On Saturday, March 2 at 3:30 pm, our congregation will hold a memorial service for Lloyd Orr. I know that many of us are still somewhat shocked at this loss, and saddened not to have his smile, wit, and great questioning mind with us. One of the things that can often help family and loved ones during grief is to share a memory you have. And so, I invite you to write something down - physically or electronically. 

     These memories can be especially helpful for the service itself; if you feel comfortable, you can send it to me and I'll weave some of these into the service and make sure to share them all with Lloyd's partner, Jackie. If you aren't able to join us on the 2nd, the service will be live-streamed and saved to view later (and these notes and messages are a great way to add your voice to those stories that will be shared during the service and the reception that follows).

     As is often the case with grief and loss, the care and concern people offer family and loved ones diminishes over time. As the days have become weeks and soon turn into months, I invite you to check in with those who have lost a loved one and see how they're doing. There was a recent conversation with folks who were grieving a death, and even they struggled with that daunting question of, "What do you say?" and the fear that their words wouldn't be right. The most important piece of caring for those who are grieving (whether the loss was a month ago, a year or two ago, or decades ago) is to simply be present for them, even if imperfectly.

     If you're someone who's struggling with grief, no matter its origin or how long it has been, please know that I (and Reverend Mary Ann and Reverend Emily) are available to be with you in whatever way we can be helpful (as are so many gracious members of our community).

     In faith,

        Rev. Scott

     Reverend Scott McNeill, Associate Minister