May 2026 - Issue 1

 

Past Newsletters

Upcoming Events, Seminars and Webinars

Table of Contents

 

Message From the AAML President


The Tax-Affecting Paradox | Read More


Last Chance for Early Registration and Elite Vegas Experiences at the National Family Law Conference | Register Now


Build the Next Generation at the AAML Institute for Family Law Associates | Register Today


Advancing Family Law Arbitration at AAML's 2026 Training


Attend the Bounds of Advocacy Town Hall | Register Now


AAML Admissions Update: New Admissions Portal Is Live! | Learn More


Join Us Tomorrow for May's 'Let's Talk About It' Session | Register Now


Show Your Pride: Shop the AAML Swag Store | Shop Now


AAML Webinar: Elevating Your Presence & Impact on LinkedIn | Register Now


Elite Training for Family Law Support Staff Returns in 2026 With New Topics | Learn More


AAML Northern California Celebrates 49th Annual Symposium

 
 

Message From the AAML President

By: Thomas Sasser, AAML President

Fellows,


As spring gives way to the beginning of summer, the work of the Academy continues to move forward with remarkable energy and purpose. This is a season of important progress: progress in the way we welcome new Fellows, progress in the standards that guide our profession, progress in expanding alternative dispute resolution in family law and progress in building national programs that reflect the very best of the Academy. I am grateful for the extraordinary work being done by our Fellows, our committees, our chapters and our national staff as we continue to advance the mission and future of AAML.


A Modern Admissions Experience: The Launch of Slayte

This month marks a major milestone for the Academy with the launch of our new AAML admissions platform on Slayte. This launch is the product of nearly two years of dedicated work by the AAML Admissions Process Task Force, our national office staff and the many Fellows who have contributed their time, judgment and insight to improving one of the most important functions of the Academy.


The new platform is designed to provide applicants with a high-touch, high-tech experience that better reflects the professionalism and selectivity of AAML. It includes a more streamlined application, a clearer and more user-friendly process, and improved communication at every stage.


For chapters, Slayte will provide more regular and meaningful updates regarding the progress of each application, allowing chapter leadership to remain better informed and more engaged. For Fellows, the process includes a new, shorter reference form that is intended to make meaningful participation easier while still preserving the integrity and rigor of the admissions process. Most importantly, these improvements are designed to help applications for admission be processed in seven months or less, while maintaining the high standards that define Fellowship in the Academy.


Admissions is not simply an administrative function. It is how we identify, welcome and invest in the next generation of Academy leaders. This modernized platform is an important step forward in making that process more efficient, more transparent and more responsive to applicants, chapters and Fellows alike.


Modernizing the Bounds of Advocacy

The Academy also continues its important work on the updated and modernized Bounds of Advocacy. This project is one of the most meaningful substantive initiatives currently underway within AAML. The Bounds of Advocacy have long served as a defining expression of the Academy's commitment to professionalism, civility, integrity and excellence in the practice of family law. As our practices, courts, technology and client needs continue to evolve, it is essential that this guidance evolve as well.


On Tuesday, May 19, Fellows will have the opportunity to participate in a special Bounds of Advocacy Town Hall preview meeting. This event is designed to give Fellows an early look at the newly updated Bounds of Advocacy and to provide an opportunity for questions, comments and meaningful discussion before the final release in November 2026.


I strongly encourage Fellows to take part in this important conversation. The strength of the Bounds has always come from the collective wisdom and lived experience of our Fellowship. Your participation will help ensure that the updated Bounds remain both aspirational and practical, and that they continue to reflect the highest ideals of our profession.


AAML Arbitration Training and Our Work With the Uniform Law Commission

Last week, on May 7 and 8, I had the privilege of attending and participating in the AAML Arbitration Training in Chicago. It was a tremendous success. I joined 36 other outstanding Fellows and a phenomenal faculty for a wonderful, challenging and thought-provoking training focused on the expanding role of arbitration in family law.


The program reflected the very best of the Academy: serious scholarship, practical skills training, collegial exchange and a shared commitment to improving the administration of family justice. I want to extend my sincere thanks to the program chairs, Amy Amundsen, Carolyn Zack and Stacey Warren, as well as the entire faculty team, for their extraordinary work in designing and presenting such a valuable program.


The success of this training also underscores the Academy's growing relationship with the Uniform Law Commission and our continued commitment to the nationwide adoption of thoughtful, effective family law arbitration procedures. The Academy is uniquely positioned to help lead this national conversation. Our Fellows understand the complexity of family law disputes, the importance of careful procedural safeguards and the need for dispute resolution options that serve families with efficiency, fairness and professionalism.


Building the Preeminent National Family Law Conference

Next month, the Academy will gather in Las Vegas for the AAML National Family Law Conference. AAML is building what we intend to become the preeminent annual national family law program for all family lawyers seeking advanced education in family law. This conference is not simply an Academy event; it is an opportunity for AAML to lead nationally by offering sophisticated, practical and forward-looking programming to the broader family law bar.


The registration numbers are tremendous, and the momentum around this conference continues to grow. I urge every Fellow who has not yet registered to do so. I also encourage you to send other lawyers from your firms — partners, associates and rising leaders — and to encourage other excellent family lawyers in your communities to attend.


The conference will also include programming designed for potential AAML applicants. This is an important opportunity to introduce highly qualified lawyers to the Academy, to allow them to experience the quality of our educational programming and to help them better understand the standards, culture and collegiality that define AAML.


And, of course, Las Vegas offers an unmatched setting for this national gathering. From exceptional restaurants and world-class entertainment to shows, sporting events, shopping, nightlife and the energy of the Vegas Strip, there is no shortage of things to enjoy before, during and after the conference. This is a program designed to deliver serious CLE, meaningful professional connection and a memorable Academy experience.


Chapter Visits and the Strength of Our Fellowship

One of the great privileges of serving as AAML President is the opportunity to spend time with Fellows in their own chapters. Over the past month, I was grateful to attend chapter events with the Virginia, Maryland and D.C. Chapters, the Kentucky Chapter, and my home chapter, the Florida Chapter. Other Academy officers also continued this important work through visits to the Northern California Chapter and the New York Chapter.


I want to thank each of these chapters for the warmth and hospitality shown to me and to our officers. It is truly special to spend time with Fellows, hear about the work of their chapters and see firsthand the strength, talent and collegiality that exist throughout the Academy.


The Virginia, Maryland and D.C. Chapter Retreat offered outstanding social and networking opportunities and reflected the deep relationships among Fellows across those jurisdictions. The Kentucky Chapter presented an excellent educational program and hosted a wonderful dinner with members of the judiciary, reinforcing the important role our chapters play in elevating the profession and strengthening relationships with the bench.


It was also a special pleasure to spend time with my home chapter in Florida. Their educational program was exceptional, and I want to recognize outgoing Chapter President Joe Hunt and Maria Gonzalez for their leadership and work on that program. I also congratulate and welcome Shannon Novey of Tallahassee as the new president of the Florida Chapter. I know the chapter will continue to thrive under her leadership.


Looking Ahead

The work taking place across the Academy is substantial, meaningful and forward-looking. From admissions modernization to professional standards, from arbitration leadership to national education, from chapter engagement to the development of future leaders, AAML continues to demonstrate why it remains the premier organization of family law practitioners in the country.


Thank you for your continued commitment to the Academy, to one another and to the profession we are privileged to serve. I look forward to seeing many of you in Las Vegas in June and to continuing our work together in the months ahead.


Warm regards,

Thomas J. Sasser

President, American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers

The Tax-Affecting Paradox

By: Andrew Soshnick, AAML

For years, the U.S. Tax Court has vacillated regarding the practice of tax affecting under the income approach to valuation. This article explains a recent opinion from the Tax Court suggesting that tax affecting is back in vogue for consideration and use by valuation analysts and approval by courts on an ad hoc, carefully considered basis. 

 

Last Chance for Early Registration and Elite Vegas Experiences at the National Family Law Conference

Don't miss out on early registration for the National Family Law Conference, where you'll network with the best in family law while hitting the jackpot on advanced CLE (with a Vegas twist!). Add-on experiences will allow you to build your referral network while enjoying the best of what Las Vegas has to offer.


But don't delay — you only have until Monday, May 18, to save $200 on your registration and sign up for local experiences.

Build the Next Generation at the AAML Institute for Family Law Associates

Sharpen Skills. Build Connections. Hit the Pickleball Court.

 

The AAML Institute for Family Law Associates returns to Chicago Sept. 25–28 for four days of immersive learning, mentorship and networking designed for rising family law attorneys. Associates will gain practical legal and practice management skills through hands-on training and direct access to experienced AAML Fellows.

 

The program also offers unique opportunities to connect, including networking dinners and pickleball with peers and AAML leaders.

 

Sponsor your associates and invest in the future of your firm.

 

All attendees must be sponsored by an AAML Fellow and must provide their sponsoring Fellow’s information during registration.

Advancing Family Law Arbitration at AAML's 2026 Training

Thank you to everyone who joined us in Chicago for the sold-out 2026 Arbitration Training. Over two immersive days, participants engaged in hands-on learning, mentorship and practical instruction designed to strengthen arbitration skills and advance the future of family law dispute resolution.

 

AAML remains proud to be the only organization offering arbitration certification specifically for family law, and we look forward to seeing this year’s attendees bring their new expertise back to their practices and jurisdictions.

 

Attend the Bounds of Advocacy Town Hall

Fellows are invited to attend the Bounds of Advocacy Update Town Hall on Tuesday, May 19, at 6 p.m. CT. This town hall will provide insight on proposed structural changes and high-level content updates being developed to modernize the Bounds of Advocacy.



The session will also outline upcoming milestones, anticipated timelines and how feedback from stakeholders is being incorporated into the development process. Fellows will be invited to provide comments on the updates via a follow-up survey.


If you are unable to attend live, the session will be recorded for viewing. 

AAML Admissions Update: New Admissions Portal Is Live!

We’re excited to announce that AAML’s new admissions platform is open and accepting applications! All previous pre-application and application forms are closed, and new applications will move through our new portal designed to streamline the admissions processes, proactively update applicants through automated communications and create a more efficient experience for everyone. 


Create your account on AAML's new admissions platform today to ensure seamless access to Fellowship applications and evaluation materials.  


As part of this transition, please note that memberships@aaml.org has moved to admissions@aaml.org, now your go-to contact for all admissions inquiries.

Join Us Tomorrow for May's 'Let's Talk About It' Session

The "Let's Talk About It" series is a new discussion series brought to you by the AAML Racial, Ethnic and Religious Considerations in Family Law Committee. The series is a welcoming space where people can come together for real, honest conversations about the issues that shape our interactions with clients, staff, colleagues and other professionals. 


Join us tomorrow, May 13, at 6 p.m. CT for the next "Let's Talk About" discussion. Following up on our April meeting, this session will feature an engaging conversation that combines practical guidance with cultural considerations.


Registration also is open for the discussion on Wednesday, June 10, at 6 p.m. CT, which will highlight the book "We Can’t Talk About That at Work!" by Mary-Frances Winters on how to address difficult topics in a way that brings people together. Get ahead on your summer reading and purchase the book online or at your local bookseller.

Show Your Pride: Shop the AAML Swag Store

The AAML Swag Store offers premium AAML-branded apparel and accessories that let you celebrate your Fellowship in style. You'll find top-of-the-line brands such as Peter Millar, Brooks Brothers, YETI and more.

 

AAML Webinar

Elevating Your Presence & Impact on LinkedIn

In today's digital-first landscape, having a polished and proactive LinkedIn strategy is indispensable for sophisticated family lawyers. Join us Wednesday, May 20, at noon CT for a workshop designed to transform your LinkedIn profile from passive to powerful, enhancing your network growth and engagement.


EJ Stern, MA, CPC, and Katherine Wilson, JD, will guide you in real time through the essential steps to audit, optimize and elevate your presence on LinkedIn. You will leave with the skills to create compelling content that engages your audience, supports your firm’s goals and boosts your personal brand.


Complimentary to Fellows.

This program is not eligible for CLE credit.

Elite Training for Family Law Support Staff Returns in 2026 With New Topics

The AAML Elite Training for Family Law Support Staff is back by popular demand with six live virtual sessions, new topics and the same high-caliber instruction from AAML Fellows. Designed exclusively for support staff and paralegals in Fellows’ firms, this series builds confidence, sharpens skills and keeps your team operating at an elite level, all while you stay focused on billable work.


If your staff attended last year, we encourage you to consider return attendance to build on the 2025 topics and deepen impact. The list of AAML Fellows and their session topics is now available.


Want to be the first to know when registration opens in June? Sign up to be notified when it is time to register your staff. Don't wait — this event sold out in a matter of weeks last year.

 

AAML Northern California Celebrates 49th Annual Symposium

By: Victoria Lewis, Chapter President, AAML Northern California

The Northern California Chapter gathered in Napa Valley on a beautiful first weekend of May for our 49th Annual Symposium — Break on Through: Advocacy, Justice, and the Edge of Vengeance — and the weekend exceeded every expectation.

Over 360 family law attorneys and professionals came together for three days of thought-provoking programming that challenged assumptions, deepened skills and generated the kind of hallway conversations that linger long after the panels end — along with memorable meals, dancing and genuine companionship. The credit belongs entirely to our Symposium Chairs, Ashley Rodet and Rodrigo Dias, and our Executive Director, Jenn Cass, whose vision and tireless dedication made every moment possible.

What made this Symposium particularly meaningful was not simply the presence of distinguished guests from across the Academy — it was their full engagement in everything the weekend had to offer. Scott Mann and his wife Kim traveled from Kansas to be with us, and from the opening session to the dance floor, their warmth set a tone that permeated the entire event. Gary Rosen brought that same spirit, moving effortlessly among Fellows and non-Fellows alike and reminding everyone that the Foundation’s mission lives in exactly these moments of connection. Steven Mindel and his wife Nancy made the trip north from Southern California — and their presence was a living expression of the inter-chapter collaboration that makes this Academy unlike any other.

As we look ahead to our 50th Annual Symposium, we carry with us the warmth of this weekend and deep gratitude to all who helped make it extraordinary.

What's Happening in Your Chapter?

Visit the AAML Chapters page for the latest updates from local chapters.