ST. LOUISE SCHOOL PARENT BULLETIN

December 7, 2017

Dan's Blog
Whenever I hear people call Catholic schools "private schools," and lump us in with an Overlake School, Bellevue Children's Academy, etc., I correct them. We are "Catholic schools," and there is a difference.

As a Catholic school, our teachers are hired with the understanding their job is to not just teach the minds of their students but touch their hearts too. We Catholic school educators believe you cannot truly say your school has a well-rounded curriculum if, for the seven hours a day parents entrust their children to you, you are not allowed to develop the moral, spiritual, faith component of that little person's being. How can a school - a private/non-religious school or a public school - say it helps create well-rounded students when God is not allowed to enter the conversation if need be, let alone enter the grounds?

The entire faculty at St. Louise - from the teachers to the instructional assistants to yours truly - comes to our jobs from a Christian worldview. In today's culture, where the entertainment industry, the media, government mandates, and "political-correctness" in general keep the Christian worldview removed from us and our kids, isn't it a relief to know there is a place to send your children where you can:
  • literally find a crucifix openly displayed on the wall every 20 yards?
  • hear a prayer to start the day and end the day in every room?
  • know that Jesus's words and other words from Scripture are used to help settle disputes on the playground?
We coming to our jobs from a Christian worldview, and you raising your family in a Christian worldview makes all of us counter-cultural. Of course, in our state of Washington, being counter-cultural is more difficult than in most places. That has a lot to do with the fact that, according to a Gallup poll, the percentage of people in Washington who identify themselves as having no religious affiliation is the third highest of any state, and church membership is among the lowest of all states. So by living the life we are - sending your kids to/working in a Catholic school, attending Mass regularly, openly stating our Christian beliefs - we are actually acting in a way that society in general would not find as acceptable, or at least not find as standard or normal.

A good example of our counter-cultural actions at this time of year is how we naturally and enthusiastically say, "Merry Christmas!" but society in general says, "Happy Holidays."  I especially find this annoying in stores, where after I buy a shopping basket full of gifts for my family, the clerk ends the sale with, "Happy Holidays." I always smile back and give a quick, "Merry Christmas!" Sometimes the clerk appears relieved that she doesn't have to pretend, and joyfully repeats to me, "Merry Christmas!" I mean, come on! Does Christmas have nothing to do with why these stores are holding these sales in December? Are we buying all these gifts from Black Friday to December 24, because it's the winter solstice?  If it wasn't for Christians having a holy day and celebration that remembers Christ's birth, there wouldn't be a need for crowded shopping malls in December.

Let's tell it like it is, society, and give credit and recognition to Christmas. If instead we go along with society's need to be politically correct, and replace the word "Christmas" with "Holiday," we are making December 25th a generic holiday. This, subsequently, focuses the day on us. But if we keep the focus on its original meaning, which is Jesus's birthday and the celebration of His life, then people will subsequently focus on His message.

Some may argue, but what if the clerk in the shopping mall is a non-Christian, or non-religious, as many are in King County. Then I would say, that's all the more reason to reply, "Merry Christmas!" to her "Happy Holidays." Let our counter-cultural actions help spread the Good News! Hey, perhaps some evangelization could take place! You never know. Miracles do happen around December 25, I've heard!

If you study the Letters of Paul, you'll learn how early Christianity asked the first Christians to be counter-cultural in how they lived their lives. They were fighting against a society that not only had an opposing set of beliefs and practices, but would possibly imprison or kill you if you said or did the wrong thing. Now I'm not comparing how many of us Catholics acting counter-culturally today is as serious or vital as how Paul and the early disciples acted, but I do think we 21st Century Christians are also called to be counter-cultural in our own way.
 
Focusing on being counter-cultural in how we parent, we go against today's standards of society simply by instilling a religious faith, respect, and modesty in our children. In a world where it's common for teenagers to dress promiscuously, for youngsters to play violent video games, and for kids to not be held to practice good manners, we explain to our children that our faith implores us to commit to try and live moral, virtuous lives. It's important for Catholic parents to tell their children, "This is what we believe in...these are our values and rules our family lives by...and it's not okay to just go along with the permissiveness that society in general accepts."

When I was a kid growing up in the 1960s and 70s, it seemed like Christians went to church every Sunday, only missing for grave illness reasons. But the percentage of Americans who now say they regularly attend church is anywhere from 20-40%, depending on the poll you read. Thus, you are being counter-cultural when you make church attendance a priority for your family. Of course, we'll all be attending church on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day. The more difficult action in today's busy world is to go to Mass on a regular basis. Hmmm... perhaps that's a New Year's Resolution some families can make in 2018?

It's also counter-cultural, and difficult, to say "No" to your daughter when she asks if she can wear the latest fashion, which could be a low-cut shirt or a high-cut skirt. It's difficult to refrain from treating your son to a video game that is the most popular one out there, when you realize it's rated "T" or "M." (By the way, go to PluggedIn.com for a great Christian review site for parents on video games and movies.) And it's counter-cultural, and difficult, to consistently hold accountable your children to say "Please" and "Thank you," to hold open doors for others, etc., when most tired parents decide that it's not worth the battle to constantly expect these manners. 

Just like Saint Paul said to the early disciples about the difficulties of being a Christian, no one said parenting was going to be easy either. I implore you to stick to doing what you know is right, even if it means being counter-cultural and against what society in general and the media are telling you is standard. Hopefully, it provides support and motivation in knowing that other parents in the St. Louise Community are trying hard to do this, just as you are.
 

"When Jesus saw the crowds, he went up the mountain; and after he sat down, his disciples came to him.  Then he began to speak, and taught them, saying ...'Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness' sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.' "
(Matthew 5)

 
Finally, something else that makes a Catholic school Catholic and different from other private schools, besides the counter-cultural, Christian worldview from which we approach each day, is how we are funded. You'll notice that when it comes to comparing the tuition of Catholic schools to private schools, in almost all cases the Catholic school is the less expensive one. That is because we have an extra revenue source - we are supported by our parish. But the parish can only support us financially, if parishioners practice good stewardship, and consistently and generously donate to the church.

For those of you parents who are parishioners here, when you fulfill your annual stewardship pledge by the end of each calendar year, and begin a new stewardship commitment with the start of a new calendar year, you are not only helping St. Louise Parish, but you are helping St. Louise School. And since your contribution to the Parish is tax-deductible, it's a win-win-win situation:

1. You make a charitable contribution with your stewardship that is tax-deductible;
2. The Parish increases its revenue, and in turn is able to financially support the School;
3. You receive a less expensive (parishioner) tuition rate.
      
Please read Father Gary Zender's letter - immediately following the calendar below - where he talks more about stewardship. Now is the time to begin a new stewardship commitment for the upcoming new 2018 year. Thank you, those of you who are St. Louise Parishioners, for completing this required task by no later than December 31.
Thanks for reading, 
Mr. Fitz
p.s.
You current school parents are our best marketers of St. Louise, and we would appreciate you spreading the word to your neighbors, co-workers, and extended-family-members living in the greater-Eastside who have upcoming 4-14 year-olds, that St. Louise has started their Admissions season!
 
Interested prospective school parents for the 2018-19 school year should contact the school office at 425-746-4220 or email our secretaries Mindy/Lola directly to ask to set up a Tuesday-Tour date.  On Tuesday mornings in January and February, we give tours of the school by our 8th grade student ambassadors, and well as opportunities for prospective school parents to sit in on a class in session and watch our fabulous teachers in action.

Thanks for spreading the word now, so prospective school parents may set up their visits to check us out!

BONUS!
You can get a tuition reduction - valued around $600! - for referring a new family to St. Louise School! If a new family enrolls in our school next fall and listed your name in their admissions paperwork as having referred them to St. Louise, you get one month's free tuition next year (at the 1-child rate). This  Referral Award Program is in place to show our gratitude for your help in recruiting new families to our school.
  
Upcoming Calendar of Events  
Friday, December 8
  • All-School Mass at 9AM - the Feast of the Immaculate Conception; parents are invited and may meet their children at their classrooms at 8:45
  • Flavorful Friday Treats for sale today - $1 for ice cream treats; proceeds benefit the 5th graders' sponsorship of two orphans at the Nuestros Pequenous Hermanos orphanages.
 
Saturday, December 9
  • Speech Team competes at Bishop Blanchet HS Tournament. Go, Chargers!

Sunday, December 10
  • St. Louise families partake in the Jingle Bell Run in Seattle this morning - contact Mary Herridge for more information if  your family wants to join the St. Louise "team"

Monday, December 11
  • "Week of Free Dress" begins for those students whose parents purchased this privilege at the Auction (see the list of students below in the Auction article; regular "Free Dress" guidelines apply, such as no shorts are allowed to be worn during this 2nd trimester)
 
Wednesday, December 13
  • Christmas Concert - performed by our 3rd and 4th graders - in the church, 6:30PM (student performers are to report to homerooms at 6:00-6:15)
 
Thursday, December 14
  • Bake Sale - to raise funds for junior high expenses
  • Parents' Club Meeting in faculty room, 6:30PM - all parents invited
 
Friday, December 15
  • Hot Chocolate for sale for $1 outside north wings' OT room from 7:55-8:25AM (see article below)
  • School Band performs outside north wing during morning carpool - drive by with your windows down!
  • School dismisses at 3:00 for Christmas Vacation; school resumes on Tuesday, January 2, 2018
  • Maureen Still Band Concert in the church, 7:00PM - all families invited

Sunday and Monday, December 24 & 25
  • Christmas Eve Masses at St. Louise Church: 3PM, 6PM, 9PM, Midnight in Spanish
  • Christmas Day Masses at St. Louise Church:  8AM, 10AM

Parish Stewardship Letter from the Pastor
     
Please read Father Gary's letter below, directed toward you school parents who are also St. Louise Parish parishioners.  Now is the time to begin a new stewardship commitment. Thank you for completing THIS required task by no later than December 31. If you are paying our "in-parish/contributing-parishioner tuition rate," then you must renew your stewardship commitment annually.

When you fulfill your annual stewardship pledge by the end of each calendar year, and begin a new stewardship commitment with the start of a new calendar year, you are not only helping St. Louise Parish, but you are helping St. Louise School. And since your contribution to the Parish is tax-deductible, it's a win-win-win situation:

1. You make a tax-deductible, charitable contribution with your stewardship;
2. The Parish increases its revenue, and in turn is able to financially support the School;
3. You receive a lesser (parishioner) tuition rate. 
       
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Dear Parish Family,

I write to you today with a profound sense of gratitude for the many wonderful blessings that you have shared with St. Louise this past year.

I have seen your open-handed stewardship of time (truly hours and hours) and talent (amazing gifts). I've witnessed or been a part of so many beautiful, Spirit-filled liturgical celebrations and communal prayer experiences, so much service to those in need and to the parish community in all of our many ministries, countless meetings, planning and celebrating parish wide events like the recent picnic, the Christ Renews His Parish spiritual renewal process and Financial Peace University, just to name a few - all of which are made possible thanks to your time and talent. I'm also humbled by all the time and talent you put into the prayer and preparations that have led us to begin the exciting journey from Maintenance to Mission for our parish. We've taken the foundational steps of crafting our new parish mission statement - our mission is to "Ignite Faith and Witness God's Love" - and implementing a new parish organizational structure. Not one of these things could happen without you parishioners' generous stewardship of your time and talent. I thank you all.

And as you know, stewardship is not just about time or talent. It also includes our treasure, our financial sharing with the Church and other charities. I am deeply grateful for the financial generosity that our parishioners have shared with St. Louise. Through your financial commitment, we have been able to address the many needs of our parish. This includes maintenance and repair of our aging Church building, original school buildings, Parish Hall and Parish Center office building. We were able to complete the build-out of the remaining four classrooms on the second floor of our School and Faith Formation Center. We have been able to keep up with operating expenses and make some special expenditures, like helping start up the New Bethlehem Day Center and offering Christ Renews His Parish. Great things are happening through God's providence and the faithful contributions of so many parishioners. I thank you all.
Together with these wonderful endeavors, we see the Holy Spirit leading us to expand our work (and our staff) in the areas of family life, youth, young adults, evangelization, and outreach ministries. We look to start building a healthy reserve to be able to fund the next phase of our campus master plan for our facilities. To live our mission, usher in the growth that we seek and properly sustain the good works that we hope to continue, we need to move forward with a concerted effort to increase our Sunday offertory collection.

I would ask that you reflect on your generous financial commitment to the parish and, for those of you who are able, if you could add a few dollars more each week to your contribution. If everyone who can, does, the burden on each household will be small and the benefits to our amazing parish will be great.  

I realize that this is not easy for everyone, but it is appropriate to present it to all. This opportunity to give reminds us that God is the source and owner of all things, and that we are not owners but simply the stewards of everything we have. We willingly give of our time, talent and treasure back to God, not as an afterthought but as a first priority. If we have an "attitude of gratitude" to God for all that He has so abundantly given us, then how can we not give back to God a generous portion of our first fruits? "Where your treasure is, there also will your heart be" (Matthew 6:21).

A Stewardship of Treasure Commitment Card can be completed electronically at the parish website. There I ask you to please indicate your financial pledge for 2018. We've included a table showing sample giving levels you may wish to consider. Having a specific pledge amount from everyone is very important - it helps us predict the income side of our parish budget.
 
The parish/school staff and I are extremely appreciative of everyone's past generosity to the parish. I thank you in advance for your support, understanding, and kindness. We wish you and your family a most blessed and beautiful Advent.

Yours in Christ,
Fr. Gary Zender

P.S.
If you haven't done so, we encourage you to set up your regular contributions electronically, using our secure and convenient online giving system.   Please don't hesitate to contact Barbara at 425 214-5471 or JT at 425 214-5473 if you need help setting up your Online Giving account.
You can also download the Online Giving app by Our Sunday Visitor, to create and manage your Online Giving account using your mobile device.  When registering for the first time, our St. Louise Parish ID# is 1368 or by zip code 98007.

Auction News

 
Free Dress Next Week
Thanks to those families who purchased the "Free Dress for a Week" privilege at the Auction - which was one of the "Sign-Up Opportunities." Please go HERE to confirm that your family purchased this. If you did, your kids may come to school next week (Dec. 11-15) wearing free dress, provided it follows our guidelines. (Remember, during this 2nd trimester, no
athletic or walking shorts of any kind may be worn, even during a free dress day.)



Please Apply for Corporate
Matching
If you work for a company that offers matching funds, please apply for matching funds to go with your auction donations. Please also apply for matching funds for Volunteer Hours for those who volunteered for the auction in any capacity. Kindly email Sue Richards to let her know you're doing matching funds, so she can track the funds. We love doubling our dollars for St. Louise!


If you missed seeing it, here is the rockin' video that kicked off our Auction night!  Our School House ROCKS!
~Sue Richards, Auction Director

St. Louise School Has a Job Opening
         
With Sue Richards soon leaving her role as St. Louise Auction Director, we have a job opening for this position. You'll find details of this new opening on our website and also at the Archdiocesan website.
 
If you are looking to join the St. Louise staff, or know someone looking for a job, and you/they have the qualifications listed in the job opening listing, please apply. Interviews for the new Auction Director will take place in January, and the position begins in February. Please email Dan Fitzpatrick or Sue if you have questions about the position.
We Love Our St. Nick Volunteers               
         
          Thanks to Janelle and Jonathan Taasan for chairing the St. Nicholas Breakfast and Bazaar! Jim Cameron, Matt Bomberger and the Knights of Columbus are to be applauded for running the kitchen and preparing the delicious breakfast! Thanks to Regina Aiello for organizing the craft booths, and Leanne Arsenian for overseeing the Secret Santa Shop! We also appreciate Amy Wilken and Paul Davie for running the Saint Nicholas photos! Finally, thanks to ALL the St. Nick Breakfast helpers: Allison & Paul Weber, Marsha Rampersad-Zope, Marian Zappala, Michelle Cone, Joe Pacheco & Andrew Pacheco, Vern & Marilyn Schulte, Alex Vo, Sarah Pierce, Araceli Santiago, Nicholle Mineiro, Sheldon Sequeira, Suzie Sollars, Rachael Rivera-Wong, Annabelle Gegus, Annaliza Cruz, Victor Phan, Alison Peters, Tarun Ratnam, Martha Hoyos, Imelda Medina, Erin Aitken, Kathy Brennan, Aaron Bekkerus.
 












 
The Vo and Currie families were two of dozens who enjoyed visiting with jolly ol' Saint Nicholas.

Consider Being a School Commission
or Parents' Club Board Member
        
          We are so appreciative of our Parents' Club Board and our School Commission members. The parents who commit to a three-year term to serve on these two parent leadership groups help in two distinct ways.
          The Parents' Club Board is responsible for promoting parent involvement in the school along with providing parent education, family fellowship, classroom enrichment opportunities, and teacher appreciation.
          The School Commission are advisors to the principal in the areas of school policy, future development, and finances.
          The three-year terms of a select few members of both the Parents' Club Board and the School Commission come to an end each spring, so both groups start seeking out prospective new members each year at this time. Now is the time for interested school parents to attend a PC or SC meeting to see what it would be like to serve in this leadership group. You can ask questions of the current group's membership of the time commitment ...it's really not much). You may also find more information HERE.
          If you might have an interest in putting some of your volunteer commitment toward serving on the Parents' Club Board or School Commission, please contact Dan Fitzpatrick, Jennifer Sharp, and/or Nancy Tribolet. You may also simply attend the next meeting of either group. The Parents' Club's next meetings are December 14 and January 11. The School Commission's next meetings are January 4 and March 8. All meetings begin at 6:30PM in the faculty room and are open to all school parents. They typically run about 90 minutes.
   
   
Our first grade students collected over 50 coats to donate to the St. Vincent de Paul Society as part of their Service Project. Way to go, 1A and 1B!
Charger Cards

Charger Cards make great Christmas gifts for school teachers and staff.  You can find the "Faculty Wish List" HERE.  Thanks in advance to families who generously gift the faculty and purchase Charger Cards to do so!

We have big news - Safeway cards are back!  $25 and $100 Safeway cards will be back in stock this week.  These cards are even reloadable!  Place your order online, drop off your order in the School Office, or stop by the window on Friday morning.  If you have any questions about using reloadable cards, just let us know.
 

More big news - Starbucks cards are available at a bonus rebate rate of 9%!  Through December 8 only, Starbucks cards will help you meet your family minimum rebate and support our school even more quickly than their usual 7% rebate. This is a great time to stock up on cards for gifts or for yourself.  We have $5, $10, and $25 cards, and other amounts may be available by special order. This bonus rebate also applies to ScripNow and reload orders on your Starbucks cards purchased through ShopWithScrip.com.  Get your bonus today!


Finally, Christmas is coming!  Would you like to support St. Louise School (and make some great progress on your family rebate accumulation) through your usual spending this Christmas season?  We offer Charger Cards for hundreds of retailers you are sure to be shopping with. Why not buy your gifts with Charger Cards and provide a gift to St. Louise School with every gift you give?


Snowflake Lane and Bellevue Botanical Garden d'lights has started! Plan a family evening to include dinner downtown and the Holiday Festivities!  We have stocked up on some special cards that will help you to dine out for a good cause.
* Maggiano's (11%)
* Red Robin (20%)
* PF Chang (8%)
* Cheesecake Factory (5%)
* California Pizza Kitchen (8%)
* Ruth Chris (10%)
* McCormick & Schmick's (9%)
* Daniel's Broiler (37%)
* Wild Ginger (20%)
* Purple Café (20%)
* Palomino (20%)
* Seastar (20%)


For questions or more information on Charger Cards, please email chargercards@stlouiseschool.org or visit www.stlouiseschool.org/chargercards.

Consider Stepping-Up to Help

          Do you love fresh air? Do you want an opportunity to see our happy St. Louise students at the end of the day? Do you want to earn volunteer hours in a practical way, by volunteering when you're already planning on being at school? Then, becoming a carpool traffic director is the right volunteer opportunity for you!
          Mr. Fuerte is asking for additional parent volunteers to help out during afternoon carpool. He will be losing a couple of parent volunteers in January, and he needs your help. Being a carpool traffic director is a great opportunity for you as a parent to earn those needed volunteer hours and help out in making sure that carpool runs safely and smoothly. No previous experience is necessary, as Mr. Fuerte will help train you during your first week. Your child(ren) simply wait on the carpool sidewalk talking to their friends while you complete your 2:50-3:20 job one day a week.
 
          If you are interested in volunteering starting in January, please contact Vice Principal, Mike Fuerte . Thank you very much for stepping-up!

Tech Talk with Kids to Help Become More Mindful of Screen-Time
          Many of you joined fellow St. Louise families in September to watch the film Screenagers in our parish hall. It was a way to help make sure screen-time in your family - from the use of cell phones to video games - is kept to a healthy minimum.  Dr. Delaney Ruston, Screenagers' filmmaker, started Tech Talk Tuesdays with her family to decrease struggles in her home and foster healthy screen time. Dr. Ruston now shares her weekly Tech Talk Tuesdays' topics with thousands of families and teachers who have signed up. You may subscribe HERE to her TTT to receive conversation starters about social media, video game use, tech tips and more.
        
The latest Tech Talk Tuesday topic from Delaney Ruston is:
"Encouraging Small Acts of Online Kindness"

Not all screen time is created equal. The more we, and our kids, use screen time for good, the better. Today is "Giving Tuesday" which is a great time to think about the small things we can do online to support the endeavors of our friends, families, and people in communities near and far. Yes, there are wonderful things we can do with financial donations, and that is crucial-but I want to focus on what we can do with our kids that uses the power of tech to do good that does not require money.
 
One thing we can do is support businesses or social causes through tech with acts such as posting reviews on Yelp, giving stars and sharing recommendations. Having moved back recently to Seattle, I was so happy to see that the little café down the street from me, Fat Ducks, is still going strong. The owner is an incredible baker, and she is always working so hard to make everyone's cafe experience enjoyable. It felt great to share her cafe with others online by giving her and her cafe a good review on Yelp. I made sure to include specific reasons why I like it so much because I know I like examples when I look at reviews. I did not expect it, but one day when I stopped in for some outstanding carrot cake, the owner thanked me for posting a review.
 
I also love sharing links to friends' work, such as their online talks, published books and articles. 
I remind myself to involve my kids in these tiny acts. For example, if we go to a local Vietnamese Pho cafe, I will say, "Hey let's do a rating on this."  When they read books they like, we talk about how writing a review can help the author's work be appreciated by more readers.
My family tries to spread the word about organizations we love via social media and, of course, in face-to-face conversations.  We are strong advocates for organizations that help youth from all backgrounds have offline opportunities-and on the Screenagers' website, we have a list of some fantastic ones. Check them out!
         
Here are some questions to start a conversation with your kids:
  • What are ways you perform small acts of kindness online towards people, businesses, etc. that you appreciate?
  • Do you think liking a photo is a small act of kindness?
  • What are causes and organizations that inspire you?
  • In what ways do you contribute to your community and causes you care about?
          For more discussion ideas, you can peruse past Tech Talk Tuesdays

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