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The Door is Open
Leaving an abusive relationship is a complex process. Survivors often leave and return multiple times before they are able to safely stay away. Our role is to remain supportive and judgment-free, provide tools for safety planning, and remind survivors that we are always here when they are ready to reach out. This was true for survivor Penelope.
Penelope called our 24-hour crisis hotline feeling overwhelmed and unsure of what to do. During the conversation, she shared that she had been experiencing physical abuse and had recently been strangled. She came to our office to speak with an advocate, where she received support and learned about her options. With encouragement from her advocate, Penelope decided to report the abuse to law enforcement and seek medical treatment. Her advocate accompanied her to the hospital, helped her understand the dangers of strangulation, and continued to provide reassurance as Penelope struggled with feelings of guilt and self-blame.
The following day, Penelope spoke with her advocate and decided she did not want to pursue an emergency civil protection order. Her advocate respected her decision, helped her create a safety plan, and reminded her that Open Arms would continue to be there for her without judgment. Although Penelope has not responded to subsequent check-ins, her advocate continues to hope she will reach out when she is ready. This is what advocacy looks like: meeting survivors where they are, providing support and resources, and leaving the door open so they know they are not alone.
*Penelope's name has been changed to protect her confidentiality and privacy.
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