The Two Travelers – A Story About Optimism
Contributed by Past International President H. Nick Prillaman, Jr.
I’ve used this story on countless occasions as it really does show the difference that attitude can make.
There was once a traveler who was walking from a village in the mountains to a village in the valley.
As he walked along, the traveler saw a monk working in a field, so he stopped and said to the monk, “I’m on my way to the village in the valley, can you tell me what it’s like?”
The monk looked up from his labor and asked the man where he had come from.
The man responded, “I have come from the village in the mountains.”
“What was that like?” the monk asked.
“Terrible!” the man exclaimed. “No one spoke my language, I had to sleep on a dirt floor in one of their houses, they fed me some sort of stew that had yak or dog in it, or both, and the weather was atrocious.”
“Then I think that you will find that the village in the valley is much the same,” the monk noted.
A few hours later another traveler passed by and said to the monk, “I am on my way to the village in the valley, can you tell what it’s like?”
“Where have you come from?” enquired the monk.
“I have come from the village in the mountains.”
“And what was that like?” the monk asked.
“It was awesome!” the second traveler replied. “No one spoke my language, so we communicated using our hands and facial expressions. I got to sleep on a dirt floor, which I’d never done before! They fed me some sort of weird stew — I have no idea what was in it, but just to experience how the locals lived was great, and the weather was freezing cold, which meant that I really got a taste of the local conditions. It was one of the best experiences of my life.”
“Then I think that you’ll find that the village in the valley is much the same,” the monk said.
Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we respond. Don’t allow the challenges of life to take away your joy.
There are lots of reasons to complain and be miserable if that’s how you look at life. And there are lots of reasons to be enthusiastic and joyful if that’s how you look at life.
How do you look at life?