Just Got Diagnosed

June 2022

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We live in a culture of anger. We see anger all around us. Including in the workplace. Take a look at my lead article on workplace negativity and how it can impact your health. 


Recent Events


I am proud to say that I was given the Humanitarian Award from the Hemophilia Association of New Jersey in May!


"Taming Those Anxious Thoughts" seems to be the topic of the moment the last month or so in my corporate webinars. But this week, I am looking forward to delivering a webinar on "Helping Men to be Better Men."  


My website, JustGotDiagnosed.com is filled with advice, inspiration, and information. 

I can help you with...


My counseling and education program for newly-diagnosed as well as experienced patients, Prepared for the Road Ahead ®, is organized around emotions,  Chronic Communication (sm) (relationships), embracing change, communicating with healthcare professionals, staying informed, making treatment decisions, self-image, and planning for the future.  


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Recent Events

I recently presented QPR Gatekeeper training, an approach to helping someone with suicidal thoughts and intention, to the Hemophilia Association of New Jersey during September. Coming soon, a webinar on caregiver stress for the Pacific Northwest Bleeding Disorders Association.

I continue my association with HIV Plus Magazine, hivplusmag.com and Coping with Cancer. I am also writing for a website for individuals living with chronic pain, mayv.co.


Chronic Communication at Work: Caught Up In the Workplace Negativity  


Mason was having an especially rough day at work. In the middle of the afternoon, he stepped into the break room, where a conversation among his co-workers was underway. 

 

“And these idiots…” 

 

Mason figured out right away that they were discussing some upcoming changes at his company, changes that many employees were not happy about. He moved closer to the group, and two of his co-workers stepped aside to welcome him into the circle. 

 

The conversation continued. One of the employees closed the door. The voices got louder at that point. Certain members of the management team were identified as being the decision-makers behind the changes, and were described in disparaging terms. A few co-workers, who reportedly supported the changes, were also discussed.  


That evening, Mason talked to his wife, Sarah, about what had happened. They talked about how when he is feeling tired, and symptomatic, and under pressure, this sets him up for falling into negative thinking. “I knew I was not in a good space,” Mason said. “I should have grabbed my coffee and immediately walked out. But instead I stayed and took a swim in all that toxicity


Negativity in your workplace? Here's how to avoid it!

You are not alone. Let me help you get prepared for the road ahead!
Pay Attention!


When is the last time you had a good hug? If you haven’t had a hug lately, you’re missing out.

 

Why get a hug? Well, there are a whole lot of reasons. Some of the benefits are physical. Research has shown that getting regular hugs can help you avoid getting colds. Yes, evidence exists that hugging helps your immune system work better. Hugs may also help you to tolerate pain better.

 

And then there are the emotional benefits. Hugging gets the feel-good hormones working, which can help you to feel more relaxed and reduce stress. And of course, hugs can benefit your relationships. A good hug can bring you closer to other people by making you feel more cared for, which can result in a boost to your self-esteem. A good hug might even help you to stay calm and collected when you are walking into a stressful situation. And hugging lets other people know you care about them, too.


Read more about the power of the hug!




Also, my website of the month:


As you may be aware, June is Pride month.  So in honor of Pride, I am featuring resources for the LGBTQ+ community on the website of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.  This section of the CDC site has some great information and resources.


Check out LGBTQ+ resources from the CDC!


Gary R. McClain, PhD JustGotDiagnosed.com
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