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JEWISH COMMUNITY
CENTER OF
LONG BEACH ISLAND
E-LETTER
July 19, 2024
13 Tammuz 5784
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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
The second half of this week’s Torah portion, Balak, contains the beautifully descriptive poetic verse “Mah Tovu Ohalekha Yaacov, Mishkenotekha Yisrael”. You might recognize this as the prayer that we say as we enter the synagogue every morning, or that is customarily recited at the start of the Friday evening service. It translates as: “How goodly are your tents, O Jacob, your dwellings (sanctuaries) O Israel”.
The set-up for this piece of Text is some explosive Torah. The (non-Jewish) prophet, Balaam is hired by King Balak to curse the Israelites. God is unhappy with this plan and literally places words of praise in the prophet’s mouth. (Earlier in the Text God places words in the mouth of a donkey in a biblical precursor to Mr. Ed.).
The narrative is compelling, but I’d like to take a brief look at the six words that are prominently featured in our liturgy.
The prophet is looking over the entire Israelite encampment as he utters his words. He could be referring to separate structures when he refers to ohalekha (tents) and the mishkenotekha (dwellings/sanctuaries). But, he also could be seeing these two attributes, “tents” and “sanctuaries”, in each home he sees.
An Ohel is a tent; it is a dwelling place for people. A mishkan is a tabernacle; it is a place for the divine presence. What the prophet saw in his vision was that each tent was not just a home for eating, sleeping, and privacy. Each home was additionally a sanctuary and holy. Each residence, even though it was temporary and was erected as a place to fulfill human needs, served the dual purpose of bringing God and holiness into the living space.
A home is not just living space. It is not just a physical structure with a collection of furniture and the things we acquire. A home is also a sanctuary in every meaning of that term.
The reverse is also true. Our JCC is not just a religious space. It is not just a sanctuary. It is also our home. It is a place where we welcome people. It is a place where we spend time together as a larger family. We pray here. We laugh here. We eat here. We sing here. We learn here. We play pickleball here. We deepen our connections to each other and our tradition here. And we console each other here.
A home and a sanctuary. A sanctuary and a home. This is the message to us.
The Jewish people are not only special because of the Temple, or because of the prophets, or because of the kings or because of the Torah. What really makes the Jewish people special is what goes on in our homes. They are homes of love, respect, and learning. They are homes where children learn to be mensches. They are homes where we prepare people to go out and do good in the world. Essentially, because of what we do in our homes, our homes are holy.
This Shabbat we should each take an inventory of our tents. Have we done all that we can do to make our homes sanctuaries? If our living space becomes more holy; if each of our homes becomes a place of repair and a platform for the performance of good deeds, perhaps our lights will help to brighten the lights of the homes around us and, with God’s help, the rest of the world.
Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
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Shabbat Candle
Lighting time
Friday evening
July 19, 2024
8:02 PM
Friday, July 19, 2024
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JOIN US FOR
SERVICES
6:00 PM
on the Beach at
56th Street in
Loveladies
IN PERSON
& ON ZOOM
In case of inclement weather
Services will be conducted at the JCC at 6:00 PM. Check the office answering machine for any updates
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join Services
on Zoom
FRIDAY NIGHT
Saturday,
July 20, 2024
9:00 AM
IN PERSON &
ON ZOOM
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
SHABBAT
TORAH READING
Parashat Balak
Numbers 22:2-25:9
Balak tells the story of the Moabite king Balak, who hires Balaam to curse the Israelites. Balaam’s donkey speaks along the way, and Balaam ends up blessing the Israelites. The portion ends with a story about Israelite men sinning with Moabite women and the stabbing of an Israelite and a Midianite.
Here is Parshah
HAFTORAH
Micah 5:6-6:8
This week's haftorah makes mention of the incident of Balak the king of Moab hiring the sorcerer Balaam to curse the Jewish people — the main topic of this week's Torah reading
Here is the Haftorah
HAVDALLAH
8:30 PM
ON ZOOM ONLY
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
HAVDALLAH
WEEKDAY SERVICES
Monday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
Here is your invitation
from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
MA'ARIV
Monday- Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
SHACHARIT
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FUTURE DATES
July 19th - 56th Street, Loveladies
July 26th - 24th Street, Spray Beach
August 2nd -
August 9th - 56th Street, Loveladies
August 16th - 56th St., Loveladies
August 23rd - 24th St., Spray Beach
August 30th - 24th St., Spray Beach
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SUNDAY, July 21
Pickleball
NO PICKLEBALL THIS SUNDAY
A Evening of Music with
Carl Steinberg
7:00 PM
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TUESDAY, July 23
Pickleball
SEE NEW TIMES BELOW
WAX BRUNCH
AT LBI TABLE
11:00 AM
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WEDNESDAY, July 24
Canasta & Mah Jongg
12:30 PM
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THURSDAY, July 25
Pickleball
SEE NEW TIMES BELOW
Torah Study with Rabbi
11:00 AM
Intermediate Hebrew with Ira
2:00 PM
Trivia with Mike
3:30 PM
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FRIDAY, July 26
Studying the Prophets
with Rabbi Jay
9:00 AM
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MAH JONGG & CANASTA
WEDNESDAYS
12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM
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HERE IS THE
SCHEDULE TO ACCOMODATE ALL LEVELS OF PLAYERS
Tuesdays
3-4 Beginner and Skills Practice
4-5 Regular Play, All Skill Levels
5-6 Experienced Players, Singles
Thursdays
10:30-11:30 Beginners and Skills Practice
11:30-12:30 Regular Play, All Skill Levels
12:30-1:30 Experienced Players, Singles
Sundays
10-11 Beginners and Skills Practice
11-12 Regular Play, All Skill Levels
12-1 Experienced Players, Singles
Reminder: Pickleball for
members only! x
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Friday, July 19
Shabbat on the Beach at Lovelades
6:00 PM
Sunday, July 21
An Evening with Carl Steinberg
7:00 - 9:00 PM
Tuesday, July 23
WAX Brunch at LBI Table
11:00 AM
Thursday, July 25
Trivia with DJ Mike
3:30-6:00 PM
Friday, July 26
Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach
6:00 PM
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Friday, August 2
Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach
6:00 PM
Sunday, August 4
Gypsy Moon Concert, Dinner and Silent Auction
5:30 PM
Friday, August 9
Shabbat on the Beach at Lovelades
6:00 PM
Sunday, August 11
Annual Congregation Meeting
Wednesday, August 14
JCC Bazaar
8:00 AM - 3 PM
Friday, August 16
Shabbat on the Beach at Lovelades
6:00 PM
Sunday, August 18
Marsha Chazin Dance Program
11:30 AM
Friday, August 23
Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach
6:00 PM
Friday, August 30
Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach
6:00 PM
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JOIN
MUSICIAN AND JCC MEMBER
CARL STEINBERG
for a evening of songs you love
The Eagles, Creedence Clearater and the Beach Boys
SUNDAY JULY 21
7:00 - 9:00 PM
$10.00 per person
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THE GYPSY MOON DUET
Sunday, August 4th at 5:30 PM
Dinner
Concert by the Gypsy Moon Duet
An In-House Silent Auction
$40 per person
The committee is excited about the silent auction prizes they have collected so far. You could win a woman’s bicycle, Yankee tickets, Mets tickets, Broadway tickets, artwork, and a stunning antique pendant with rubies. It is going to be a great event!!!!!
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SUMMER BAZAAR
WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 14TH
8:00 AM - 3:00 PM
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The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:
Mark Richard Becker
Alan Diamond
Etta Kessler
Dov Koller
Spencer Levin
Ellen Goldstein
Pauline Hurwitz
Harry Koss
Sylvia Ross
Stanley Appel
Albert Luterman
Janice Sherman
Janie Stovola
Jon Elayne Churgin
Sanford Cohen*
Herman Kaufman
David Resnek
Lillian Zalkind*
Beatrice Bader
Isaac Cohen
Frances Ganek Gendel
Reuben Gerber*
Dorothy Gordon
Bentley Gubar
Marlene Kaufman*
Irwin J. Pripstein*
Kay Gilbert
Shelia Gilman
Joseph Goldstein
Gertrude Gondelman
Irving Hirschfeld
Harry Jacobson*
David Srager
Jacob Weiner
Henry Zlotkin*
We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about 45 minutes to an hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.
*Denotes yahrzeit plaque which will be lit this week
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Susanna Lachs Adler
July 20
Jill Grunewald
July 20
Norman Shapiro
July 21
Robert Simandl
July 21
Martin Flumenbaum
July 22
James H. Wolf
July 22
Edward Herman
July 23
Peter Iris-Williams
July 23
Sharon Spina
July 23
Susan Davis
July 24
Lewis Deutsch
July 24
Jodi Stephani Rothman
July 24
Alix DeTullio
July 25
Debra Schweighardt
July 25
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MAZEL TOV
Deb and David Levy
on the graduation of their granddaughter
Gigi
on her pre-K graduation.
Gigi was a frequent part of Friday night services.
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CARING COMMITTEE
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.
973-634-5349
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CONTACT:
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GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"
SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
PAVER FORM
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:
dihoff1@aol.com
PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book
TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES
TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180
ENDOWMENT FUND
Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.
Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.
A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.
YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.
Here is the order form:
YAHRZEIT
KOL HAKAVOD
Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD
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2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS
Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:
RENEW NOW
And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:
JOIN NOW
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JCC FUNDS
Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.
ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.
GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.
KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.
ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
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JCC LEADERSHIP
OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst
BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt
Diane Buskirk
Jon Geier
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Paul Levine
Ken Podos
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Bonni Rubin-Sugarman
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY
President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
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