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December 6, 2024

5 Kislev 5785





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A TORAH MESSAGE

FROM THE RABBI


Ladders of Connectivity


This week’s Torah portion, Vayeitzei, contains a mystical scene in which Jacob is running from his older brother, Esau, from whom he has wryly and deceitfully wrested his birthright and their father’s blessing. As night falls, he stops to go to sleep. He, strangely, places stones around his head and, as he sleeps, he has a dream in which he sees a ladder that stretches between heaven and earth. On this ladder he sees angels going up and angels coming down.


There are many commentaries on the meaning of the vision.  One says that the angels are performing tasks here on earth and then returning to heaven. Another tells us that the ascending angels represent the great nations as they rise, but the descending angels show their fall. Each view has merit; each is subsumed within its own beautiful blanket of subtext.


I like to view the ladder as representing the constant need and ability of us humans to connect heaven and earth. And God’s availability wherever that need might arise. At its core, what is a ladder? It is a portable lifting device. It provides one with the ability to elevate oneself wherever he, or she, wants or needs to be lifted. Stairs, elevators, and mountains, perform the same function, but they are stationary.  If you want to lift yourself up, you need to go to the stairs, or the elevator, or the mountain. However, with a ladder you get to choose where you will raise yourself.


The underlying message is that you can connect with, and be with, God at any time or place. Forgive the following analogy. Torah is actually presenting us with an early version of the internet. God is available whenever you want to connect with the Deity; the ladder is the modem that enables the connection. Or perhaps even better, Jacob’s ladder enabled one to walk up and access the Icloud, before Apple even invented it! One of the gifts that our tradition has given to the world is the notion that God is EVERYWHERE and therefore available whenever we need divine guidance.


Freud might say that Jacob sees the ladder in a dream because the ladder is a metaphor. It is as if the Text is telling us that we don’t actually “need” the ladder. Instead we just need to know that heaven is accessible from any spot. For Jacob, who is alone and isolated for the first time in his life, this message is important. He is being told not to worry about leaving the comfort of home and familiar surroundings because God will be accessible to him from wherever he may be. 


The message extends beautifully to our own, very mobile, lives. In today’s world, where we have experienced such discomfort, it is especially important to know that God is accessible.


I love Torah. I love our tradition. I love ladders. And I love feeling connected.


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday. December 6, 2024

4:14 PM

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SERVICES

Friday

December 6, 2024

Shabbat Dinner

Sponsored by

HAROLD FARIN

in honor of this

90th Birthday

6:30 PM


Services

7:30 PM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

December 7, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Vayetzei .

Torah Portion: Genesis 28:10-32:3

Vayetzei (“He Went Out”) opens as Jacob dreams about angels going up and down a ladder, and then continues on his journey toward the home of his uncle Laban. During years of indentured servitude, Jacob marries Laban’s daughters Leah and Rachel, bearing children with them and with their maidservants, Bilhah and Zilpah. 

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

Hosea 12:13-14:10 

This week's haftorah mentions Jacob's flight from home to the "field of Aram," an episode that is recounted in this week's Torah reading.

Here is the Haftorah



WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Sunday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

DECEMBER SHABBAT DINNER

December 6 at 6:30 PM

Sponsored by Harold Farin in honor of his 90th Birthday


Contact the JCC office to make your reservation

609-492-4090

jccoflbi@gmail.com


MENU

Hummus/Veggies and Cheese/Crackers

Salmon

Noodle Pudding

Claremont Salad

Desserts


WEEQUAHIC DINER SALAD 
AKA CLAREMONT SALAD

1 head of cabbage (2 lbs.)
1 carrot, grated
1 cucumber, sliced thinly
1 green pepper, sliced thinly
1 onion, cut in rings
4 tbsp. sugar
6 tbsp. vinegar
2 tbsp. water
4 tbsp. salad oil
1 tsp. salt
Pinch of pepper
Combine first 5 items. Combine last 6 items in jar and shake. Mix liquid with dry ingredients. Put in tight container. Refrigerate.
Note: Best if sits several hours or overnight before eating. Keep refrigerated.


SUNDAY, December 8

Pickleball (see times below)


PJP Travel Program

Jewish Yemen

6:00 PM

Change of Time

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TUESDAY, December 10

Pickleball (See times below)

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WEDNESDAY, December 11

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM

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THURSDAY, December 12

Torah Study

11:00 AM


Davening Class

After 7:30 PM Minyan


PJP Israel Program

Political Dynamics of the Israeli-Palestinian Conflict

8:30 PM



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FRIDAY, December 13

Studying the Prophets


PICKLEBALL SCHEDULE
CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY TORAH STUDY
CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY DAVENING CLASS
CLICK HERE FOR FRIDAY PROPHETS CLASS


Friday , December 6

Shabbat Dinner

6:30 PM

Sponsored by Harold Farin

in honor of his 90th Birthday


Sunday, December 8

PJP Travel Program

Jewish Yemen

6:00 PM


Thursday, December 12

PJP Israel Program

Political Dynamics of the Israeli-Palestinian Conflict

8:30 PM


Wednesday, December 18

WAX Book Club

4:00 PM


Thursday, December 19

PJP John Kendrick Series

Joan Rivers

8:30 PM


Friday, December 20

WAX Brunch at Kubels

11:30 AM


Thursday, December 31

New Year’s Eve Party at the JCC

8:30 PM


MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


Pickleball for members only

Tuesdays, Thursdays, Sundays

Sunday, December 8 @ 6:00 PM

“Jewish Yemen” with Joey Leskin

 

Discover the fascinating culture of the Jews of Yemen, as we take a tour through their long and intriguing history. We will be exploring what was, what is and what may come next, while analyzing the nuances of the rich culture, specific customs and unique traditions.

 

Joey is a Jew of Yemeni descent from London, England. Since gaining his Masters Degree in International Relations, he has travelled to over 50 countries, working with Jewish communities worldwide. He spent time in Turkey as Senior Fieldworker for the JDC and currently works as a Leadership Development Consultant for Jewish organizations and communities around the world, while sitting on the Board for Reform Judaism in the UK.

 

CLICK HERE FOR PROGRAM ON YEMEN

Thursday, December 12 @ 8:30 PM

Nadav Shelef, Harvey M. Meyerhoff Professor of Israel Studies, University of Wisconsin – Madison

“The Political Dynamics of the Israeli-Palestinian Conflict”

 

The Israeli-Palestinian conflict appears to be intractable. Why has it proven so difficult to resolve? This talk identifies the core issues at stake and reviews the range of possible outcomes to develop a more nuanced understanding of why each of them is so difficult (or undesirable) to implement.

 

Nadav Shelef is the Harvey M. Meyerhoff Professor of Modern Israel Studies and Chair of the Political Science Department at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. He received his B.A. from the University of Pennsylvania and Ph.D. from the University of California, Berkeley. Professor Shelef’s research and teaching focus on nationalism, territorial conflict, religion and politics, Israeli politics and society, and middle east politics. His most recent book – Homelands: Shifting Borders and Territorial Disputes – was published by Cornell University Press in 2020.

 

CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE ISRAEL PROGRAM


JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Wednesday, December 18th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

Sacred Trash: The Lost and Found World of the Cairo Geniza

By: Adina Hoffman and Peter Cole


One May day in 1896, at a dining-room table in Cambridge, England, a meeting took place between a Romanian-born maverick Jewish intellectual and twin learned Presbyterian Scotswomen, who had assembled to inspect several pieces of rag paper and parchment. It was the unlikely start to what would prove a remarkable, continent-hopping, century-crossing saga, and one that in many ways has revolutionized our sense of what it means to lead a Jewish life.


In Sacred Trash, MacArthur-winning poet and translator Peter Cole and acclaimed essayist Adina Hoffman tell the story of the retrieval from an Egyptian genizah, or repository for worn-out texts, of the most vital cache of Jewish manuscripts ever discovered. This tale of buried scholarly treasure weaves together unforgettable portraits of Solomon Schechter and the other heroes of this drama with explorations of the medieval documents themselves—letters and poems, wills and marriage contracts, Bibles, money orders, fiery dissenting tracts, fashion-conscious trousseaux lists, prescriptions, petitions, and mysterious magical charms. Presenting a panoramic view of nine hundred years of vibrant Mediterranean Judaism, Hoffman and Cole bring modern readers into the heart of this little-known trove, whose contents have rightly been dubbed “the Living Sea Scrolls.” Part biography and part meditation on the supreme value the Jewish people has long placed on the written word, Sacred Trash is above all a gripping tale of adventure and redemption.

IF YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN THIS NEW YEAR'S EVE, WE WELCOME ALL SINGLE FOLKS WHO WOULD LIKE TO HELP TO MAKE UP A TABLE.

PLEASE CONTACT DIANE BUSKIRK.

dianebuskirk@yahoo.com

CLICK HERE TO MAKE YOUR RESERVATION


PJP PROGRAMS


As part of the PJP consortium the JCC is privy to many outstanding programs.



Travel around the world to Jewish neighborhoods...Study the ever complex dynamics of Eretz Yisrael...Enjoy stories of famous Jewish commedians,,,,


Zoom link will be published prior to each program....





The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.

CLICK HERE FOR THE PAVER WORK SHEET



We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample of some of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.

Eileen Jacobs, Potter

Seacrest Designs

Lavina Haven Soy Candles and

Essential Oil Soaps

Mezzuzahs

Resin Bowls and Candlesticks by Seacrest Designs

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Milton Batoff

Sophie Brasch*

Lydia Davis

Herbert Shapiro

Dr. Seymour Cohen

Dorothy Labran

Ida Liebowitz

Vera Beebe

Harry Entin

Phyllis Potash

Max Silver*

Harry Berkowitz*

Helen Berman

Leon B. Entin

Stuart Gussin

Stanley S. Levy

Abram Piwosky

Lilyan Strassman*

Milton A. Levine

Louis Tkatch

Louis Young*

Donald Cohen

Dr. Joseph Evans

Rae Friedenberg

Rochelle Naftoly

Mortimer Nelson*

Cheryl Newman

Miriam Rebo

Rohina Blandari

Izak Diesenhaus

Irving Kanis

Chris Makos

Mildred Mashberg

Bertha Rothstein

Jeffrey Rudnick*

Murray J. Sklar


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

CLICK HERE FOR EVENING SERVICE
CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Deanna Feinberg

December 7

Sanford Oxfeld

December 8

Richard Berson

December 10

Ronald Buskirk

December 10

Lisa Schlossman

December 11

Arthur Davis

December 13

Larry Spitzer

December 13

 

Philip Rosenzweig & Beth Zemble

December 9

35th Anniversary

Joel & Laura Leizer

December 12

54th Anniversary

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman and Jerry Faich

On their wedding day

11/28/13

.DIANE BUSKIRK

SUE DAVIS


Both recovering from surgery


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AND PICTURES


CONTACT: 

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CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

LYPlease contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 

AROUND TOWN.....


THE MACCABEATS ARE PERFORMING AT STOCKTON UNIVERSITY


The Maccabeats’ unique offering has caught the eyes of numerous organizations and inviduals throughout the world. They’ve played sold-out shows to thousands at JCCs, temples, synagogues, shuls, Chabads, Hillels, jazz clubs, festivals, conventions, and theaters across five continents and over thirty states and provinces. They’ve been invited to join reggae superstar Matisyahu and Jewish music superstar Yaakov Shwekey on stage. They’ve been invited to Gracie Mansion by NYC mayor Michael Bloomberg. And they’ve been invited to the White House by US President Barack Obama. Over the course of time, their adventures and opportunities imparted upon the Maccabeats an important lesson: with great a cappella comes great responsibility. It is with much humility and gratitude that the group take up the mission given to them, and share their music with the world


Stockton Performing Arts Center

Sunday, Dec 8, 2024 at 2:00 PM

Senior Tickets $23 per person 


FOR TICKETS CLICK HERE


Some JCC folks are going the performance and then out to dinner. Respond to this email for more information.



FEDERATION NEWS....

TO RESERVE A TICKET CLICK HERE

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos


Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst