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A Mothers Plea Through the Ages
~Jeannette Williams
Oue Lady of Sacred Heart + Hilltown Twp, Pa.
“I am the Canaanite woman.” I said this to a priest after weekday Mass once, after this Gospel had been read. I went into the sacristy, started with this statement, then asked him to pray for my children, one daughter in particular.
I’m sure I am not the only mother who feels this way. So many parents today have children who have either left the Church, gotten involved in drugs, or suffer from mental health issues. The dangers for young people today are so great, and the internet is a major factor in spreading and fomenting anti-Catholic beliefs and unhealthy behavior. Most of the time, once our children are in their teen or adult years, there’s nothing left for a parent to do but to cry out to God for help.
More than once, while pleading in tears for the Lord to help my daughter, I have picked up the Bible and “randomly” (nothing is random with God) opened to this Gospel. So I know Jesus hears me. But why does He seem to be ignoring me, like He seemed to ignore this desperate mother?
I’ve read a variety of explanations about Jesus’ response to this woman, and one of these explanations seems helpful to me. Jesus’ particular focus during His life was to reach out to the Jews and the scattered Israelites. It wasn’t until after the Resurrection that Jesus sent the Apostles out into the whole world to preach and heal. So when He said to her, “I was sent only to the lost sheep of the house of Israel,” He was saying it wasn’t time yet to go to the Gentiles. But she didn’t stop.
When Jesus spoke those seemingly harsh words to her about throwing food to the dogs, He was using an analogy, not calling her a dog. But she entered into that analogy and turned it to her advantage. She did not give up, she was not deterred, and she showed humility by identifying herself with the little pets that the Master takes care of.
This is the winning combination with Jesus: persistence, faith, and humility. What did Jesus say to Jairus when Jairus was told to stop bothering Jesus because his daughter was already dead? “Do not be afraid. Only have faith and she will be saved.”
The Canaanite woman showed that faith, that persistence, that humility. So did Jairus. So must we, mothers and fathers, as we continue to implore Jesus for the healing and salvation of our children. He is listening. He will act when it’s time. Do not be afraid. Only have faith. She WILL be saved.
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