Kindness and community shouldn't have to be something that we are guilted into. It should be something that we celebrate and look forward to. I remember fondly talking to many different people there. It was quite honestly a lot of fun and felt no different then a conversation I might have with someone at school. I heard some of their life stories and was absolutely in awe over the pain and suffering that many had triumphed over. Not only this but the cheerful happy demeanor they greeted me with was incredible. I felt welcomed in their community and I wasn’t expecting that at all.
I assumed I would be working in a kitchen separate from most others working to serve the meals. Instead I sat with others, people I had previously considered “them.” And as we ate food together, talked, and laughed, I enjoyed myself. Not because I thought I was saving someone from a cold hungry night and not because I felt like some fairy godmother. I enjoyed myself thanks to the human connections I made with the people I met.
This was not a one sided event; people there were ready to offer up what they could even if that meant just a conversation, word of advice, or a simple smile. There was no “me” and there was no “them,” in that moment we were all one. Even though everyone participating in the meal would be returning to some different situations, the bottom line is that we were all just some hungry humans who wanted to share a good conversation over a good meal.
It was an experience that helped to remind me that all stereotypes fail to yield anything helpful. We all carry the divine within us, and we all have something we can offer to make this world just a little bit better.
I thank the congregation for continuing to support our youth group. It continues to be a wonderful way to explore my faith, spread love, and build community. I implore all of you to stay curious, spread love, and never forget we all get hungry and we all have a story to share.
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Ben Strickler is a sophomore at Lane Tech and is a member of the Lakeview Lutheran Parish Youth Group. You've probably seen him serve as a crucifer or banner bearer at HTLakeview. This summer, Ben is getting trained to join the HTLakeview Livestream Team. We're grateful for his heart for service and community.
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