MEMO'S LETTERS FROM LOVE CAFE                                         


November 6, 2012


Wisdom and Happiness quiz

Please answer these questions very honestly without deceiving yourself because if you escape from unhappiness by deception then it will run after you like a dark shadow all your life. So please take your time to think carefully before you answer in order to get a true result because the first step towards true happiness is to be fully aware of unhappiness.


1-Can you sleep very well?

2-Do you really love what you do for a living?

3-Are you very fit physically?

4-Can you be happy without a cause and without depending on an object of any kind like your car, boyfriend, money etc.?

5- Do you have an adventurous spirit who likes living dangerously?

6- Do you often do things in which you feel very creative?

7-Do you enjoy being alone sometimes doing nothing silently without people around you? Have you been silently alone this way anytime in this past week?

8-Are you aware of the beauty of the nature like a sunset, the stars, the moon...etc. at least once a day for a minimum duration of 10 seconds each time you are aware? Have you been aware today?

9-Can you be happy with your life as it is in this present moment without thinking of a past or future happiness? Are you happy right now just because you are alive?

10-Can you very easily stay without any alcohol, smoking, legal or illegal drugs for a month? Have you had a month like this in this past one year?

11-Can you easily sit quietly doing nothing, for at least 10 minutes without being occupied with anything whatsoever? Have you had such 10 minutes in this past one week?

12-Does nature actually have a very important place in your life?

13-Are you a very simple person inwardly and also outwardly without desiring too much of luxury?

14-Can you simply enjoy things of life without being attached to them?

15-Are you seriously interested in finding a true and deeper meaning of life?

16-Are you free from authority in your inner life so that you are the teacher and the student on the path towards happiness?

17- Do you care for your health perfectly?

18-If you have to swim to a secluded island from a sinking ship could you be peacefully able to accept the fact that you might have to live there alone for the rest of your life never being able to see your loved ones again?

19- Can you live with only proper food, clothes and shelter for a year and be happy or you need more to be happy?

20-Are you ready and prepared to peacefully welcome death to your house anytime even if you hear your door is being knocked on now?


Please count the total number of "YES" answers you have given and see your happiness and wisdom state from below scale.

0-3     YES      Very unhappy

4-7     YES      Unhappy

8-11   YES      Will survive

12-15  YES      Happy

16-18  YES     Very happy and wise

19      YES      Ecstatically happy and supremely wise

20      YES      The "enlightened" one



 Copyright 2012



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                        THE SECRET KEY


 The lone tree of the mountain tops whispered through silence;

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"There is your beloved living in the kingdom of happiness

Dancing in bliss in the secret garden of love

What you begin to see is the door to this kingdom

What you should find is the secret key


Look for the beloved in the setting sun of far horizons

Search for her where the moon touches the waters

Get intoxicated with her smile shining through the stars

Smell her eternal beauty in the fresh morning breeze


Fall desperately in love with her and get lost

Rejoice in this love and dispel the darkness of fear

Let the light of joy touch the heart in this mad love

Free the all-consuming passion to light the fire

Listen to the song of the ecstatic unity


Memo Ozdogan
Memo Ozdogan

In that song lover becomes one with the beloved

Beloved then becomes life itself

And such love for her

The secret key..."


Memo Ozdogan

Copyright 2012



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From his early twenties, Memo Ozdogan has had great passion and personal interest in exploring western and eastern philosophy in order to see and understand different approaches towards the subject of living. He has delved into modern psychology, the original teachings of the Buddha, J.Krishnamurti, Rumi, Ancient Greek philosophy, ancient forms of spirituality and new age spirituality.


After deeply studying all these various approaches, he tried to find out the original truth in each of these different approaches without becoming a static follower of any of them. He quotes: "life is a very dynamic and living thing which is ever-changing, and therefore no philosophy of the past can be applied directly to life which takes place in the present moment. Philosophy or teachings might point out an important truth and much can be learned from them but one should never get stuck at any of them since life must be explored from moment to moment and that means one must continue one's inner journey of discovery at this present moment. This is the only door opening to the path of true happiness and liberation".


Mr. Ozdogan, from time to time, practices such secret key life coaching as his hobby because of his deep passion to further his studies in these matters. His occasional coaching has included some celebrities and fortune 500 CEOs while he was residing in USA in 2001. He desires to share his understanding with others by having such life coaching sessions on finding one's "unique" secret key of life.


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