence for some time, and the effort had cost me dearly. Polly Klaas's death was a real watershed, because I simply could not look at it, as I once might have, in isolation. Its resemblance to the only two other violent deaths that had ever touched my life was just not to be denied. The truth that forced itself upon me now involved a connection that I'd been close to making for some time but had resisted. It was that the men who deal out violence upon women and children -- the rapists, the kidnappers, the molesters, the pornographers -- are the unacknowledged but systematically groomed 'enforcers' of a system of values and priorities that it seemed to me inaccurate to identify as anything but patriarchy."

Flinders goes on to explain that her husband Tim, who teaches fifth- and sixth-grade kids in a school located near Polly's school, reached a similarly disturbing conclusion.

"One morning as he stood before his class trying to talk about galaxies and black holes, the hum of twelve-year-old girls all around, he went absolutely blank. For a moment all he could hear was a voice inside: It could have been one of these girls, one of my own students.

"That first insight set off a kind of chain reaction that he would describe later in his journal: ' When her body was found, and we learned what had happened, and I felt the devastation in the faces of my girl students, the voice got more insistent: she was one of my students. What happened to Polly that night, it was clear, had happened to them all. They would never be the same again.'

"But his grasp of things enlarged still more: 'During the week after Polly's body was found, and details concerning her alleged kidnapper and murderer came into focus, I realized that he was one of my own, too. I wasn't prepared for this. . .'

"Tim experienced his connection with Davis in two different ways. As a teacher, he knew firsthand that 'Richard Allen Davis is sitting right now in fifth-grade classrooms all across the country, alienated, abused, angry, helpless, with little sense of right and wrong, and with nothing to lose.' Teachers see these kids, they know what direction they're headed, and they know what it would take to redirect them -- know in fact, that in many cases it wouldn't take that much. They know of such kids, and know how poorly our educational system is equipped to intervene.

"But the connection was not just that of a teacher to a student; as an adult male, Tim also knew 'that Davis was on a continuum with every other man in this culture.' The utter contempt for women that had allowed him to destroy a young girl was abnormal only in degree. Like me, Tim had been reluctant to read this crime as an expression of patriarchy; we'd all rather have classed it with earthquakes, meteor showers, bolts of lightening . . . We'd rather have demonized the act and distanced it from everything familiar. But then he saw a quotation attributed to Polly's alleged kidnapper, describing a violent assault on a woman Davis had abducted several years earlier: 'We both got something out of it'

"This is the timeless, terrible rationalization Tim recognized, of men who rape women: the great lie that justifies not just the serial rapist but the college boy, as well, who just decides to 'push things along.' Try as we might to place Davis outside the norms of human behavior, he is not the utter aberration we would like to believe. 'He is part of a male culture,' Tim wrote, 'that bolstered his feelings, however bent they might have been, however distorted or self-serving or even irrational. At the center of that culture, driving it, is the understanding that sex is domination and that women want it to be. And whenever any man tells a lurid joke or rents a pornographic video or brags about last night's conquest, we've done our little bit to perpetuate it.'"

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How does Flinders' insight tie to the murder of Mrs. Marilyn Sheppard?

Evidence strongly suggests that Marilyn was murdered by an "enforcer of patriarchy." And if Coroner Sam Gerber and Cleveland detectives had been open to finding the truth . . .; if their investigation had been professional and thorough . . .; if they had not worn blinders concerning Dr. Sam Sheppard . . . it is very likely that the lives of at least two other women would have been saved.