Zero Moment: When the Post Office goes Postal

I stopped by the post office this week to drop off a package and couldn’t help noticing something familiar.


The three clerks behind the counter moved through the line like robots. Minimal greeting. No eye contact. Short, scripted prompts. If you didn’t follow the exact sequence on the payment pad, the frustration was almost immediate.


It felt less like a human interaction and more like navigating an automated system.


That moment made me think about the phrase “going postal.”

The term originated in the late 1980s and early 1990s after a series of violent workplace incidents involving postal workers. It became slang for explosive, uncontrollable anger.


But what I observed wasn’t anger.


It was the complete absence of emotion.


Apathy.

And it struck me that this experience is remarkably consistent. In the many times I’ve visited the post office over the years, the atmosphere rarely feels different.


Now, to be fair, the job likely isn’t easy. It involves repetitive tasks, high volumes of customers, and constant public interaction. Any one of those factors can drain the energy out of a workplace.


But the result is unmistakable.

The experience feels unpleasant.


So unpleasant, in fact, that many of us actively avoid it. We look for alternatives whenever we can. We go to UPS. We schedule pickups. Sometimes we’ll even deliver packages ourselves just to bypass the experience.


That’s the lesson.


Customer experience is not just about efficiency or process. It’s about how people feel when they interact with your organization.


Too much emotion can be destructive.

But no emotion at all can be just as damaging.

Because when people feel like a burden instead of a valued customer, they remember.


And when they have a choice, they act on it.


Experience is a differentiator.


Even in places that believe they have a monopoly.

Until one day, they don’t.


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Wisdom in Words

“Anyone can become angry—that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way—that is not easy.” -Aristotle

Zero to Hero: The Human Experience in Leadership & Business Transformation


My book has officially launched!


Last week I announced the release of my new book. I’m grateful for the early momentum. It has already been designated a Top New Release on Amazon in Business Leadership Training, and the first reader reviews are beginning to come in.


In Zero to Hero, I explore the real human journey behind leadership and transformation. It shows how leaders can recognize “zero moments” and intentionally turn them into hero moments that elevate teams, organizations, and customer experiences.


Through stories, lessons from the field, and practical strategies, the book focuses on what truly drives transformation: people, trust, courage, and the willingness to lead with authenticity.

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Available now in eBook and paperback, with the audiobook coming soon!

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The Power of Words

Over the past few days, I’ve been reading the words people have shared in response to the launch of my book. Encouraging words. Congratulatory words. Uplifting words.


It reminded me of something simple but powerful: words carry weight. They can strengthen relationships, shape leadership, and influence how we show up for one another.


This week’s piece reflects on the power of words and the impact they can have when we choose them with care.


Here's the full article. What words have touched you lately? And have they change in the last decade or so? How about with widespread texting and social media? If so, tell me about it!

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The Womanhood Experience

Last Sunday, March 8th was International Women’s Day, and it made me reflect on something personal.


Writing Zero to Hero was never just about sharing leadership lessons, strategies, or moments of truth. Those are important, but what I really wanted to do was humanize the leadership journey. Transformation is rarely neat or linear. It’s messy, emotional, and deeply personal.

That is why I chose to write Chapter 14, The Womanhood Experience.


In that chapter, I speak openly about what many women encounter along the way. The double standards. The pink penalty. The quiet loneliness that can accompany becoming a working mother while trying to lead, perform, and hold everything together. At one point I even titled a section “Being Wonder Woman.”


Writing that chapter was cathartic. It forced me to confront emotions and release a few limiting beliefs that had quietly lingered for years. Despite some initial hesitation about sharing it so openly, I knew it mattered.


When I later recorded the audiobook, I remember needing to pause and gather myself before reaching Chapter 14. Reading those words aloud brought the memories back with surprising clarity. Listeners will likely notice my voice change in that chapter. In many ways, I was reliving parts of the journey while telling the story.


And that, perhaps, is the point.


Sometimes the most powerful way to honor others is simply to tell the truth of our experience. If sharing my story helps illuminate the realities many women navigate every day, then it was worth the vulnerability.


Because leadership is not just about the titles we hold or the results we achieve.

It is also about the courage to show the human experience behind them.


If I've peaked your curiosity or you've been enjoying these newsletters, you should checkout the book. It was written from the heart, and explores areas in leadership and vulnerability as humans that few books do.

Missed previous newsletters? No worries, here are the last 10!


Vol 77 2026-03-03  Why I wrote my book "Zero to Hero"

Vol 76 2026-02-24 Muddled, Wuddled....and Befuddled

Vol 75 2026-02-17 Pssst....I have a Secret

Vol 74 2026-02-10 Credit & Credibility

Vol 73 2026-02-03 Brrr....Baby it's Cold Outside!

Vol 72 2026-01-27 45 Minutes Well Spent

Vol 71 2026-01-20 The Not-so Easy Pass

Vol 70 2026-01-13 The Amaz-ing in Amazon

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