JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER

May 24, 2024

16 Iyar 5784

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KUDOS TO THE JCC OF LBI FOR HOSTING AN EXTREMELY INFORMATIVE AND TIMELY TALK WITH ALAN DERSHOWITZ THIS EVENING. OVER 500 HOUSEHOLDS WERE ON ZOOM FOR THE PROGRAM. MAZEL TOV TO OUR GREAT INTERVIEWER RABBI JAY AND TO BOARD MEMBER DAVID SHATZ FOR REACHING OUT AND MAKING THE ARRANGEMENTS WITH MR. DERSHOWITZ.

A SHABBAT MESSAGE FROM RABBI JAY


As I am writing this it is Thursday, May 23rd, which is the 15th day of Iyar on the Hebrew calendar. It is also the 31st day of counting the Omer. This means that this coming Sunday is the 33rd day of counting the Omer, also known as Lag Ba’Omer. Also on Sunday is our (somewhat annual) Blessing of the Pets. Look elsewhere in this Shabbat Reminder for specifics about this event.

At any rate, here are 7 interesting facts about Lag Ba’Omer:

 

1. It's the 33rd day of the Omer count

2. It's the anniversary of the death of Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, writer of the Zohar and teacher of Kabablah

3. It's also the day that commands us to love and respect each other.

4. It's traditional to light bonfires on Lag B'Omer eve.

5. It's customary to eat carobs on Lag B'Omer

6. It's the one day during the Omer (the counting between Passover and Shavuot) when you can suspend the mourning practices and do such things as have a celebration, listen to music or cut your hair.

7. There are seven facts here because seven represents the number of perfection. Seven's a pretty popular number in Judaism. Look at some of the 7’s in our tradition:

7 weeks of the Omer

7 emotions, one for each week of the Omer( love, fear, compassion, ambition, humility, bonding and receptiveness)

7 candles in the Menorah

7 days of the week

7 colors in the rainbow- the sign of G-d's covenant

 

According to an article on My Jewish Learning, by: Francine Klagsbrun:

 

The Omer is a time of semi-mourning, when weddings and other celebrations are forbidden, and as a sign of grief, observant Jews do not cut their hair. Anthropologists say that many peoples have similar periods of restraint in the early spring to symbolize their concerns about the growth of their crops. But the most often cited explanation for the Jewish practice comes from the Talmud, which tells us that during this season a plague killed thousands of Rabbi Akiva‘s students because they did not treat one another respectfully. The mourning behavior is presumably in memory of those students and their severe punishment.

 

According to a medieval tradition, the plague ceased on Lag B’omer, the 33rd day of the Omer. (The Hebrew letters lamed and gimel which make up the acronym “Lag” have the combined numerical value of 33.) As a result, Lag B’omer became a happy day, interrupting the sad­ness of the Omer period for 24 hours. (It is thus customary to have weddings on Lag B’Omer).

 

In Israel it is customary to have picnics and light bonfires on Lag B’Omer. 

 

This coming Monday, May 27, 2024, is Memorial Day.  It is observed on the last Monday of May, and honors the men and women who died while serving in the U.S. military. While it has been a tradition to observe this Day with picnics and family gatherings, please be sure to set aside some time to consider the heroes who sacrificed their lives to protect all that we hold dear. If you know a family who has lost someone while serving our country, please reach out to them and thank them. If you do not know anyone personally, spend a moment in reflection for all who have lost their lives so that we might live ours in the best way possible.

 

On Erev Memorial Day (Sunday night) I will be giving the Inaugural Blessing for the Spray Beach Yacht Club.

 

Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


Shabbat Candle

Lighting time

Friday evening

May 24, 2024

7:54 PM


Friday, May 24, 2024


JOIN US FOR

SERVICES

7:30 PM

IN PERSON

& ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday,

May 25, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON &

ON ZOOM

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your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Behar

Torah Portion: Leviticus 25:1-26:2

Behar (“On The Mountain”) details the laws of the sabbatical year (Shemita), when working the land is prohibited and debts are forgiven. It also sets out laws of indentured servitude and of the Jubilee year (Yovel), when property reverts to its original ownership.

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

Jeremiah 32:6-27

This week's haftorah discusses the purchase of a field byJeremiah, echoing one of the themes of this week's Torah portion—the purchase and redemption of real estate.

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH

8:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

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your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

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HAVDALLAH


WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation

from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

EREV SHAVUOT SERVICES

Tuesday, June 11

7:00 PM In Person & Zoom

Service & Study (Tikkum)


Wednesday, June 12

10:00 AM In Person & Zoom

7:30 PM Zoom only


Thursday, June 13

10:00 AM In Person & Zoom

Yiskor (11:30)

SUNDAY, MAY 26

NO Pickleball

10:00 AM


Blessing of the Pets

10:00 AM



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MONDAY, MAY 27

NO Choosing Hope Class



TUESDAY, MAY 28

Pickleball

3:00 PM


Beginning Hebrew

with Ira

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WEDNESDAY, MAY 29

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM


Pirkei Avot, the Ethics of our Ancestors Class

7:50 PM

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THURSDAY, MAY 30

Pickleball

10:00 AM


Torah Study with Rabbi

11:00 AM


Intermediate Hebrew with Ira

2:00 PM

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FRIDAY, MAY 31


Studying the Prophets

with Rabbi Jay

9:00 AM


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MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

PICKLEBALL


SUNDAY 10:00 AM

NO PICKLEBALL 5/26

TUESDAY 3:00 PM

THURSDAY 10:00 AM


Reminder: Pickleball for

members only!

Lag BaOmer 2024 / 5784

33rd day of counting the Omer

Begins at sundown on Saturday, 25 May 2024 and ends at nightfall on Sunday, 26 May 2024.


Lag BaOmer Is celebrated on the 18th day of the Hebrew month of Iyar. One reason given for the holiday is as the day of passing of Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai. Modern Jewish tradition links the holiday to the Bar Kokhba Revolt against the Roman Empire (132-135 CE). In Israel, it is celebrated as a symbol for the fighting Jewish spirit.


One way the holiday is celebrated is with picnics and bonfires which symbolize the light Simeon bar Yohai brought into the world. And in Israel, they plant trees and every year numerous couples wed at this happy time.


Many of us will, in fact, be celebrating Lag BaOmer on this Memorial Day Weekend - remembering those who fought for our country, eating outdoors and planting flowers and sprucing up our landscaping.




SHABBAT ON THE BEACH SERVICES

JUNE DATES


Friday, June 14 @ 6:00 PM

Shabbat on the Beach

Loveladies


Friday, June 21 @ 6:00 PM

Shabbat on the Beach

Spray Beach


Friday, June 28 @ 6:00 PM

Shabbat on the Beach

 Loveladies


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UPCOMING ACTIVITIES

Sunday, June 9 @ 11-1 PM

WAX Welcome to Summer Brunch at the JCC


Friday, June 14 @ 5:30 PM

Blessing of Fleet at Viking Village


Wednesday, June 19 @ 4:00 PM

WAX Book Review


Friday, June 21 @ 6:00 PM

Shabbat on the Beach

Spray Beach


Sunday, June 23

JCC Membership Brunch at the JCC


Friday, June 28 @ 6:00 PM

Shabbat on the Beach in Loveladies


Sunday, June 30 @ 4 - 6 PM

Interfaith Concert with

The Island Singers


CLICK HERE TO VIEW LIST OF EVENTS FROM NOW TO SEPTEMBER

WAX HONEY FROM THE HEART SALE BEGINS JUNE 3


This distinctive 8-ounce jar of kosher honey arrives in time for Rosh Hashanah, decorated with a festive label, and includes a personalized card reading “Shana Tova—Wishing you a Healthy and Happy New Year.” A card also lets the recipients know that a donation has been made in their honor to the Women’s Auxiliary of the JCC of LBI. Details to follow.

PAID UP WAX MEMBERSHIP BRUNCH

PAID UP WAX MEMBERSHIP BRUNCH

Sunday, June 9 at 11:00 AM

PAID WAX MEMBERS ONLY

BRUNCH WILL BE SERVED

Guest Speaker: Phyllis Sisenwine, Certified Personal Coach

RSVP Diane Buskirk by June 5 (856-952-5940)



BLESSING OF THE FLEET AT VIKING VILLAGE IN BARNEGAT LIGHT

Sunday, June 16, 2024 at 5:30


JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Wednesday, June 19th at 4:00 PM

Discussion Leader: TBA

A Castle in Brooklyn By: Shirley Russak Wachtel


1944, Poland. Jacob Stein and Zalman Mendelson meet as boys under terrifying circumstances. They survive by miraculously escaping, but their shared past haunts and shapes their lives forever. Years later, Zalman plows a future on a Minnesota farm. In Brooklyn, Jacob has a new life with his wife, Esther. When Zalman travels to New York City to reconnect, Jacob’s hopes for the future are becoming a reality. With Zalman’s help, they build a house for Jacob’s family and for Zalman, who decides to stay. Modest and light filled, inviting and warm with acceptance—for all of them, it’s a castle to call home. Then an unforeseeable tragedy—and the grief, betrayals, and revelations in its wake—threatens to destroy what was once an unbreakable bond, and Esther finds herself at a crossroads. A Castle in Brooklyn is a moving and heartfelt immigration story about finding love and building a home and family while being haunted by a traumatic past.

INTERFAITH CONCERT

WITH THE ISLAND SINGERS

SUNDAY AFTERNOON JUNE 30TH


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CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Rose Buznitsky

Irene Ginsburg

Leo Krampf

Evelyn Lizzack

Judy Papier

Stanley Katz

Joseph Lawrence Greene

Ray Lehrer

Kathleen Rifkin

Rena Entin

Victor Marcus

Abe Morgenstern

David Slott*

Cory Alpert*

Robert Gottlin

Dora Koyner*

Shelly Keller

Evelyn Rubinfeld

Walter Steigerwald

Mollie Bass*

Samuel Buznitsky

George Fuhrmann

Sylvia Greenspan

Clara Hoffman

Harvey B. Levin

Bernard Ostroff

Abraham Rosenfeld

Howard Sherry*

Melvin Kleinfeld


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 7:45 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.



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A NOTE FROM DIANE HOFFMAN & FAMILY


My children, Sam Hoffman, Eva Hoffman Cornick and Patty Hoffman Brahe and their families, join me in our heartfelt gratitude to our JCC community for the love and support that was extended to us during this difficult time in our lives. We thank you for the many cards and letters expressing your sympathy and the outpouring of generosity with meals and donations. We continue to find a source of strength and comfort from our JCC family.


May this congregation continue to be blessed with the goodness and holiness that it has manifested to us during the period of Barney’s passing.


Diane Hoffman


Cake

Robin Genna

May 25

Karen Shatz

May 27

Zee Jay Greenspan

May 28

Sylvain Nakkab

May 30

Arleen Moffitt

May 31

Bernard Rothman

May 31

 

Roger & Rima Rosenstein

May 25

49th Anniversary

Charles & Barbara Hirsh

May 26

68th Anniversary

Daniel & Lisa Litovsky

May 26

36th Anniversary

Gary & Denni Koupf

May 27

46th Anniversary

Stephen & Rhonda Lang

May 27

45th Anniversary

Mark & Marsha Chazin

May 28

57th Anniversary

Jon & Suzanne Geier

May 28

47th Anniversary

Edward & Marlene Herman

May 30

42nd Anniversary

 


Graduation


HARRIS WEISEL

on the graduation of his grandchildren


Matthew graduating from SUNY Oneonta


Samantha graduating from Marlboro High Schooll, who will be attending Ithaca College in the Fall


Alexa graduating from Lynbrook LI Middle School


SEND ANNOUNCEMENTS OF YOUR GRADUATES TO rvalen1963@aol.com.

PICTURES ARE WELCOME

CARING COMMITTEE


This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.


Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 


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AND PICTURES




CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com

JCC Member Carl Steinberg is looking for a

tennis partner this summer.


Give him a call if you are interested. 215-530-6352

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP


OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine

Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Jon Geier


Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman



WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2

CLOSED THURSDAY



 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst

Contributing Columnist

Sheila Weisel