JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


July 19, 2024

13 Tammuz 5784



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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


The second half of this week’s Torah portion, Balak, contains the beautifully descriptive poetic verse “Mah Tovu Ohalekha Yaacov, Mishkenotekha Yisrael”. You might recognize this as the prayer that we say as we enter the synagogue every morning, or that is customarily recited at the start of the Friday evening service. It translates as: “How goodly are your tents, O Jacob, your dwellings (sanctuaries) O Israel”.

 

The set-up for this piece of Text is some explosive Torah. The (non-Jewish) prophet, Balaam is hired by King Balak to curse the Israelites. God is unhappy with this plan and literally places words of praise in the prophet’s mouth. (Earlier in the Text God places words in the mouth of a donkey in a biblical precursor to Mr. Ed.).

 

The narrative is compelling, but I’d like to take a brief look at the six words that are prominently featured in our liturgy.

 

The prophet is looking over the entire Israelite encampment as he utters his words. He could be referring to separate structures when he refers to ohalekha (tents) and the mishkenotekha (dwellings/sanctuaries). But, he also could be seeing these two attributes, “tents” and “sanctuaries”, in each home he sees.

 

An Ohel is a tent; it is a dwelling place for people. A mishkan is a tabernacle; it is a place for the divine presence. What the prophet saw in his vision was that each tent was not just a home for eating, sleeping, and privacy. Each home was additionally a sanctuary and holy. Each residence, even though it was temporary and was erected as a place to fulfill human needs, served the dual purpose of bringing God and holiness into the living space.

 

A home is not just living space. It is not just a physical structure with a collection of furniture and the things we acquire. A home is also a sanctuary in every meaning of that term. 

 

The reverse is also true. Our JCC is not just a religious space. It is not just a sanctuary. It is also our home. It is a place where we welcome people. It is a place where we spend time together as a larger family. We pray here. We laugh here. We eat here. We sing here. We learn here. We play pickleball here. We deepen our connections to each other and our tradition here. And we console each other here.

 

A home and a sanctuary. A sanctuary and a home. This is the message to us. 

 

The Jewish people are not only special because of the Temple, or because of the prophets, or because of the kings or because of the Torah. What really makes the Jewish people special is what goes on in our homes. They are homes of love, respect, and learning. They are homes where children learn to be mensches. They are homes where we prepare people to go out and do good in the world.  Essentially, because of what we do in our homes, our homes are holy.

 

This Shabbat we should each take an inventory of our tents. Have we done all that we can do to make our homes sanctuaries?  If our living space becomes more holy; if each of our homes becomes a place of repair and a platform for the performance of good deeds, perhaps our lights will help to brighten the lights of the homes around us and, with God’s help, the rest of the world.

 

 

Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

 


SHABBAT SHALOM

Shabbat Candle

Lighting time

Friday evening

July 19, 2024

8:02 PM


Friday, July 19, 2024

JOIN US FOR

SERVICES

6:00 PM

on the Beach at

56th Street in

Loveladies

IN PERSON

& ON ZOOM


In case of inclement weather

Services will be conducted at the JCC at 6:00 PM. Check the office answering machine for any updates


Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday,

July 20, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON &

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Balak

Numbers 22:2-25:9

Balak tells the story of the Moabite king Balak, who hires Balaam to curse the Israelites. Balaam’s donkey speaks along the way, and Balaam ends up blessing the Israelites. The portion ends with a story about Israelite men sinning with Moabite women and the stabbing of an Israelite and a Midianite.

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

Micah 5:6-6:8

This week's haftorah makes mention of the incident of Balak the king of Moab hiring the sorcerer Balaam to curse the Jewish people — the main topic of this week's Torah reading

Here is the Haftorah

HAVDALLAH

8:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

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your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH


WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation

from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

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join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


FUTURE DATES


July 19th - 56th Street, Loveladies

July 26th - 24th Street, Spray Beach


August 2nd -

August 9th - 56th Street, Loveladies

August 16th - 56th St., Loveladies

August 23rd - 24th St., Spray Beach

August 30th - 24th St., Spray Beach



SUNDAY, July 21

Pickleball

NO PICKLEBALL THIS SUNDAY


A Evening of Music with

Carl Steinberg

7:00 PM

*****


TUESDAY, July 23


Pickleball

SEE NEW TIMES BELOW


WAX BRUNCH

AT LBI TABLE

11:00 AM


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WEDNESDAY, July 24


Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM


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THURSDAY, July 25


Pickleball

SEE NEW TIMES BELOW



Torah Study with Rabbi

11:00 AM


Intermediate Hebrew with Ira

2:00 PM


Trivia with Mike

3:30 PM

***********


FRIDAY, July 26


Studying the Prophets

with Rabbi Jay

9:00 AM



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CLICK HERE FOR FRIDAY PROPHETS CLASS


MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

HERE IS THE

SCHEDULE TO ACCOMODATE ALL LEVELS OF PLAYERS


Tuesdays

3-4 Beginner and Skills Practice

 4-5 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

5-6 Experienced Players, Singles


Thursdays

10:30-11:30 Beginners and Skills Practice

11:30-12:30 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

12:30-1:30 Experienced Players, Singles


Sundays  

 10-11 Beginners and Skills Practice

  11-12 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

12-1 Experienced Players, Singles

 



Reminder: Pickleball for

members only! x

CLICK HERE FOR THE SCHEDULE OF EVENTS THIS SUMMER

Friday, July 19

Shabbat on the Beach at Lovelades

6:00 PM


Sunday, July 21

An Evening with Carl Steinberg

7:00 - 9:00 PM


Tuesday, July 23

WAX Brunch at LBI Table

11:00 AM


Thursday, July 25

Trivia with DJ Mike

3:30-6:00 PM


Friday, July 26

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM

Friday, August 2

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM


Sunday, August 4

Gypsy Moon Concert, Dinner and Silent Auction

5:30 PM

Friday, August 9

Shabbat on the Beach at Lovelades

6:00 PM


Sunday, August 11

Annual Congregation Meeting


Wednesday, August 14

JCC Bazaar

8:00 AM - 3 PM


Friday, August 16

Shabbat on the Beach at Lovelades

6:00 PM


Sunday, August 18

Marsha Chazin Dance Program

11:30 AM


Friday, August 23

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM


Friday, August 30

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM



 

JOIN


MUSICIAN AND JCC MEMBER

CARL STEINBERG


for a evening of songs you love

The Eagles, Creedence Clearater and the Beach Boys


SUNDAY JULY 21

7:00 - 9:00 PM

$10.00 per person

THE GYPSY MOON DUET

Sunday, August 4th at 5:30 PM

Dinner

Concert by the Gypsy Moon Duet

An In-House Silent Auction

$40 per person


The committee is excited about the silent auction prizes they have collected so far. You could win a woman’s bicycle, Yankee tickets, Mets tickets, Broadway tickets, artwork, and a stunning antique pendant with rubies. It is going to be a great event!!!!!

SUMMER BAZAAR

WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 14TH

8:00 AM - 3:00 PM

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CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Mark Richard Becker

Alan Diamond

Etta Kessler

Dov Koller

Spencer Levin

Ellen Goldstein

Pauline Hurwitz

Harry Koss

Sylvia Ross

Stanley Appel

Albert Luterman

Janice Sherman

Janie Stovola

Jon Elayne Churgin

Sanford Cohen*

Herman Kaufman

David Resnek

Lillian Zalkind*

Beatrice Bader

Isaac Cohen

Frances Ganek Gendel

Reuben Gerber*

Dorothy Gordon

Bentley Gubar

Marlene Kaufman*

Irwin J. Pripstein*

Kay Gilbert

Shelia Gilman

Joseph Goldstein

Gertrude Gondelman

Irving Hirschfeld

Harry Jacobson*

David Srager

Jacob Weiner

Henry Zlotkin*

 

We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about 45 minutes to an hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.


*Denotes yahrzeit plaque which will be lit this week

Susanna Lachs Adler

July 20

Jill Grunewald

July 20

Norman Shapiro

July 21

Robert Simandl

July 21

Martin Flumenbaum

July 22

James H. Wolf

July 22

Edward Herman

July 23

Peter Iris-Williams

July 23

Sharon Spina

July 23

Susan Davis

July 24

Lewis Deutsch

July 24

Jodi Stephani Rothman

July 24

Alix DeTullio

July 25

Debra Schweighardt

July 25


Graduation

MAZEL TOV

Deb and David Levy

on the graduation of their granddaughter

Gigi

on her pre-K graduation.

Gigi was a frequent part of Friday night services. 

CARING COMMITTEE


This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.


Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 

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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

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JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP


OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine

Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Jon Geier


Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman



WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2

CLOSED THURSDAY


NO JCC BUSINESS DONE

ON SHABBAT

NO


 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst