JEWISH COMMUNITY

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January 31, 2025

2 Shevat 5785





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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


PERSONAL COMMUNITY


There is no way to avoid the truth about Parashat Bo; much of it is harsh and brutal. And yet, it also contains gently nuanced messages of beauty. The harshness comes in the language of war and devastation that is the last three plagues. There were Locusts that destroyed the land so completely that “nothing green was left, of tree or grass of field, in all the land of Egypt”. There was darkness; a darkness so intense that “[p]eople could not see one another, and for three days no one could get up from where he was”. And finally, there was the horrific last plague which needs no further discussion.


The beauty comes in two basic forms. The first hint of magnificence is contained between the lines of the Text. One must take note of the fact that the Israelites are not dancing in the streets at each instance of Egyptian pain. There is holiness in not basking in your enemy’s misfortune. 


The second nearly hidden piece of splendor revolves around family and community. God gives the instructions for the very first Seder, which occurs on the eve of the Israelites’ departure from the Egypt. As part of the instruction, God tells Moses that there should be a lamb for each family; that this is a personal observance. But, because God gives these instructions in the plural form (i.e. “You shall observe” means “everybody shall observe”), it is, at the same time, a communal observance. 

 

As if to highlight the connection of the personal to the communal, God says that each family must consume an entire lamb; however, if a family is too small to accomplish this task, then it should share its lamb with another small family.  Thus, built in to the system, is a method by which members of the community can help each other.


It is this transition from the personal to the communal and from the communal to the personal that strikes me. Many of our members have suffered losses over this last year. The passing of a loved one is, by definition, deeply personal. However, by attending funeral services and through the creation of Minyans for those in mourning, our community has helped to express that, on some level, we all feel the loss. In this way, each person recognizes that he or she is a part of the community. But at the same time, the community becomes a part of the individual.


The message of this week’s Torah is that there are painful, unpleasant things in this world; it is a fact of our very existence. Often we need to deal with them individually. However, the knowledge that there are those around us willing to be present, and to share the burden, is a source of strength and comfort. How we comport ourselves, in good times and bad, our willingness to share the good and to let others help us to shoulder the bad, are ways in which we show our holiness. God is, at the same time, a personal God and a communal God. By connecting our personal selves with our communal lives, we are, each of us, expressing that we have been created in God’s image.


May the community, and each individual within it, continue to sanctify God’s holy name. 


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


TORAH IMAGES WITH ROSE

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday. January 31, 2025

4:57 PM

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SERVICES

Friday

January 31, 2025

Services

7:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

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your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

February 1, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON & ON ZOOM

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Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Bo 

Torah Portion:

Exodus 10:1-13:16

Bo (“Come”) recounts the last three plagues that God inflicts on the Egyptians: locusts, darkness, and death of firstborns. God commands the Israelites to offer a Passover lamb sacrifice. After the last plague, Pharaoh and the Egyptians demand that the Israelites leave. 

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

Jeremiah 46:13-28

In this week’s Torah reading, we read of the devastation of the Egyptian nation through the final three of the Ten Plagues. In the haftorah we read of the punishment G‑d visited upon Egypt centuries later, through the hand of Nebuchadnezzar king of Babylon.

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH

5:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

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HAVDALLAH



WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM


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join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Sunday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM


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join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT



SHABBAT MORNING

ZOOM ONLY

SERVICES THIS FEBRUARY


February 8, 15, 22

stu’s a-stu-te sayings…..

From Stu Lehrer, Ritual Chair

TANAKH

 

Bet you think that acronyms are relatively new – Well our beautiful Biblical and Learned Scriptures can beat that: to quote a simple exclamation that Thomas Jefferson says in Hamilton’s ‘So What’d I Miss…’ “HAH!”


We’ve got TANAKH or in Hebrew תנך which stands for Torah – Nive’eem [Propets] and Kitu’veem [Writings] and here’s what this priceless astounding set of astounding volumes comprise of


TORAH: The Books of Genesis (Beresheet), Exodus (Shemot), Leviticus (Vayikrah), Numbers (Bamidbar) and Deuteronomy (Devarim)


NIVE’EEM (Prophets): The Books of Joshua, Judges, I Samuel, II Samuel, I Kings, II Kings, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Ezekiel, Hosea, Joel, Amos, Obadiah, Jonah, Micah, Nahum, Habukkuk, Zephaniah, Haggai, Zechariah, and Malachi – Aside from their inspirational actions and deeds: they are composers of our Haphtarote


They are the great Bards before the great Bard of Stratford Upon Avon was even born


KITU’VEEM Ketuvim (Writings): The Books of Psalms [thank you King David], Proverbs, Job, Song of Songs [Thank you King Solomon ‘I am my beloved, and my beloved is mine…..], Shavuote’s Book of Rut:h [yup – wherever you go I will go…..], Lamentations, Ecclesiastes, Purim’s Book of Esther, Daniel [and I’m not ‘lion’],  Ezra and Nehemiah, I Chronicles, and II Chronicles


They have all been on the Best Sellers List of all time and will always continue to be there!


NEW CLASSES WITH RABBI JAY


For the next 5 weeks, we will meet on Wednesday evenings after minyan to study "The Lilac Tree" by Rabbi Ammiel Hirsch. This book was suggested by Dr. Stanley Spitzer, and it is a good read filled with great information and insights. As always, I will be sending pdf’s, however, I request that you purchase the book for your personal library. Authors work hard to create their books, and that work should be recognized.

 

Now a little bit about the book:

 

The Lilac Tree – A Rabbi’s Reflections on Love, Courage, and History is a series of essays reflecting Rabbi Amiel Hirsch’s lifetime of learning, thinking, doing, preaching, teaching, and serving the Jewish people. In it, Rabbi Hirsch observes what lies at the heart of Judaism as it evolved over the centuries, the significance of the State of Israel as the embodiment of the Jewish people’s highest spiritual and moral aspirations, and the centrality of the time-tested Jewish ethical impulse that offers the world a means to repair its brokenness, polarization, and immorality.

 

Rabbi Hirsch is a rabbi and attorney. He is the senior rabbi of Stephen Wise Free Synagogue.

 


MELTON CLASS BEGINNING ON MARCH 3


Rabbi is starting a Melton class on the History of the Arab-Israeli Conflict on March 3rd. He is teaching the same class twice a week on Monday mornings and Wednesday Evenings. Additional information to follow.


The dates of the classes are below.

 

Monday mornings 10:00 to 11:30

March 3,10,17, 24, 31

April 7,28, 

May 5, 12, 19


Wednesday Evenings after minyan from 8:00 to 9:30

March 5, 12, 19, 26

April 2, 9, 30

May 7, 14, 21


SUNDAY, February 2

Pickleball (see times below)


Showing of the film

Groundhog Day

2:00 PM

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TUESDAY, February 4

Pickleball (See times below)

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WEDNESDAY, February 5

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM


Rabbi's Class

following services

7:30 PM

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THURSDAY, February 6

Torah Study

11:00 AM


Pickleball (See times below)

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FRIDAY, February 7

Studying the Prophets

following morninng minyan


CLICK HERE FOR WEDNESDAY EVENING LILAC TREE CLASS
CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY MORNING TORAH STUDY
CLICK HERE FOR FRIDAY MORNING PROPHET STUDY
 

Sunday, February 2

“Groundhog Day”

Movie and light refreshments

2:00 PM

Wednesday, February 19:

WAX Book Club

4:00 PM


Thursday, February 20

PJP Israel Program

The Disappearing Dead Sea


Thursday February 27

Holocaust Survivors in 2024

8:30 pm

MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

PICKLEBALL

Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays

PICKLEBALL SCHEDULE 

CELEBRATE GROUND HOG DAY ON LBI


Sunday, February 2:

“Groundhog Day”

Movie and light refreshments

AT THE JCC

2:00 PM

NO CHARGE

JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING

Wednesday, February19th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

The Matchmaker’s Gift

By Linda Cohen Loigman

Even as a child in 1910, Sara Glikman knows her gift: she is a maker of matches and a seeker of soulmates. But among the pushcart-crowded streets of New York’s Lower East Side, Sara’s vocation is dominated by devout older men—men who see a talented female matchmaker as a dangerous threat to their traditions and livelihood. After making matches in secret for more than a decade, Sara must fight to take her rightful place among her peers, and to demand the recognition she deserves.

Two generations later, Sara’s granddaughter, Abby, is a successful Manhattan divorce attorney, representing the city’s wealthiest clients. When her beloved Grandma Sara dies, Abby inherits her collection of handwritten journals recording the details of Sara’s matches. But among the faded volumes, Abby finds more questions than answers. Why did Abby’s grandmother leave this library to her and what did she hope Abby would discover within its pages? Why does the work Abby once found so compelling suddenly feel inconsequential and flawed? Is Abby willing to sacrifice the career she’s worked so hard for in order to keep her grandmother’s mysterious promise to a stranger? And is there really such a thing as love at first sight?

Click here to order The Matchmaker’s Gift By Linda Cohen Loigman from Amazon. Click here to borrow the book from the Ocean County Library. 

PJP ISRAEL PROGRAM

Thursday, February 20 @ 8:30 PM

Shay Rabineau, Associate Professor of Israel Studies/Associate Director of the Center for Isarel Studies, Binghamton University

“The Disappearing Dead Sea: An Exploration of the Poltical, Economic, and Military Factors that have Given Rise to One of the World’s Major Environmental Crises”

 

In 1934, a group of teenagers from a Zionist youth and scouting group became the first people in recorded history to circle the Dead Sea on foot. In 2022, Shay Rabineau embarked on an attempt to retrace the route of the 1934 expedition, with an eye on the remarkable regional transformations that had taken place over the intervening 88 years. The research project, which included writing, interviewing, photographing, mapping, and video recording along the way, was the most holistic exploration of the Dead Sea and its surroundings since the rise of modern nation-states in the Middle East. This presentation outlines the details of the 2022 Dead Sea Trek, and in doing so, examines the political, economic, and military factors that have given rise to one of the world's major environmental crises. 

 

Shay Rabineau is Associate Professor of Israel Studies and chair of the Department of Judaic Studies at Binghamton University. His 2023 book, Walking the Land: A History of Israeli Hiking Trails (Indiana University Press) won the 2024 Yonathan Shapiro Best Book Award from the Association for Israel Studies. His research and teaching focus on the history, geography, and politics of Israel and the modern Middle East. Shay's current book project is a work of environmental history that builds on his 2022 circumnavigation of the Dead Sea through Jordan, Israel, and the West Bank.

Thursday February 27

8:30 pm - ZOOM

As we approach the 80th anniversary of the liberation of Auschwitz, what is still open to discuss with Germany? For the Jewish community and the world, how do we transmit the lessons of the Holocaust in an eventual world without

survivors?


Greg Schneider, CEO of the Claims Conference, will join us on ZOOM to reflect on the negotiations with Germany and Austria for funding for Holocaust survivors.

Presented by the PJP Consortium and The Emanuel Synagogue Adult Education Committee. 

PJP PROGRAMS


As part of the PJP consortium the JCC is privy to many outstanding programs.



Travel around the world to Jewish neighborhoods...Study the ever complex dynamics of Eretz Yisrael...Enjoy stories of famous Jewish commedians,,,,


Zoom link will be published prior to each program....





The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.



We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample of some of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.


New item in the Gift Shop COASTAL COLORS COLLECTION OF MEZZUZAHS. Great Chanukah gift for someone moving into a new home.

Eileen Jacobs, Potter

Seacrest Designs

Lavina Haven Soy Candles and

Essential Oil Soaps

Mezzuzahs

Resin Bowls and Candlesticks by Seacrest Designs

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Erik Cameron, MD

Maxine Wink

Perla Zavelson

Lillian Kenter*

Frieda Klein

Martin Nissenblatt

Mary Esther Sprague Ruoff*

Benjamin Scharf

Helen Tebeleff

Sondra Zegas

Milton Elefant

Henry Hirsh

William Jaslow

Jack Kaplan

Stella Schub

Joseph Stern

Arthur Sussman

Marvin Alexander

Romeo Dicicco

Janet Dondershine

Marvin Fitts*

Phyllis Greenfield

David Lipsitz

Bernard Matz*

Esther Sheparde

Harold Simandl

Mel Ehrich

Abraham Robin*

Todd Michael Spencer*

Helen Strausser

Samuel Strausser

David Brill*

Donald Brill*

Isador Dalinsky

Irene Kossman

Henry Rosen

Peter Ungar

Erma Glass

Anna Gottlieb*

Robert Oliner


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

CLICK HERE FOR EVENING SERVICE
CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Arlene Schragger

February 1

Herbert Feinberg

February 2

Jeffrey Greenbaum

February 2

Paul Levine

February 4

Stephen Scharf

February 4

Stacey Chazin

February 5

Steven Gondelman

February 5

Stephen Lang

February 5

Stephen Pyles

February 5

Michelle Goldman

February 6

Cary Reimer

February 7

Carol Weissman

February 7

MAZEL TOV

Rima and Roger Rosenstein

on the Bar Mitzvah of their grandson, Sidney Mordecai Benin, son of Melissa Rosenstein and David Benin, last weekend at Congregation Rodeph Shalom in San Rafael, CA.

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CONTACT: 

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CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos


Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer