September already!
Do you subconsciously sabotage what you want in life?
Our mind controls aspects of our happiness, health, and even what we encounter in our life. The subconscious mind is very powerful. As its name suggests, it is "subconscious" so we usually do not know what is going on in there. The internal movie projector of the mind plays life on the big screen for us through the programming that it has accumulated in life.
The subconscious creates programs that play certain scenarios for us. It has been learning and building these programs even before we were born. These programs are its reality but may not necessarily be what we want in life. They can cause health issues, cause us to become injured, make mistakes in life, cause us to gravitate toward certain types of relationships that we do not desire, and steer our lives into other undesirable circumstances.
But the subconscious is always doing what it feels is best for us!
Here is the ironic part. The subconscious can feel it is causing what we feel are undesirable issues to help and protect us. So sometimes what we encounter in life with challenges in health, wealth, career, and relationships is a protective mechanism.
Here are some random examples to give you an idea
- If I were healthy I would have to go back to work
- If I had money everyone wouldn't love me for who I am, they would just want to get my money
- If I got a promotion at work I would have more responsibility and less free time
- If I fall in love I can get hurt again
The scenarios can get much darker than this too. We all do this in some way or another.
How can I see if this is a big problem in my life?
Look at the major things you want in life start asking yourself, or write about it in a journal, "If I magically got what I wanted right now how would my life be more stressful"? See what you come up with. Self-realization is the first step in healing. Then use affirmations, meditation, and visualization to correct any of these misguided ideas you may come up with.
It is important to look at both sides of the coin, what you want and what would change in your life that you might not desire if you had it.
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