JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

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May 1,2026

14 Iyar 5786

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Friday Evening

6:00 PM

In person and on Zoom 

7:30 PM ON 

MAY 1, JUNE 5, AUGUST 7

Shabbat on the Beach

6:00 PM


 

Shabbat Morning 

Services – 9:00 AM



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August 28 - Spray Beach


A TORAH MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


Parashat Emor contains a calendar of sacred times; the Torah calls them “Mo-Ahday Adonai” (Fixed times of the Lord). First, the Israelites are told that they may work for six days, but that the seventh day must be a Sabbath of complete rest. It then provides the dates and requirements for the annual Festivals and holidays from Passover, to Shavuot, to Rosh Hashanah, to Yom Kippur, and finally to Sukkot. 


The Text provides the dates and requirements for each holiday. Specifically the people are told what to sacrifice and when. At various times they are told what they can eat, or when they can eat.  The types of animals and grain to be sacrificed are pronounced and the sacrifices themselves are somewhat choreographed.


However, in the middle of the instructions there is a seemingly odd insertion. Therein it says:


And when you reap the harvest of your land, you shall not reap all the way to the edges of your field, or gather the gleanings of your harvest; you shall leave them for the poor and the stranger: I am the Lord your God.


Why would this be included at this point in the Text? One answer might be that the Festivals are set up around the harvest cycle. As such, they will be times that it will be natural to be thankful and to bring offerings to God. This is good for the farmers, or the folks with the resources to purchase animals or grain to sacrifice. But what about those people who are too poor to bring an offering? Or too poor to even eat?


If the Festival times are about a successful harvest, having an abundance, and being thankful, then by legislating that pieces of the field and crop must be left for the poor and the stranger, the Torah ensures that everyone has something.  It ensures that the less fortunate will have food to eat, perhaps be thankful, and maybe even have enough to bring an offering to God.


A holy society not only helps those in need without fanfare and without demeaning them, but it also gives them the ability to praise God for the little they do have. In this way, everyone has the opportunity to feel connected to the Holy One.  It then becomes a harvest of fruits, vegetables, grains, and souls.


This coming Monday evening and Tuesday is Lag Ba’Omer.

Here are 7 interesting facts about this holiday:


1. It's the 33rd day of the Omer count.

2. It's the anniversary of the death of Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, writer of the Zohar and teacher of Kabablah.

3. It's also the day that commands us to love and respect each other.

4. It's traditional to light bonfires on Lag Ba’Omer eve.

5. It's customary to eat carobs on Lag Ba’Omer.

6. It's the one day during the Omer (the counting between Passover and Shavuot) when you can suspend the mourning practices and do such things as have a celebration, listen to music or cut your hair.

7. There are seven facts here because seven represents the number of perfection. Seven's a pretty popular number in Judaism.

7 weeks of the Omer.

7 emotions, one for each week of the Omer( love, fear, compassion, ambition, humility, bonding and receptiveness).

7 candles in the Temple Menorah.

7 days of the week.

7 colors in the rainbow- the sign of G-d's covenant.

 

Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, May 1, 2026

7:32 PM

WOMEN'S AUXILIARY (WAX) SHABBAT


Friday

May 1, 2026

WAX SHABBAT DINNER

6:30 PM

WAX SERVICES

7:30 PM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT

Saturday

May 1, 2026

SERVICES

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services and Torah Study

SATURDAY MORNING


TORAH READING

Parashat Emor 

 Leviticus 21:1-24:23

Emor (“Say”) opens with laws regulating priestly behavior, working in the Mishkan (Tabernacle), and consuming sacrifices and priestly food. It describes the biblical holidays of Passover, Shavuot, Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, and Sukkot, and ends with a story about a blasphemer and his punishment. 

Here is the Portion


HAFTORAH

Ezekiel 44:15-31

The text of this week's haftarah, found in the book of Ezekiel (44:15–31), details the laws for the priests in the time of the third Temple. In this way, the Torah portion and the haftarah share a common theme. Just as Moses describes priestly laws and regulations in the parashah, so, too, the prophet Ezekiel explains priestly laws in the haftarah.

Here is the Haftorah


TORAH QUESTION?


How might the commandments of gleaning and saving the corners of the field for the poor) invite us to cultivate a sense of empathy and solidarity with marginalized members of society?


 

Rabbi Jay will be in his office at the JCC after services on Saturdays. The Rabbi is also available at any time or place to schedule in-person, or virtual meetings at your convenience. The Rabbi can be reached by call/text 973-865-9534 or email at Mjayrab@gmail.com

WEEKDAY SERVICES


Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


"The Jews of Kurdistan" with Levi Meir Clancy which took place last Thursday evening. Below is the recording link to share with your registrants.
https://us02web.zoom.us/rec/share/CUcJvkV8aMeiPMYPHjKcfpSifdeK6dKmsty_Y8JRIlxWXr2xRpp8hzl1mreiwydL.JGc2y4kXsgHRa55d

Passcode: d91.4xQv

SUNDAY, May 3

Pickleball

10:00 AM - 1 PM

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TUESDAY, May 5

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

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WEDNESDAY, May 6

MAH JONGG

12:30 PM

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THURSDAY, May 7

Pickleball

10:00 AM - 1 PM


SECURITY TRAINING DATES


Stop The Bleed 

June 4th, 10-12:30

Active Threat Training 

June 25th 10-12:30

JFED will be conducting both programs!



Friday, May 8

Safety & Your Skin with

Chuck Sidwas

11:00 AM - 12:30 PM


Monday, May 11

Easy Hiking with Lisa Riley

10:00 AM - 12:00 Noon


Friday, May 15

WAX Brunch

11:00 AM


Sunday, May 17

Wine Tasting Event

7:00 PM


Wednesday, May 20

WAX Book Club

4:00 PM





PICKLEBALL

Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays

10 - 1

MAH JONGG & CANASTA 

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM 


CLICK HERE FOR A WAX CALENDAR OF EVENTS

WAX BOOK DISCUSSION GROUP

Wednesday, May 20th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

The Book of Lost Hours

By Hayley Gelfuso


Enter the time space, a soaring library filled with books containing the memories of those have passed and accessed only by specially made watches once passed from father to son—but mostly now in government hands. This is where eleven-year-old Lisavet Levy finds herself trapped in 1938, waiting for her watchmaker father to return for her. When he doesn’t, she grows up among the books and specters, able to see the world only by sifting through the memories of those who came before her. As she realizes that government agents are entering the time space to destroy books and maintain their preferred version of history, she sets about saving these scraps in her own volume of memories. Until the appearance of an American spy named Ernest Duquesne in 1949 offers her a glimpse of the world she left behind, setting her on a course to change history and possibly the time space itself.


In 1965, sixteen-year-old Amelia Duquesne is mourning the disappearance of her uncle Ernest when an enigmatic CIA agent approaches her to enlist her help in tracking down a book of memories her uncle had once sought. But when Amelia visits the time space for the first time, she realizes that the past—and the truth—might not be as linear as she’d like to believe.

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MARK YOUR CALENDAR FOR JUNE 10

THIS PROGRAM IS PRESENTED BY THE INTERFAITH CLERGY OF LONG BEACH ISLAND OF WHICH THE JCC OF LBI IS A PART

The Federation is offering an incentive for our members to attend the Let's Connect event on June 17. For each $36 ticket purchased, the JCC will receive a donation from the Federation of $18. 

BUY YOUR COMEDY SHOW TICKETS NOW



NEW ITEMS IN THE GIFT SHOP


HOLDERS FOR MATCH BOOK FOR CANDLE LIGHTING

MEZZUZAHS FOR CHILDREN'S ROOM

STERLING SILVER NECKLACES MADE IN iSRAEL


The gift shop is open during office hours

M-F 10 - 2.


CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:

Elly Albu

Daniel Bendavid

Hyman Danon*

Anne Eiser

Leonard Fox

Rebecca Gerber*

Ernest Lippmann

Sophie Strote

Louis Cohen

Eric Katz*

Lillian Medvin

Rose Buznitsky

Irene Ginsburg

Leo Krampf

Evelyn Lizzack

Judy Papier

Stanley Katz

Joseph Lawrence Greene

Ray Lehrer

Kathleen Rifkin

Rena Entin

Victor Marcus

Abe Morgenstern

David Slott*

Cory Alpert*

Robert Gottlin

Dora Koyner*


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.

"May God remember forever our dear ones who have gone to their eternal rest. May they be at one with the One who is life eternal. May the beauty of their lives shine for evermore, and may our lives always bring honor to their memory."



Beth Zemble-Rosenzweig

May 5

Joel Werbel

May 5

Michael Kaplon

May 6

Peter Langerman

May 6

Henry Gardner

May 7

Jeffrey Bernstein

May 8


Mazel Tov to Jessica and Brian Karpoff and Eve E. and to Stu W Lehrer upon the birth of their newest Grand Nephew: 

Phineas "Phin" Wolf Karpoff Saltzman (Zev Amir) to 

Rachel Karpoff and Adam Saltzman. 

Zev is in honor of Adam's maternal grandmother Miriam Wolf z"l. Phineas and Amir are both in honor of Rachel's grandmother and Stu's mother Phyllis z"l.


SHARE YOUR NEWS AND PICTURES

CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE

This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 973-634-5349



We would like to expand our Caring Committee to reach out to folks who need a "how are you doing?" call once and a while. Please contact

Debby Schweighardt

973-634-5349 if you are interesting in participating



GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Scroll down to see the new Ner Tamid Fund


Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.


ENDOWMENT FUND

This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.


GENERAL FUND

Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.


KOL HAKAVOD FUND

Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.



RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND

This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.


ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND

The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.



NER TAMID FUND

The Ner Tamid Fund was established in 2025 as part of the JCC’s 75th Anniversary Celebration. Its purpose is to fund necessary maintenance or improvement of our beautiful JCC building as well as the Parsonage. To ensure that the JCC remains an Eternal Light for the Jewish Community on and off the island and in Southern Ocean County generally, please consider making a separate donation to the Ner Tamid Fund, or allocating a small portion of your High Holiday donation to that fund.

 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Lorna Klein

Joyce Levine

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager




BULLETIN:

LATEST BULLETIN



PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Krieger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer