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January 10, 2025

10 Tevet 5785


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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

This week we have the privilege of reaching the end of the Book of Genesis.


Because of Joseph, Pharaoh and the Egyptian people welcome the Children of Israel to Egypt, which becomes the Israelites’ home and safe haven. As the Book of Genesis closes, all is well. However, as we will see next week, the beginning of the Book of Exodus provides a dramatic change in the relationship. Indeed, the attitudinal transformation is so quick and so complete that the reader is forced to ask how this could be. (On the other hand, after events of the last two years, it is possible that we do understand how quickly attitudes can change.)


The Torah tells us that a new Pharaoh arose over Egypt; a Pharaoh who did not know Joseph. By telling us this, the Torah is giving us one reason for the Israelites’ precipitous fall. However, it seems unlikely that the Egyptian change in attitude occurred overnight. 


I ask the following query: When did the Egyptians begin to dislike, or to distrust, the Israelites? And, further, what was the cause of the change? I am not going to answer this question here. Instead, I will let each of you come up with your own answers. Read the Torah and reach your own conclusions. (And, of course, feel free to share your reasons with me.)


I am interested in a broader observation. It is likely that we, each one of us, have stood in the Israelites’ shoes. Each of us have found ourselves, at some point in our lives, in a Garden of Eden, in a place of safety, in a womb of comfort. It may have been a relationship, or a business, or a club, or an organization, that provided physical, or emotional, or spiritual fortification. 


Unfortunately, it is equally possible that, at some point, that Garden, that safe-haven, or that womb, may have become something less than welcoming or sustaining.


If the Israelites had earlier recognized the fact that their Egyptian hosts had no longer welcomed them, is it possible that they might have avoided generations of misery? If they had intuited that the dislike and distrust would eventually lead to enslavement, would they have been able to change the negative perception or would they have chosen to leave Egypt before the trouble began?


I think that the Torah, in addition to providing us with the big (and important) story of God’s redemption of our people from Egypt, is also warning us to be vigilant in our lives. There are places and relationships that start healthy and helpful, but later become negative or toxic. How, or why, the change occurs is not the crucial question. Rather, we should focus on recognizing when it happens and what to do when it does. 


Only after we acknowledge that something is no longer healthy can we take steps to heal it, repair it, or say goodbye to it.


I hope and pray that 2025 will turn into a year of health, peace, joy, and fulfillment. May we each be continually mindful of our gardens.


Shabbat Shalom– Rabbi Michael S. Jay

It is custom to shout “Hazak! Hazak! Venitchazek!” after reading each of the five books of the Torah which we will do this Shabbat as we finish the book of Genesis.

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday. January 10, 2025

4:34 PM


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SERVICES

Friday

January 10, 2025

Services

7:30 PM

ZOOM ONLY

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your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

January 11, 2025

9:00 AM

ZOOM ONLY

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your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Vayechi 

Torah Portion: Genesis 47:28-50:26

Vayechi (“He Lived”) is the final Torah portion in the Book of Genesis. It opens as Jacob prepares for his death, making his son Joseph swear to bury him in the Cave of Machpelah. Jacob blesses Joseph’s two sons and his own 12 sons and then dies. Jacob’s sons bury him. The portion ends with Joseph’s death.

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

 Kings 2:1-12 

In this week's haftorah, King David delivers his deathbed message to his son and successor, Solomon, echoing this week's Torah reading that discusses at length Jacob's parting words and instructions to his sons.

Here is the Haftorah



WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM


Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Sunday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM


Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT



stu’s a-stu-te sayings…..


The Carters and Us


When I was a child, my parents gave me a stickers book about the presidents – Even at that tender age, I became fascinated with our presidents and thus began and even to this day, my hobby about our Commanders in Chief


Since then, I have studied our Presidents both professional and personal tidbits about them. Throughout my life, I have been lucky to meet my favorite heroes from all walks of life: sports, the arts, and politics. Read more about the story behind the picture below of the Carters and the Lehrers by clicking here....

The Pasadena Jewish Temple and Center, January 7, 2025


A PRAYER FOR OUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN CALIFORNIA

by Rabbi Nicole Guzik

Sinai Temple, Los Angeles, California


Ribono shel Olam, Master of the Universe, protect those that are impacted by the devastating Southern California fires. Guide them towards shelter and safety. As family, friends, neighbors and fellow Angelenos experience physical and emotional loss, may we turn towards each other with open homes and open hearts.

 

God, spread a blanket of security over the firefighters and first responders that serve our community. Grant them strength and courage and may each one come home safely to those they love.

 

Let us be reminded of how to help one another. Holy One of Blessing, give us increased compassion and an abundance of kindness that we may extend our hands and hearts to those in need. As the prophet Elijah experienced, “There was a great and mighty wind, splitting mountains and shattering rocks by God’s power, but God was not in the wind. After the wind—an earthquake; but God was not in the earthquake. After the earthquake—fire; but God was not in the fire. And after the fire—a small, still voice.”

 

God’s small, still voice runs through each one of us. May God’s voice compel us to reach out to each other and find pathways that lead to hope and ultimately, peace for all in need. Amen.


SUNDAY, January 12

Pickleball (see times below)

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TUESDAY, January 14

Pickleball (See times below)

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WEDNESDAY, January 15

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM

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THURSDAY, January 16

Torah Study

11:00 AM

Pickleball (See times below)

PJP Program

"Changes in Israeli Politics and Society”

SEE DETAILS BELOW

8:30 PM

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FRIDAY, January 17

Studying the Prophets

following morninng minyan

WAX Lunch

11:30 PM

at Kubel's


PICKLEBALL SCHEDULE
CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY NIGHT ISRAEL PROGRAM
CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY MORNING TORAH STUDY
CLICK HERE FOR FRIDAY MORNING PROPHET STUDY
 

Thursday, January 16

PJP Program

"Changes in Israeli Politics and Society”

8:30 PM


Friday, January 17

WAX Lunch

11:30 PM

at Kubel's


Friday, January 17

Shabbat Dinner

6:30 PM


Wednesday, January 22

WAX Book Review

4:00 PM


Thursday, January 30

PJP Program

Jewish Mexico

8:30 PM


Friday, January 31

Candlemaking Class

11:00 AM

MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

PICKLEBALL

Sundays, Tuesdays ad Thursdays

Sunday 1/19/25 the Pickleball group (specifically Ruth Turner) is sponsoring another Pray, Stay and Play. Join the Sunday morning service (to assist getting to minyon) at 9 with bagels lox etc or just drop by to play pickle or just watch and hang out 10-1

Thursday, January 16 @ 8:30 PM

Ilai Saltzman, Director of the Gildenhorn Institute for Israel Studies, University of Maryland

“Changes in Israeli Politics and Society”

 

This talk will delve into the dynamic and evolving nature of Israeli politics and society, comprehensively analyzing the forces driving change in this complex landscape. It will examine the growing influence of diverse demographic groups, such as the ultra-Orthodox, Arab-Israelis, and immigrants, and how their increasing political and social activism is reshaping traditional power structures. The discussion will also explore Israel's shifting political landscape and how the friction between different ideological approaches is generating new dynamics between the three branches of government that, in turn, form new societal cleavages and reinforce some preexisting ones. 

 

Dr. Ilai Saltzman is an Associate Research Professor of Israel Studies and the Director of the Gildenhorn Institute for Israel Studies at the University of Maryland, College Park. His scholarship and teaching focus on international security, Israeli foreign and security policy, US foreign policy, and political psychology. Dr. Saltzman is the author of Securitizing Balance of Power Theory: A Polymorphic Reconceptualization (2012). He has also written numerous scholarly articles, book chapters, and commentaries in the Los Angeles Times, Ha’aretz, The Jerusalem Post, and other prominent outlets. He is also a board member at Mitvim – the Israel Institute of Foreign Regional Policy and a Non-Resident Researcher at TRENDS Research & Advisory.

 

Dr. Saltzman earned his Ph.D. in International Relations in 2010 from the University of Haifa and was a postdoctoral research fellow at the International Security Program (ISP), Belfer Center for Science and International Affairs, John F. Kennedy School of Government, Harvard University (2009-2010).

 

Before he arrived in College Park, Dr. Saltzman was the Israel Institute’s Associate Director for Academic Programs. In the past, he served as a professor of government at Claremont McKenna College where he taught classes in International Relations, Israeli foreign and security policy as well as US foreign policy. He also taught at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem’s International Relations Department, the Rothberg International School (RIS), and Tel-Aviv University’s Political Science Department.

 


JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING

Wednesday, January 22nd at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

Wherever You Go by Joan Leegant



Yona Stern has traveled from New York to Israel to make amends with her estranged sister, a stoic ideologue and mother of five who has dedicated herself to the radical West Bank settlement cause. Yona’s personal life resembles nothing of her sister’s, but it isn’t politics that drove the two apart.

Now a respected Jerusalem Talmud teacher, Mark Greenglass was once a drug dealer saved by an eleventh-hour turn to Orthodox Judaism. But for reasons he can’t understand, he’s lost his once fervent religious passion. Is he through with God? Is God through with him?

Enter Aaron Blinder, a year-abroad dropout with a history of failure whose famous father endlessly―some say obsessively―mines the Holocaust for his best-selling, melodramatic novels. Desperate for approval, Aaron finds a home on the violent fringe of Israeli society, with unforeseen and devastating consequences.

In a sweeping, beautifully written story, Joan Leegant, winner of the PEN New England Book Award and the Edward Lewis Wallant Award, and a finalist for the National Jewish Book Award, weaves together three lives caught in the grip of a volatile and demanding faith. Emotionally wrenching and unmistakably timely, Wherever You Go shines a light on one of the most disturbing elements in Israeli society: Jewish extremist groups and their threat to the modern, democratic state. This is a stunningly prescient novel.


PJP PROGRAMS


As part of the PJP consortium the JCC is privy to many outstanding programs.



Travel around the world to Jewish neighborhoods...Study the ever complex dynamics of Eretz Yisrael...Enjoy stories of famous Jewish commedians,,,,


Zoom link will be published prior to each program....





The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.



We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample of some of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.


New item in the Gift Shop COASTAL COLORS COLLECTION OF MEZZUZAHS. Great Chanukah gift for someone moving into a new home.

Eileen Jacobs, Potter

Seacrest Designs

Lavina Haven Soy Candles and

Essential Oil Soaps

Mezzuzahs

Resin Bowls and Candlesticks by Seacrest Designs

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Alex Birnbaum*

John M. Furman

Eva Kaplan

Gertrude Rifkin

Larry Zwillman

Benjamin Goodman*

Joseph Martin*

Howard Paitchel

Norman Rothman

Bernice Shechtman

Joan Wolfson

Bertha Goldstein

Richard Kirsh

Hillary Levine

Joshua Scharf

Mildred Tittelbaum

Morrie Baker

Bonnie Joy Farin*

Sidney Gottlieb

Martin Kader

Solomon N. Rosenstein

Gil Ross

Jacob Weill

Frances Berson

Lise Polishook

Ethel Rosenberg

Sam Rosenberg

Esther Sheparde

Irving Chakrin

Florence Cohen Galer

Herb Morton

Ruth Moss

Phyllis Tanenbaum

Murray Weiner

David Weinzimmer

Dora Chazin*

Samuel Cweibel*

Mildred Epstein

Stephen Epstein*

Sydney R. Racusin*


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

CLICK HERE FOR EVENING SERVICE
CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Louis & Cheryl Celebre

January 13

45th Anniversary


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CONTACT: 

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Chuppah 2

Mazal Tov to Jackie Printz and Robert Finkel on the marriage of their daughter Rachel to Jacob Levin this Saturday evening at Liberty Warehouse in Brooklyn. Rabbi Jay will be officiating.

Joan Ely

January 11

Barbara Hirsh

January 11

Marilyn Hailperin

January 12

Kenneth Abend

January 14

Steven R. Sher

January 14

Norman Barham

January 15

Gerard Genna

January 15

Justin Brasch

January 16

Lori Israelite

January 16

H. Morton Scott

January 17

 

CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 


YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos


Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer