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JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER



May 21, 2026

5 Iyar 5786


MAY 22 - 23, 2026

MAY 25 2026


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OF THE SHABBAT REMINDER

A SHAVUOT MESSAGE FROM OUR RABBIS....

Rabbi & Ali

I love the Torah. I love studying it. I love discussing it. I love teaching it. And I love sharing it. This is why one of the first things I did when the JCC became my rabbinic home, was to start a Torah study class on Saturday mornings. Inasmuch as the day holiday Shavuot begins this Thursday evening, May 21st, it was fortuitous that, as I was preparing for the holiday, I came across this wonderful piece on Shavuot that was written by Rabbi Jack Friedman, my immediate predecessor here at the JCC. I love it, and hope you will as well:

 

Shavuot celebrates the revelation of the Torah on Mount Sinai. One of the questions asked is: “Who wrote the Torah?” One of the editors of the Etz Hayim Bible answered the question saying, “People.” If so, then what was the role of God?” To which the editor replied, “God enables genius. The Torah is a work of spiritual genius.”


When I was a young student in the Yeshiva, I was taught that God wrote the Torah letter by letter and gave it to Moses. As I began to delve deeper into its teachings I felt a conflict with that teaching. I began to see that the Torah unfolded over time, reflecting historical settings, until it was finalized into a magnificent spiritual blueprint for a meaningful life.


Each day when I study the Torah, over and over again, from the beginning to its end, I see in it the vessel of values. I see the details of its teachings expressing values that bring us closer to God and to our fellow human beings. When I read the words, “And God said,” it indicates our understanding of God’s will and values.


Human understanding is continually unfolding by the changing conditions in life and adding new insights. The study of Torah is a continuous discovery and when we read through it each year, from beginning to end, we find new meanings. The Torah is God’s love letter to us. I believe that people wrote it, but the wisdom of Torah emerged intuitively from reaching beyond ourselves and hearing the still small voice of God lovingly guiding us to meaningful living. The genius of the Torah is that it is relevant in every generation – the past, the present and the future.


I see myself as an “evolutionary Jew.”


I live with the tradition of the past and the change for the present.


I believe that people are the vessels of God, able to hear the will of God, and be God’s partner here on earth.


I believe that God in some wonderful way revealed the Torah, but it is not God’s final word.


I believe that the Torah challenges us to honor the past, to live in the present and to discover even greater wisdom in the future.


I believe that the Torah requires us to interpret its teachings and form

a system of values that strengthens the bonds to the world around us.


I believe that the study of Torah brings forth the best that we can be.

 

I believe that the Torah wants us to do the best we are capable of doing.


I believe that the Torah’s teachings are continually evolving, calling to us, “you shall be holy, for I the Eternal am holy.”


I believe that Shavuot is the time when we need to pledge anew the words of our ancestors at Mount Sinai, “We will do and we will

learn.”

Rabbi Jacob Friedman

SHAVUOT 2012

 


It is a gift that Rabbi Jack shared his view of the Torah with the congregation just before his health forced him to retire. It becomes a legacy to what he hoped to impart upon his congregants. I give it to you as a gift for Shavuot.

 

Each of us has a lesson to be learned, and that we can teach, from reading the Torah.

 

For my part, I would love to impart the joy of Torah study on even more people than I do today. Indeed, I want to spread this holy form of love on as many people as possible.  For this reason, I am looking for a home or location to teach an additional weekly Torah study class, during a weekday, on the northern side of the island. If you would like to host, or know someone who would like to host, please reach out to me and let me know.

 

A few words about upcoming events. On Thursday evening at 7:30 we will be having our Tikkun Leil Shavuot, our study sessions for the holiday. Stu Lehrer will be teaching the simple joy of Psalm 78:38. I, your humble Rabbi, will be teaching about traditional Jewish views on sex. For anyone who wants to hang a little longer, we will look at the book of Ruth. If none of this is your cup of tea, then come for the Cheesecake! Tikkun is in person or on Zoom at the regular JCC Services link.

 

Don’t forget that there are Shavuot Services on Friday and Saturday mornings at 9:00. Saturday’s service will include Yizkor which should begin at about 10:45. Services are in person and on Zoom at the regular JCC Services link.

 

Also, on Wednesday, June 10th at 7:30, join the faith communities of Long Beach Island as we join together for an Interfaith Concert featuring the Island Singers. For more information, and to register, look elsewhere in this phenomenal Shabbat Remdinder, or call the JCC office.

 

Finally, look for another message from me about an amazing new group we are forming for young Jewish adults 21+ who spend time on the Island. The JCC is taking the initiative to set up a WhatsApp account so this group can connect while on the Island and plan ways to spend time together.

 

As we ready ourselves to receive the Torah at Sinai, may we receive a Torah of truth, honesty, wonder, and strength. May its teachings enable us to make ourselves, our families, our communities, better, and may we each work toward making the world a better place.

 

Shabbat Shalom and Chag Shavuot Sameach – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)


Erev Shavuot

Thursday, May 21, 2026

7:52 PM


Shabbat Eve

Friday, May 22, 2026

7:52 PM


Thursday, May 21, 2026

7:30 PM

Shavuot Services

and then

A Night of Study

(Tikkun Leil Shavuot)

Jewish Views on Sex lead by

Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Psalm 78:38 lead by Stu W. Lehrer

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services & Study

on Zoom

THURSDAY NIGHT


Friday, May 22, 2026

9:00 AM

Shavuot Services

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

 Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

FRIDAY MORNING


Friday, May 22, 2026

6:00 PM

Kabbalat Shabbat/Shevuot

lN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

 Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday, May 23rd - 9AM

Shabbat/Shavuot Services

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

 Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SATURDAY MORNING

YISKOR

recited at approx. 10:45 AM



WEEKDAY SERVICES


Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


SEE SHAVUOT SCHEDULE FOR ANY CHANGES


SAFETY TRAINING PROGRAMS

We encourge you to sign up for these classes.

WHAT IS JFED SECURITY


JFed Security, an agency of the Jewish Federation of Southern New Jersey, was established in 2021. JFed Security is an initiative designed to ensure the safety of our local Jewish communities and supports our Jewish community’s security needs in our Federation’s coverage area of Camden, Burlington and Gloucester counties, as well as eight additional counties in New Jersey,the entire state of Delaware and areas of Pennsylvania.


The JCC of LBI Security Committee has been actively working with JFed Security to help provide a safe environment at JCC on Long Beach Island.

SHAVUOT RECIPES


Why do we eat dairy on this holiday?

With the giving of the Torah, the Jews became obligated to observe the kosher laws. As the Torah was given on Shabbat, no cattle could be slaughtered nor could utensils be koshered, and thus on that day they ate dairy.

Israeli Cheese Cake


Unlike the heavy New York style, this uses Israeli “Gvina Levana”* (white cheese), making it lighter, airier, and slightly tangier. It’s the ultimate “Shavuot in Israel” vibe.


Ingredients


2 cups graham cracker crumbs or cookie crumbs

½ cup melted butter

5 tablespoons sugar

1½ pounds gvina levana white Israeli cheese *

1 cup sugar

1 cup sour cream

½ cup heavy cream

Zest of 1 lemon

2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice

2 teaspoons vanilla extract

4 whole eggs

Pinch of kosher or sea salt

Instructions


Crust:

  1. Mix crumbs, butter, and sugar together. Reserve half cup of mixture for topping cheesecake. Press remaining crumbs into the bottom of the springform pan. Chill the crust while making the filling.


Custard:

  1. Preheat oven to 350°F. 
  2. Either by hand or in a mixer at low speed, combine cheese, sugar, sour cream, heavy cream, lemon zest and juice, vanilla, eggs, and salt. Try not to whisk any air into the custard.
  3. Pour into chilled crust. Place cheesecake into oven. Bake at 350°F for 40 to 50 minutes or until the center of cake is just a bit jiggly. Sprinkle reserved crumbs on top of cake and bake for an additional 15 minutes. 
  4. Turn off the oven and crack open the door. Allow cheesecake to cool in hot oven for 30 minutes.
  5. Remove cheesecake and chill for 4 hours or overnight before serving


*Substitute for gvina levana white Israeli cheese

Ricotta Cheese: A great, easily accessible option. For a smoother texture similar to Gvina Levana, give it a quick pulse in a food processor to remove its natural graininess.

Greek Yogurt & Cream Cheese (Blend): Combine equal parts full-fat plain Greek yogurt (or Skyr) and softened cream cheese.


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Make blintzes with Jamie Geller. CLICK on the video below.



PJP program on the Borscht Belt Museum, which took place last Thursday evening. 


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SUNDAY, May 24

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

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TUESDAY, May 26

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

*****

WEDNESDAY, May 27

MAH JONGG/CANASTA

12:30 PM

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THURSDAY, May 28

Pickleball

10:00 AM - 1 PM

Torah Study

11:00 AM


 

Friday, June 5

Family Shabbat Dinner

6:30 PM


Wednesday, June 10

Interfaith Concert with the Island Singers

St. Francis of Assisi Parish

7:00 PM


Friday, June 12

WAX Brunch

11:00 AM


Monday, June 15

Drawing with Joyce Smith 


Wednesday, June 17

WAX Book Group

4:00 PM


Sunday, June 28

Welcome Back Brunch

10:00 AM

PICKLEBALL

Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays

10 - 1

MAH JONGG & CANASTA 

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM 


CLICK HERE FOR A WAX CALENDAR OF EVENTS

WAX BOOK GROUP

Wednesday, May 21st at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

The Woman with the Blue Star

By Pam Jenoff


Plot: A Polish girl aids a Jewish girl hiding in tunnels during WWII, forming an unlikely friendship that tests their courage and will to survive.



The Federation is offering an incentive for our members to attend the Let's Connect event on June 17. For each $36 ticket purchased, the JCC will receive a donation from the Federation of $18. 

MAH JONGG TOURNAMENT SIGN UP FORM

OVER 40 SEATS ARE ALREADY TAKEN!!!!!

BUY YOUR COMEDY SHOW TICKETS NOW


NEW ITEMS IN THE GIFT SHOP


HOLDERS FOR MATCH BOOK FOR CANDLE LIGHTING

MEZZUZAHS FOR CHILDREN'S ROOM

STERLING SILVER NECKLACES MADE IN iSRAEL


The gift shop is open during office hours

M-F 10 - 2.


 

Hello Summertime! 

Well the temperature has finally started to rise awakening summertime at the JCC. As the season starts rolling there will be more people, more events and more food. More food brings crumbs which bring ants. Let’s all make an extra effort this summer to keep our kitchen, our community hall and our sanctuary pest free. Which means, Clean up after yourself! THE KITCHEN STAFF

 

CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:



Bernice Gold

Muriel Krampf

Ethel Lenkowsky

Albert Rosenfeld*

Ike Schwaff*

Irene Epstein

Melvin Kleinfeld

Florence Koransky

Harry Kotler

Josh Braun

Douglas Cole

Isaac Freedman

Reginald Gilbert

Harriet Miller

Dr. Mark Rosenbloom*

Jacob Shaer

Rose Shaer

Sidney Denbo

Samuel Kanowith

Anita D. Klaiman*

Gloria Shapiro

Harry Sobelsky

Jake Herzig

Bertram Stern Lowe

Gertrude Miller

Eve Robinson

Terry Shapiro

Lena Sobelsky

Anna Gubar*

Benyamin Livshits*

Edward Oertell

Jeanne Paris

Beverly Rosenstein

Jennie Schlanger*

Leo Baron

Morris Brounstein

Sadie Chalek

Bernard Diamond

Jenny Kessler

Diane Korn

Sondra Meshulam

Helen Rothman

Ida Schreiber

Avram Shatz



We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.

"May God remember forever our dear ones who have gone to their eternal rest. May they be at one with the One who is life eternal. May the beauty of their lives shine for evermore, and may our lives always bring honor to their memory."


Cake


 

May 23

Toby Slomovitz

May 23

Ian Zimmerman

May 23

Robin Genna

May 25

Karen Shatz

May 27

Zee Jay Greenspan

May 28

 

 

James Donovan & Judy Nelson

May 24

39th Anniversary

Martin & Ellen Weinberg

May 24

45th Anniversary

Roger & Rima Rosenstein

May 25

51st Anniversary

Charles & Barbara Hirsh

May 26

70th Anniversary

Gary & Denni Koupf

May 27

48th Anniversary

Steven & Rhonda Lang

May 27

47th Anniversary

Mark & Marsha Chazin

May 28

59th Anniversary

Jon & Suzanne Geier

May 28

49th Anniversary

 

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CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE

This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 973-634-5349



MAZEL TOV TO


ELSA & EDD DREYFUS


on the marriage of their granddaughter


Dara Joy Moon

to

Tim Brencher

Graduation



We would love to include graduation information about your children and grandkids in our weekly email. Please send details - name of graduate and school. You can include a picture as well.


We would like to expand our Caring Committee to reach out to folks who need a "how are you doing?" call once and a while. Please contact

Debby Schweighardt

973-634-5349 if you are interesting in participating



GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2026 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Scroll down to see the new Ner Tamid Fund


Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.


ENDOWMENT FUND

This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.


GENERAL FUND

Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.


KOL HAKAVOD FUND

Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.



RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND

This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.


ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND

The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.



NER TAMID FUND

The Ner Tamid Fund was established in 2025 as part of the JCC’s 75th Anniversary Celebration. Its purpose is to fund necessary maintenance or improvement of our beautiful JCC building as well as the Parsonage. To ensure that the JCC remains an Eternal Light for the Jewish Community on and off the island and in Southern Ocean County generally, please consider making a separate donation to the Ner Tamid Fund, or allocating a small portion of your High Holiday donation to that fund.

 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Lorna Klein

Joyce Levine

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager




BULLETIN:

LATEST BULLETIN



PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Krieger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer