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JEWISH COMMUNITY
CENTER OF
LONG BEACH ISLAND
E-LETTER
May 24, 2024
16 Iyar 5784
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FOR THE BEST VIEWING OF THE SHABBAT REMINDER
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KUDOS TO THE JCC OF LBI FOR HOSTING AN EXTREMELY INFORMATIVE AND TIMELY TALK WITH ALAN DERSHOWITZ THIS EVENING. OVER 500 HOUSEHOLDS WERE ON ZOOM FOR THE PROGRAM. MAZEL TOV TO OUR GREAT INTERVIEWER RABBI JAY AND TO BOARD MEMBER DAVID SHATZ FOR REACHING OUT AND MAKING THE ARRANGEMENTS WITH MR. DERSHOWITZ.
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A SHABBAT MESSAGE FROM RABBI JAY
As I am writing this it is Thursday, May 23rd, which is the 15th day of Iyar on the Hebrew calendar. It is also the 31st day of counting the Omer. This means that this coming Sunday is the 33rd day of counting the Omer, also known as Lag Ba’Omer. Also on Sunday is our (somewhat annual) Blessing of the Pets. Look elsewhere in this Shabbat Reminder for specifics about this event.
At any rate, here are 7 interesting facts about Lag Ba’Omer:
1. It's the 33rd day of the Omer count
2. It's the anniversary of the death of Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai, writer of the Zohar and teacher of Kabablah
3. It's also the day that commands us to love and respect each other.
4. It's traditional to light bonfires on Lag B'Omer eve.
5. It's customary to eat carobs on Lag B'Omer
6. It's the one day during the Omer (the counting between Passover and Shavuot) when you can suspend the mourning practices and do such things as have a celebration, listen to music or cut your hair.
7. There are seven facts here because seven represents the number of perfection. Seven's a pretty popular number in Judaism. Look at some of the 7’s in our tradition:
7 weeks of the Omer
7 emotions, one for each week of the Omer( love, fear, compassion, ambition, humility, bonding and receptiveness)
7 candles in the Menorah
7 days of the week
7 colors in the rainbow- the sign of G-d's covenant
According to an article on My Jewish Learning, by: Francine Klagsbrun:
The Omer is a time of semi-mourning, when weddings and other celebrations are forbidden, and as a sign of grief, observant Jews do not cut their hair. Anthropologists say that many peoples have similar periods of restraint in the early spring to symbolize their concerns about the growth of their crops. But the most often cited explanation for the Jewish practice comes from the Talmud, which tells us that during this season a plague killed thousands of Rabbi Akiva‘s students because they did not treat one another respectfully. The mourning behavior is presumably in memory of those students and their severe punishment.
According to a medieval tradition, the plague ceased on Lag B’omer, the 33rd day of the Omer. (The Hebrew letters lamed and gimel which make up the acronym “Lag” have the combined numerical value of 33.) As a result, Lag B’omer became a happy day, interrupting the sadness of the Omer period for 24 hours. (It is thus customary to have weddings on Lag B’Omer).
In Israel it is customary to have picnics and light bonfires on Lag B’Omer.
This coming Monday, May 27, 2024, is Memorial Day. It is observed on the last Monday of May, and honors the men and women who died while serving in the U.S. military. While it has been a tradition to observe this Day with picnics and family gatherings, please be sure to set aside some time to consider the heroes who sacrificed their lives to protect all that we hold dear. If you know a family who has lost someone while serving our country, please reach out to them and thank them. If you do not know anyone personally, spend a moment in reflection for all who have lost their lives so that we might live ours in the best way possible.
On Erev Memorial Day (Sunday night) I will be giving the Inaugural Blessing for the Spray Beach Yacht Club.
Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
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Shabbat Candle
Lighting time
Friday evening
May 24, 2024
7:54 PM
Friday, May 24, 2024
JOIN US FOR
SERVICES
7:30 PM
IN PERSON
& ON ZOOM
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
FRIDAY NIGHT
Saturday,
May 25, 2024
9:00 AM
IN PERSON &
ON ZOOM
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
SHABBAT
TORAH READING
Parashat Behar
Torah Portion: Leviticus 25:1-26:2
Behar (“On The Mountain”) details the laws of the sabbatical year (Shemita), when working the land is prohibited and debts are forgiven. It also sets out laws of indentured servitude and of the Jubilee year (Yovel), when property reverts to its original ownership.
Here is Parshah
HAFTORAH
Jeremiah 32:6-27
This week's haftorah discusses the purchase of a field byJeremiah, echoing one of the themes of this week's Torah portion—the purchase and redemption of real estate.
Here is the Haftorah
HAVDALLAH
8:30 PM
ON ZOOM ONLY
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
HAVDALLAH
WEEKDAY SERVICES
Monday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
Here is your invitation
from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
MA'ARIV
Monday- Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
SHACHARIT
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EREV SHAVUOT SERVICES
Tuesday, June 11
7:00 PM In Person & Zoom
Service & Study (Tikkum)
Wednesday, June 12
10:00 AM In Person & Zoom
7:30 PM Zoom only
Thursday, June 13
10:00 AM In Person & Zoom
Yiskor (11:30)
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SUNDAY, MAY 26
NO Pickleball
10:00 AM
Blessing of the Pets
10:00 AM
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MONDAY, MAY 27
NO Choosing Hope Class
TUESDAY, MAY 28
Pickleball
3:00 PM
Beginning Hebrew
with Ira
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WEDNESDAY, MAY 29
Canasta & Mah Jongg
12:30 PM
Pirkei Avot, the Ethics of our Ancestors Class
7:50 PM
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THURSDAY, MAY 30
Pickleball
10:00 AM
Torah Study with Rabbi
11:00 AM
Intermediate Hebrew with Ira
2:00 PM
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FRIDAY, MAY 31
Studying the Prophets
with Rabbi Jay
9:00 AM
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MAH JONGG & CANASTA
WEDNESDAYS
12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM
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PICKLEBALL
SUNDAY 10:00 AM
NO PICKLEBALL 5/26
TUESDAY 3:00 PM
THURSDAY 10:00 AM
Reminder: Pickleball for
members only!
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Lag BaOmer 2024 / 5784
33rd day of counting the Omer
Begins at sundown on Saturday, 25 May 2024 and ends at nightfall on Sunday, 26 May 2024.
Lag BaOmer Is celebrated on the 18th day of the Hebrew month of Iyar. One reason given for the holiday is as the day of passing of Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai. Modern Jewish tradition links the holiday to the Bar Kokhba Revolt against the Roman Empire (132-135 CE). In Israel, it is celebrated as a symbol for the fighting Jewish spirit.
One way the holiday is celebrated is with picnics and bonfires which symbolize the light Simeon bar Yohai brought into the world. And in Israel, they plant trees and every year numerous couples wed at this happy time.
Many of us will, in fact, be celebrating Lag BaOmer on this Memorial Day Weekend - remembering those who fought for our country, eating outdoors and planting flowers and sprucing up our landscaping.
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SHABBAT ON THE BEACH SERVICES
JUNE DATES
Friday, June 14 @ 6:00 PM
Shabbat on the Beach
Loveladies
Friday, June 21 @ 6:00 PM
Shabbat on the Beach
Spray Beach
Friday, June 28 @ 6:00 PM
Shabbat on the Beach
Loveladies
CLICK HERE FOR BULLETIN WITH ALL THE SUMMER DATES
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Sunday, June 9 @ 11-1 PM
WAX Welcome to Summer Brunch at the JCC
Friday, June 14 @ 5:30 PM
Blessing of Fleet at Viking Village
Wednesday, June 19 @ 4:00 PM
WAX Book Review
Friday, June 21 @ 6:00 PM
Shabbat on the Beach
Spray Beach
Sunday, June 23
JCC Membership Brunch at the JCC
Friday, June 28 @ 6:00 PM
Shabbat on the Beach in Loveladies
Sunday, June 30 @ 4 - 6 PM
Interfaith Concert with
The Island Singers
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WAX HONEY FROM THE HEART SALE BEGINS JUNE 3
This distinctive 8-ounce jar of kosher honey arrives in time for Rosh Hashanah, decorated with a festive label, and includes a personalized card reading “Shana Tova—Wishing you a Healthy and Happy New Year.” A card also lets the recipients know that a donation has been made in their honor to the Women’s Auxiliary of the JCC of LBI. Details to follow.
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PAID UP WAX MEMBERSHIP BRUNCH | |
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PAID UP WAX MEMBERSHIP BRUNCH
Sunday, June 9 at 11:00 AM
PAID WAX MEMBERS ONLY
BRUNCH WILL BE SERVED
Guest Speaker: Phyllis Sisenwine, Certified Personal Coach
RSVP Diane Buskirk by June 5 (856-952-5940)
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BLESSING OF THE FLEET AT VIKING VILLAGE IN BARNEGAT LIGHT
Sunday, June 16, 2024 at 5:30
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JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION
WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM
NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING
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NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING
Wednesday, June 19th at 4:00 PM
Discussion Leader: TBA
A Castle in Brooklyn By: Shirley Russak Wachtel
1944, Poland. Jacob Stein and Zalman Mendelson meet as boys under terrifying circumstances. They survive by miraculously escaping, but their shared past haunts and shapes their lives forever. Years later, Zalman plows a future on a Minnesota farm. In Brooklyn, Jacob has a new life with his wife, Esther. When Zalman travels to New York City to reconnect, Jacob’s hopes for the future are becoming a reality. With Zalman’s help, they build a house for Jacob’s family and for Zalman, who decides to stay. Modest and light filled, inviting and warm with acceptance—for all of them, it’s a castle to call home. Then an unforeseeable tragedy—and the grief, betrayals, and revelations in its wake—threatens to destroy what was once an unbreakable bond, and Esther finds herself at a crossroads. A Castle in Brooklyn is a moving and heartfelt immigration story about finding love and building a home and family while being haunted by a traumatic past.
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INTERFAITH CONCERT
WITH THE ISLAND SINGERS
SUNDAY AFTERNOON JUNE 30TH
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The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:
Rose Buznitsky
Irene Ginsburg
Leo Krampf
Evelyn Lizzack
Judy Papier
Stanley Katz
Joseph Lawrence Greene
Ray Lehrer
Kathleen Rifkin
Rena Entin
Victor Marcus
Abe Morgenstern
David Slott*
Cory Alpert*
Robert Gottlin
Dora Koyner*
Shelly Keller
Evelyn Rubinfeld
Walter Steigerwald
Mollie Bass*
Samuel Buznitsky
George Fuhrmann
Sylvia Greenspan
Clara Hoffman
Harvey B. Levin
Bernard Ostroff
Abraham Rosenfeld
Howard Sherry*
Melvin Kleinfeld
We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 7:45 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.
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A NOTE FROM DIANE HOFFMAN & FAMILY
My children, Sam Hoffman, Eva Hoffman Cornick and Patty Hoffman Brahe and their families, join me in our heartfelt gratitude to our JCC community for the love and support that was extended to us during this difficult time in our lives. We thank you for the many cards and letters expressing your sympathy and the outpouring of generosity with meals and donations. We continue to find a source of strength and comfort from our JCC family.
May this congregation continue to be blessed with the goodness and holiness that it has manifested to us during the period of Barney’s passing.
Diane Hoffman
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Robin Genna
May 25
Karen Shatz
May 27
Zee Jay Greenspan
May 28
Sylvain Nakkab
May 30
Arleen Moffitt
May 31
Bernard Rothman
May 31
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Roger & Rima Rosenstein
May 25
49th Anniversary
Charles & Barbara Hirsh
May 26
68th Anniversary
Daniel & Lisa Litovsky
May 26
36th Anniversary
Gary & Denni Koupf
May 27
46th Anniversary
Stephen & Rhonda Lang
May 27
45th Anniversary
Mark & Marsha Chazin
May 28
57th Anniversary
Jon & Suzanne Geier
May 28
47th Anniversary
Edward & Marlene Herman
May 30
42nd Anniversary
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HARRIS WEISEL
on the graduation of his grandchildren
Matthew graduating from SUNY Oneonta
Samantha graduating from Marlboro High Schooll, who will be attending Ithaca College in the Fall
Alexa graduating from Lynbrook LI Middle School
SEND ANNOUNCEMENTS OF YOUR GRADUATES TO rvalen1963@aol.com.
PICTURES ARE WELCOME
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CARING COMMITTEE
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.
973-634-5349
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SHARE YOUR NEWS
AND PICTURES
CONTACT:
rvalen1963@aol.com
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JCC Member Carl Steinberg is looking for a
tennis partner this summer.
Give him a call if you are interested. 215-530-6352
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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.
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GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"
SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
PAVER FORM
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:
dihoff1@aol.com
PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book
TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES
TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180
ENDOWMENT FUND
Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.
Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.
A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.
YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.
Here is the order form:
YAHRZEIT
KOL HAKAVOD
Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD
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2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS
Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:
RENEW NOW
And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:
JOIN NOW
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JCC FUNDS
Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.
ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.
GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.
KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.
ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
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JCC LEADERSHIP
OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst
BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt
Diane Buskirk
Jon Geier
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Paul Levine
Ken Podos
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Bonni Rubin-Sugarman
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY
President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
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