In one of the
Satsangs
during Swami's 2015 visit to Malaysia, a devotee asked why there are conflicts in families due to the subtle form? Here is an excerpt from Swami's response:
Families will experience conflict about whether they believe in My Subtle Form or not, as long as they have egos. If they think that, what they alone say is right, what they alone know is truth, what they alone hear is correct, then nobody can help. Many times, there are conflicts between husband and wife. If both of them are speaking the truth, where is the question of conflict? It is only if one person is not correct can there be conflict. If you are really listening to your hearts, there will be no conflict. If some of you listen to your minds, obviously there will be conflict.
If all the members of the family are truly listening to their hearts, not only in this matter, but in every matter that relates to their family, then there will never be any conflict – because they will all have the same answer to the same question. So, it is not I who create conflict – it is you who create the conflict; I have always been there to bring peace.