JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER



August 15, 2025

21 Av 5785








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OF THE SHABBAT REMINDER

A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


A Summary of My Remarks at the 75th Gala.


זֶה־הַ֭יּוֹם עָשָׂ֣ה יְהֹוָ֑ה נָגִ֖ילָה וְנִשְׂמְחָ֣ה בֽוֹ

Zeh hayom asah Adonai nagilah v’nismicha vo


This is the day that God has made. Let us rejoice and be glad in it.


A 75th anniversary marks more than just the passage of time—it is a celebration of faith, family , friends, resilience, and continuity. For a synagogue, reaching this milestone is a testament to the enduring strength of Jewish life and tradition. It’s a rare opportunity to reflect on the past, rejoice in the present, and reaffirm the commitment to future generations.


This special anniversary provides an opportunity to honor the generations that have contributed to the JCC’s growth. It is a moment to recognize their sacrifices, leadership, and commitment. At the same time, it, God willing, will serve as an inspiration for future generations, reminding them of their role in maintaining and enriching Jewish communal life.

75 years is a long time to be sure, and we are right to celebrate and be inspired by what has happened and how the JCC has lived, thrived and grown. But I want to frame this celebration just a bit differently. And I want to do it by looking at two great leaders from our Torah, Abraham and Moses.


The Torah tells us Abraham was 75 years old when he started his journey that would introduce the world to the One true God, create the Jewish people, and mark the boundaries of the Promised Land. 

He was 75 years old. Let that sink in. That means that, while Abraham’s story started when he was 75, everything happens after 75. His visit to the Promised land, the destruction of Sodom and Gomorra, Hagar, Sara’s miraculous pregnancy, and the birth of Isaac, all happen later. 


Similarly, Moses saw the burning bush when he was 80 years old. That means that when he was 75, he was still 5 years away from the event that would change the course of his life, the lives of the Children of Israel, and the world. 75 was several years before Israels’ redemption freedom from slavery. 75 was several years before the receipt of Torah. 75 was 45 or 50 years from entering the promised land. 


What does this mean? The JCC has had an awesome, and rich, first 75 years. It has brought Judaism to countless residents and visitors to our island paradise. But using the history of Abraham and Moses as examples, 75 is literally a starting. Just like our patriarch and our greatest prophet think what is in store for the JCC. With all your imagination, conjure what, God willing, the “Center” will be: 5 years from now…or 10 years from now…or 25 years from now, or 120 years from now. As Theodore Hertzl said, “If you will it, it is no dream”.


A prayer For the JCC’s 75th Anniversary :


Our God and God of Our Ancestors:


We stand before you with gratitude and humility on this 75th anniversary of our beloved JCC of LBI.


We are thankful for so much:


For the vision and courage of those who understood the need for, and foresaw the ultimate viability of, a Jewish Community Center on this Island.


For the devotion and strength of those whose leadership and loving labor through the years have ensured that the dream of our founders became a living and breathing reality with a vibrant future.


For the fact that the seed they planted, grew into a Tree of Life.


For the generous support of all who have provided physical, spiritual, and emotional, guidance without which these 75 years would not have been possible.


For the rich and fulfilling future which we hope and pray for.


But, dear God, we cannot pretend that our strength or wisdom, alone, has brought us to this point.


We know that behind the decision to start this congregation, and behind every good thing its leaders and members have done, You God, have lovingly watched, guided, and guarded. 


We pray that it may always be so.

Adonai, we are Grateful for the accomplishments of the past, and we pray that in the future we may continue to merit the success which we know comes with Your blessing.


May we overcome whatever obstacles and discouragements obstruct the path forward for us and the Jewish people. 


And, finally, may Torah and love unite us more firmly:

The love of each other here, in our community.

The love of our fellow-Jews everywhere.

The love of Israel.

The love of all humanity.

And the love of You.

AMEN


בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה ה', אֱלֹקֵינוּ מֶלֶךְ הָעוֹלָם, שֶׁהֶחֱיָנוּ וְקִיְּמָנוּ וְהִגִּיעָנוּ לַזְּמַן הַזֶּה

Baruch atah Adonai eloheinu melech ha’olam shehecheyanu v’kiyimanu v’higilanu lazman hazeh

Praised are You, O Lord our God, Ruler of the universe, for giving us life, for sustaining us, and for enabling us to reach this day.


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, August 15, 2025

7:34 PM

JOIN US

FOR

SHABBAT

SERVICES


Friday

August 15, 2024

6:00 PM

Services on the Beach

with musician

Carl Steinberg

in Loveladies

(just south of St. Clare's Church)

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM


Bring your beach chair!

In case of inclement weather services will be held at the JCC.


NEW

A parallel service at 6:00 PM will be held on Zoom led by Ira Morgenthal

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

August 16, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SATURDAY MORNING


TORAH READING

Parashat Eikev 

Deuteronomy 7:12-11:25

In Eikev (“As a Result”), Moses recounts events that happened in the desert, including the manna, the golden calf, and Aaron's death. Moses describes the blessings God will bestow upon the Israelites if they follow God’s law and the punishments they will encounter if they disobey.

Here is the Torah Reading


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 49:14-51:3 

The Haftorah for Parashat Eikev, the second in the series of consolation haftarot after Tisha B'Av, focuses on the ingathering of the Jewish exiles and the restoration of Zion. 

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH SERVICES

in the JCC back

parking lot

8:30 PM

S'MORES AND MORE

WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


BEACH SERVICES

at 6:00 PM


August 15: Services at

Loveladies

August 22: Services at

Spray Beach

August 29: Services at Spray Beach


THE GALA

a nite of love and joy

RECEPTION OUTSIDE

The weather was perfect

DIANE HOFFMAN WELCOMES EVERYONE

JON GEIER PRESENTS THE SLIDE SHOW OF THE JCC HISTORY

CLICK ON THE ARROW ABOVE TO VIEW THE SLIDE SHOW

Thank you to Dr. Allison Buskirk Cohen for her help in producing this video.

LET'S DO THE HORA

Dr. Lewis Korb

son of founders

Cora & Abe Korb

SPECIAL GUESTS


Sharon & Rabbi Richard Hammerman

&

Israela & Rabbi Michael Meyerstein


Fr. Francis DiSpigno OFM

Pastor of St. Francis of Assisi Parish

PRESIDENT PHIL AND RABBI JAY

THE COMMITTEE

Jon & Suzy

Bev & Michael

Diane H


Paul's Mug Shot

Sondi

Jill & Rose

Cliff

Lorna & Bill

Howard & Bernie

Diane B

Ron


PHOTOS BY

VERA & BERNIE

HERSHENBERG

It takes a Congregation to throw a Gala. Thank you to all of those

below who helped make it possible


Susan Berube

Diane Buskirk

Ron Buskirk

Noralyn Carroll

Dr. Allison Cohen

Cliff Denker

Jill Denker

Leslie Dinkfelt

Sherry Fruchterman

Jon Geier

Suzy Geier

Diane Hoffman

Bill Klein

Lorna Klein

Marybeth Krieger

Joyce Levine

Paul Levine


Paula Mandell

Stuart Mandell

Toby Meyer

Beverly Miller

Mike Miller

Maxine Paris

Diane Parzych

Ken Podos

Donald Pripstein

Sondi Pripstein

Jeri Riffle

Oscar Sanchez

Arlene Schragger

Toby Schwait

David Shatz

Karen Shatz

Rose Valentine



AD JOURNAL ARE AVAILABLE TO PICK UP DURING OFFICE HOURS

Correction: add Harris Weisel's grandson Joe Goodman to the list of Jewels


A very special thank you to Staff member Mary Beth Krieger for the work she did in creating the Ad Journal pages and for printing them in house.

SUNDAY, August 17

NO Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

Annual Meeting

10:00 PM

******

TUESDAY, August 19

Pickleball

3 - 6 PM

WAX Brunch

11 AM -1 PM

******

WEDNESDAY, August 20

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 - 4 PM

*****


THURSDAY, August 21

Torah Study

11 AM

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

Tours of Harvey Cedars

Bible Center

10 AM and 11 AM


Sunday, August 17

Annual Congregation Meeting

10 AM


Tuesday, August 19

WAX Brunch

11 AM -1 PM

Jersey Girls Kitchen & Market


Thursday, August 21

Tours of Harvey Cedars

Bible Center

10 AM and 11 AM


Sunday, August 31

Comedy Nite at the Surflight

8:00 PM

ROSH HASHANAH

Erev Rosh Hashanah

Monday, September 22


YOM KIPPUR

Kol Nidre

Wednesday, October 1


High holiday seat information will be sent out shortly

MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


PICKLEBALL

Sundays and Thursdays

10 - 1

Tuesdays

3-4 PM Beginners

4 - 6 PM Experienced Players


SURFLIGHT COMEDY SHOW

To Benefit the JCC of LBI

August 31, 2025

8:00 PM


Contact the Surflight Box Office to order your tickets. 609-492-9477


When you order your tickets, you can request to sit near the JCC section. The JCC will receive a portion of the revenue from ALL seats sold in the theater. 


We have an exciting upcoming event on October 22, 2025, and I need your help and support. 

 

Boscov’s Department Stores are sponsoring “Friends Helping Friends”, a 1 day only in store and on-line shopping event. For a $5 (or more, if you like) donation to Women’s Auxiliary, you will receive a 25% off Shopping Discount Pass! All proceeds from your donation go to the Women’s Auxiliary! This is a win-win for everyone! You get to do your shopping at a discounted price (Chanukah is right around the corner), and Women’s Auxiliary raises funds to help the JCC!

 

Boscov’s stores are located in Toms River, Egg Harbor Township, Monmouth, Moorestown, and Woodbridge in New Jersey, as well as Neshaminy and Plymouth Meeting in Pennsylvania.

 

I have a supply of the Shopping Passes, so please reach out and support our event!

 

Thank you,

Joanne Babbitt

215-962-3688 (cell; call or text)

609-312-7439 (home)

Jb_toot@att.net

HONEY FROM THE HEART





The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.

Beautiful new jewelry item


We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.

PAVERS

CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS

484-802-0586

SEE ORDER FORM BELOW

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Sue Aronson

Sylvia Davis

Adam Marc Kreiger*

Julio Litovsky

Sidney Pripstein*

Louis Greenwald*

Celine Kolb

Grace Petter

Tillie Schoenberger

Samuel Bell*

Lena Levison*

Marc L. Hamburger

Samuel Richman

Morris Rosner

Miriam Blaher

Nathan Dondershine*

Lydia Garay

Shirley Halpern

David Hochman

Mildred Rosenthal

Dr. Harvey Rothman

Irwin Schneider

Myron Shapiro

Jay Dolinger

David Dover

Rivka Garkawe

Elaine Hoffman Greene

Victoria Kuperman*

Pearl Pepose

Leonard Reason*

Judith Schiller

Victor Zinn

Leonella Patrician

Benjamin Schocat

 

We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral. 

CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349

Cake

Gloria Canter

August 16

Steven Hartman

August 17

Andrea Seidler

August 17

Warren K. Racusin

August 19

Beverly Veech

August 19

Andrew Rosenbloom

August 22 

Brian & Amanda Bates

August 18

18th Anniversary

Hugh & Hedda Chairnoff

August 19

63rd Anniversary

Herbert & Carol Zemble

August 19

63rd Anniversary

Alan & Robin Kanis

August 20

53rd Anniversary

Fred & Jodi Rothman

August 20

42nd Anniversary

Mark Tilbor & Jacqueline Margolis

August 21

24th Anniversary

SHARE YOUR NEWS

AND PICTURES


CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com

Ellen & Sandy Oxenfeld

Wendy & Steve Lager


MAZEL TOV


Ely Chazin,

grandson of Mark and Marsha Chazin,

who was on the winning gold metal soccer team that beat Mexico in the finals at the US teen Maccabi games held in Pittsburgh

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer