by Allison Percival, Assistant Publisher
In the space of five minutes browsing Facebook this morning, I read the following:
- A long rant from an acquaintance all about how anyone not wearing cloth masks is personally responsible for the pandemic
- A separate rant about how anyone promoting cloth masks is directly responsible for the pandemic
- One long post from a blogger about how much personal development and hobby time she's getting in during her "forced sabbatical"
- Two inaccurate bits of advice about avoiding COVID-19
- Four extremely bleak international news reports
- Many, many ill-timed advertisements for discounted fast fashion (no, I don't need to "brighten up spring" with your 60% off clearance section, thanks.)
Ugh.
Let's all agree to step back a little this week!
Here's what I want you to do. The next time you scroll through your Facebook feed or Instagram and see something that throws you off, I want you to snooze, unfollow or unfriend that person, group or page. Go for it. If they miss you, they'll reach out. You don't owe
anyone your attention.
Pick a few people or groups you'd really like to check in with. Rather than scrolling along hoping to see an update from them, go directly to their profile. Comment on something they posted to make them smile. Better yet, message them to say hi.
Don't engage in online debates. Don't read the comments. When was the last time you thought "wow, that really brightened my day" or "that hours-long argument sure was worth it"? Be honest.
Remember that just because someone is angry or well-spoken or respected doesn't mean that they're right. Get your information from reputable sources - don't worry about what Linda from your spin class thinks about how often you should go to Costco.
It's okay to not be on top of every development every day. It's okay to not have the latest information from every major international urban centre. Pick a source you trust for relevant local updates and let yourself have an information filter between you and the world.
Focus on what you need to get you and your family through this week in one piece. Do the best you can to follow the guidelines we've been given. Care for others as much as you can and accept help from others when you need it.
Right now it may feel like social media is our only door to the outside world, but sometimes it's okay to close the door and choose who gets to come in.
Sending you lots of love this week and every week. Take care.