#180, March 20, 2019

Watch us entertain at  a recent cocktail party in San Jose. 
Casual music to help you feel good chatting with friends.


Let's talk about the FEELINGS in your next celebration. 

Especially as you plan your wedding or party music.  

Want  to plan well?  Need help?  Let me give you a handy Tip.   

But First, Let Me Tell You a Little Story:

Are you someone's mother or father? 

Recently I was chatting with a friend about  the benefits 
of being a parent.     

Me, I'm not a parent, but I can imagine several benefits. 
You too?  

Are YOU a parent?  What would you say is the greatest
benefit we get from raising children?  

High on my list is the idea that raising children 
teaches us  deep person-to-person skills.

For example, I'm noticing that most people who 
raise children  tend to treat  others kindly and 
develop warm  personal  relationships.

They've learned valuable lessons of kindness,   
generosity, compassion, patience, humility, 
gratitude, and the capacity for loving.  

You know, all those good commandments found 
in all the world's holy books.  Those universal 
person-to-person skills that make us civilized.

I'd say these skills we learn as parents are the key 
to living successfully anytime, everywhere.

But why am I talking about raising children?

Because I think one side benefit is that raising 
children can help us plan wedding and party music. 


How?  The heart of the answer is this: all these 
skills for success are about our FEELINGS.

About relying on our emotions to get through 
life's challenges.  

It's not, as I once suspected, about relying on our   
great intellect to navigate life's up and downs.

Most experts agree that people usually make 
decisions based on emotions.  And afterward 
we use our logic to justify these decisions.  

You'll find examples everywhere you turn.
And you do it yourself all the time, too:  
  • What should I plan for dinner tonight?  
  • What shoes should I wear today?  
  • Why should you believe what I'm saying?
Examine each choice we make.  Nearly every time, 
you'll find we make a decision based on our feelings.  

And then we come up with an explanation that seems 
logical enough to justify our decision.

It's not our fault.  Like it or not, this is how we work:  
Heart first, then brains.

So here's that Tip I promised you: 
The secret for planning music at any celebration 
is to target the FEELINGS behind the celebration.

And raising children can give us the skills 
to target those feelings effectively.

Well, of course it's NOT the complete story.

For important decisions, I still believe we need 
to guide our choices with some expert advice, 
as well as with our emotions.

Let's say you're organizing a special project.  
You want to work with some capable people, 
eager to make your dreams come true, right?  

Inevitably, you'll make your plans based on your 
feelings.  We all know to expect that by now.  

But don't jump in with your feelings alone.  
Be smart and gather some expert opinions 
to back up your feelings.  Ask a pro.

Wherever you can, get advice from experienced 
professionals, who've "been there, done that".

So, for example, t he next time  you're planning music 
-- for a  wedding  or a party --    you can call me.  

And now that we're talking about 
planning wedding & party music...

Easter Sunday and Mother's Day are coming up, 
and you might be involved with planning an 
exciting celebration.

And if you or a friend are engaged to get 
married, you might also be involved with 
planning the wedding.

Perhaps both. 

So the next time you or a friend  are looking  for 
upbeat, elegant music,  played the way you want, 
think of us.

Where can you can preview us?  Here: ( RSVP required)

Saturday, March 30, 12:00-3:00pm
Wedding Fair (only for weddings already booked there)
Saratoga Springs, 22801 Big Basin Way, Saratoga

Sat & Sun, May 11, 5-8pm & May 12, 11am-3pm
Spring Wedding Fair & Mother's Day Brunch
Ardenwood Farm, 34600 Ardenwood Blvd, Fremont

Caterer?  Wedding or Event Planner?  Bride?  Groom? 
Enjoy the festive mood we'll create.  You'll hear the 
popular standards, jazz classics, and Latin favorites. 
Please stop by and say Hi.

Let's chat soon.

Robbie Schlosser | Magnolia Jazz Band
"Elegant, Upbeat Music for Weddings and Parties"  

P.S. Want wedding or party music?  See our 68 reviews on  Yelp.  
       See photos of us in action on Instagram

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