LIFE-CHANGING

Life-changing experiences, I believe, are completely under our control. Nothing can change us unless we allow it. There are two theories that I try to embrace every day. 

The Let Them Theory (by Mel Robbins): I must say, I have not read this book, but I picked this up through therapy many decades ago. What a world this would be if everyone was the same. Boring, right? Celebrate and accept the differences between individuals. Not everyone thinks like you. Not everyone’s brain functions the same way. Stop trying to win the world to your side. It sure is a lot of energy and effort – for what? So you can be satisfied and others are resenting you, or not liking you very much? You can ONLY control yourself. You cannot control others. Each person has different opinions and ways of doing things. Hear it, see it, register it, let them be and move on! My daughter once said to me – “You are always telling me what to do!” I said, “Excuse me, but I know that you are grown, and I am just giving me opinion. I fully expect you to do what you want to do. I’ve said my two cents and that’s it. I will not be upset if you decide to do something else – that is strictly your decision.” The ability to “let them” will release you from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. If you are a detail person that likes to plan, the creative thinker will NEVER process information like you. It may drive you crazy – but to work with the different strengths that you each bring to the table, will result in better outcomes. I suppose that the saying, “Agree to disagree,” is the same concept. Sometimes you can have a good discussion and sometimes you just have to let it go and move on. 

The other theory that I embrace everyday is “Why Not?!” The worst thing anyone can say to me is “That’s the way it’s always been done.” Times change and our way of doing things can change with technology, thinking processes, and social mores. When I bought my house back in the 90s, I replaced my own toilet! It took 4 trips to Home Depot but the nice man in plumbing was very patient with me. My daughter was fuming on the couch because her boyfriend was not showing up to change her flat tire. I said, “Come on, we’re going to change the tire ourselves.” She says, “I don’t know how.” I said, “Neither do I, but we’re going to read the book and learn!” A man that I used to work with, used to say that if he saw someone with a tattoo, he would never hire them. I just got a tattoo a couple weeks ago – I love it! I took Harley motorcycle lessons, but unfortunately, I just couldn’t do it. I tried for three hours! At least I can say that I tried.  If my life is not in danger – Why not? Try it! You might like it! It’s so much fun to be an explorer.  If your thought is “I’ve never done this before,” then you should give it a try!

In the end, “Let Them” and be your own explorer.  

Date: July 17, 2025 - Member Social

As previously voted on by the Milwaukee Chapter Board of Directors and confirmed by members, we did not have a regular monthly meeting in July. That first Tuesday was just too close to the Independence Day holiday.

So what do we do instead? Have a social event later in the month! This year, the suggestions were reviewed and it was decided we would have a game night. Hosted at the home of a firm representative, there was excellent food - Mission BBQ never disappoints - along with ice cream treats and fun games (with prizes).

Next Month it is back to business on August 5th. It will be our annual Potluck and Open House. Check out the details below.

Keri Kempski 7/1

Marjorie Yoshida 7/19

Lorie Barbian 7/21

Ginny Czarnecki 8/5

Nickie Rouleau 9/5

Leslie Ortiz 9/8

Margie Gehrman 9/15

Extra special shout out to Mueller Communications LLC for being awarded a Nonprofit Excellence Award for 2025 by BizTimes Media! Mueller Communications LLC was recognized with the In-Kind Supporter of the Year award, which is given to a professional or company that provides in-kind support to single or multiple nonprofit organizations through any type of non-financial contributions. Outstanding!

A big shout‑out to Sue Chipman, who just marked 10 years with Krueger Communications—and earned a celebratory getaway to sunny Arizona!

Sue’s family also grew recently: she adopted Bella, a sweet rescue who was saved by Fort Lauderdale Police and cared for in a foster home before finding her forever life of luxury in Germantown.

🎡 July 31st - August 10th

Gear up for 11 days of pure Midwestern fun at the Wisconsin State Fair! From pig races and giant slides to livestock shows, thrilling rides, and endless 'food on a stick' options, there’s something for everyone. And of course, don’t skip the iconic cream puffs—available daily in original, chocolate, and strawberry flavors, with drive-thru and pre-order options. Plus, catch live performances from big-name acts like Boyz II Men, Lynyrd Skynyrd, and Queensryche!

🎉 August 22nd - August 24th

Held each August at Henry Maier Festival Park, Mexican Fiesta is a vibrant celebration of Mexican culture, heritage, and community. The three-day festival features traditional music and dance, authentic food, cultural exhibits, a bustling marketplace, and family-friendly activities. From mariachi performances to folkloric dancers and delicious tacos, it’s a colorful and festive experience that highlights the rich traditions of Mexico right on Milwaukee’s lakefront.

Hackers are Learning About YOU!

Artificial Intelligence (AI) is not just a great tool to make your emails better and jazz up your presentations with the click of a mouse. It has become a weapon in the cybercriminal arsenal. Hackers are using AI to study users by scanning social media, public records and leaded data. Social engineering allows them to craft more convincing scams, tailored spearfishing scams, write convincing emails and even use deepfake voices and videos. Be careful what you share on social media and what information you are disclosing when you use AI.