JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER



October 10, 2025

18 Tishri 5785





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OF THE SHABBAT REMINDER

Due to the extreme and dangerous weather forecast for this Sunday, October 12th, there has been an Emergency Cancellation for both the 18 Mile and 12K Races


Shacharit Minyan on Sunday will thereby be Zoom only and will begin at 9 AM


Thank you to all the JCC 18 Mile Run Volunteers.


As many of you know a blaze broke out around 5:40 p.m. on Oct. 6 above Greenheads Salad Co. in Beach Haven prompting a mutual aid response from both island and mainland fire companies. The fire left nearly a dozen residents displaced including our building custodian Oscar Sanchez and his family.


Indiviuals from the JCC are making donations to help the family get back on their feet. You can send a check (made out to cash) or drop cash off to our point person Diane Buskirk at 1708 Atlantic Avenue, LB Township (856-952-5940) or venmo Diane at Diane-Buskirk.


Country Kettle is also collecting clothing and essential items daily between 10 am - 6pm. Items most needed include socks, underwear and durable work clothing for men ages 30 - 50.

Classes and Educational Program Information is being sent out to JCC members on Mondays. ONLY programs scheduled for the coming week will be posted in the Shabbat Reminder.


It is hoped that this will shorten the Shabbat Reminder and highlight our many educational opportunities.


PLEASE CLICK ON THE BUTTON BELOW TO SEE EDUCATIONAL PROGRAM INFORMATION

A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


We had the distinct pleasure of waiving Lulavs and eating in the Sukkah this past Tuesday and Wednesday. For those present it was a glorious Sukkoth holiday. Because of the impending Nor’easter, we are unfortunately taking the Sukkah down early to avoid damage. So, get your Sukkah-sitting in on Friday or Saturday!!! (Welcome to the Island!) Inasmuch as our time in the hut will be cut short, here is a poem I wrote that captures some of the meaning of Sukkoth:

 

Life is like a Sukkah.

Temporary; fleeting; and, yet, somehow ever-present

7 days for Sukkoth, a permanent, set time.

Is the time of every soul established and permanent?

 

A Sukkah is like life.

Canvas blowing in the wind; the sky our ever-changing szchach.

Pieces of our lives as ornamentation; artwork hanging by string.

We are visitors in God's universe, God's Sukkah.

 

God is like an Etrog.

Beautiful. There for us to see and hold and smell;

Yet, amorphous just the same.

Nourishment? Adornment? Or something just to please the senses?

 

Man is like a lulav.

Multi-faceted; with a strength like the date palm.

And a presence like the pleasant scent of hadas

Yet weak like the leaves of the willow that wither quickly when out of water.

 

And somehow, just as the etrog is incomplete without the Lulav,

God is incomplete without Man; 

Man is unfinished without God.

Each needs to hold the other gently, acknowledging existence together...East, South, West, North, to the Heavens, to the Earth.

  

Tuesday morning, October 14th, is Shemini Atzeret. This means that we will have a Yizkor service that morning. Services begin at 9:00 am, and I expect Yizkor to be at about 10:30 am. As part of Yizkor observance, it is customary to light a Yahrtzeit candle the night before. Thus, this year, you should light the candle on Monday evening, October 13th, before lighting Yom Tov candles.


Tuesday evening at 6:00 pm we will be having a lovely dinner of Pasta and Salad. After dinner we will have Simchat Torah services which will include taking all the Torahs out and dancing with them. God willing this year we will especially want to dance because the hostages will have been released.

 

Wednesday morning, October 15th, we will again dance with the Torahs. When we are done dancing, we will finish reading the Torah and roll it all the way back so that we can read the very beginning of the scroll.


This is a momentous time in our tradition. The symbolism is, among other things, that every ending is a beginning. The Torah has been read completely, every year, for millennia.


We shift from the awe of the Holy days of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur to the wonder of Sukkoth, to Shemini Atzeret and the solemnity of Yizkor, to the boundless joy of Simchat Torah. Join us for any, or all, of these happy events!


Shabbat Shalom and Moadim L’Simcha – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, October 10, 2025

6:06 PM

JOIN US

FOR

SHABBAT

SERVICES


Friday

October 10, 2024

7:30 PM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM


Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT

Saturday

October 11, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM


Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SATURDAY MORNING

TORAH READING

Exodus 33:12-34:26; Numbers 29:23-28; Ecclesiastes 1:1-12:14

Here are the Torah Readings

EXODUS

NUMBERS

ECCLESIASTES


HAFTORAH

Ezekiel 38:18-39:16

Here is the Haftorah




WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV



Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


Simchat Torah


SHEMINI AZERET AND SIMCHAT TORAH


CANDLELIGHTING TIMES

(So. Ocean County)

Monday, October 13

6:02 PM

Tuesday, October 14

7:31 PM


SERVICES

In person and on zoom


Shemini Azeret- Tuesday, October 14 at 9:00 AM

YIZKOR



Erev Simchat Torah - Tuesday, October 14 at 6:00 PM


Simchat Torah - Wednesday, October 15 at 9:00 AM


JCC CLASSES CANCELLED

THIS WEEK

10/13/25

MAH JONGG & CANASTA 

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM 


NO GAMES 10/15


PICKLEBALL

Sundays and Thursdays

10 - 1

NO PICKLE BALL 10/14


Sunday, October 19

The Jewish Museum, NY – “Afterlives: Recovering the Lost Stories of Looted Art”

1:00 PM


Wednesday, October 22

Boscov's Friends Helping Friends


Sunday, October 26

John Kendrick's Broadway Series

South Pacific

8:30 PM


Monday, October 27

Drawing with Joyce Smith

10:30 AM

Adult Education: Davening 101

7:45 PM




THIS WEEK



The film "Torn" is still available to view for a few more days.


After Hamas’s October 7 attacks and Israel's war in Gaza, New York erupts into a poster war over the kidnapped. TORN captures the symbolic battle for public space - where strangers rip, defend, and rage in the streets, and empathy is the first thing to go.


This is an uncut version of the film which will be seen on PBS this November. The producer hopes it will be accepted for an Academy Award.


We hope to get a recording of the tonight's facinating interview with Rabbi Jay and the producer Nim Shapiro.

Congregation B’nai Israel is hosting October 7: Bearing Witness to the Massacre on Sunday, October 12th with the film’s producer Justin Kron. $10 registration includes bagels and coffee, register by October 9th.


Registration link can be found at www.jewishoceancounty.org/israel-solidarity.

SEE TRAILER BELOW



FOR THE LATEST CALENDAR OF WAX EVENTS EVENTS


CLICK HERE FOR CALENDAR



We have an exciting upcoming event on October 22, 2025, and I need your help and support. 

 

Boscov’s Department Stores are sponsoring “Friends Helping Friends”, a 1 day only in store and on-line shopping event. For a $5 (or more, if you like) donation to Women’s Auxiliary, you will receive a 25% off Shopping Discount Pass! All proceeds from your donation go to the Women’s Auxiliary! This is a win-win for everyone! You get to do your shopping at a discounted price (Chanukah is right around the corner), and Women’s Auxiliary raises funds to help the JCC!

 

Boscov’s stores are located in Toms River, Egg Harbor Township, Monmouth, Moorestown, and Woodbridge in New Jersey, as well as Neshaminy and Plymouth Meeting in Pennsylvania.

 

I have a supply of the Shopping Passes, so please reach out and support our event!

 

Thank you,

Joanne Babbitt

215-962-3688 (cell; call or text)

609-312-7439 (home)

Jb_toot@att.net





The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.


We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself.


The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.

Mah jongg Key Chains and Bags

PAVERS

CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS

484-802-0586

SEE ORDER FORM BELOW

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Bertrand Berman

Saul Celnik

Doris Farin*

Jack Grossman

Lynn Kramler Levi*

Milton Litt

Pauline Sherman

Samuel Hoffman

Margaret Nudel

Milton Seavey

Casper Ungar*

Alfred Seidler

Judith Blumberg

Oscar Chaikin

Rose Goldstein*

Marcia Nelson*

Lenore Traster*

Stanley Bloom

Leonard Einhorn

Esther Gottlieb

Lessie Markowitz*

Shirley Morgan

Edith Nissenblatt

Joseph Nudel

Bessie Okner

Abe Hirschorn*

Andrew Rothschild

Irene Schiff

Henry Schragger


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.


CONDOLENCES TO:


Rabbi Jay on the passing of his aunt Lydia Katz


The family of JCC member Tobie Patmas.

A private funeral is planned for this Friday

 CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349


Jeffrey Carson

October 11

Stuart Mandell

October 12

Lori Steigerwald

October 12

Joe Fleischer

October 13

Carl Greenberg

October 13

Jacqueline Printz

October 13

Jay Britz

October 14

Ronda Gilbert

October 15

Fred Rothman

October 15

Lori Sherman Appel

October 16

Neil Dolinger

October 16

Mark & Eileen Rosen

October 11

10th Anniversary

Ken & Sue Fuirst

October 13

35th Anniversary

Martin Bergman & Cindy Hoffman

October 14

Martin Flumenbaum & Ruth Hochberger

October 15

48th Anniversary

Howard & Gail Meltzer

October 17

34th Anniversary

Jeffrey & Lois Miller

October 17

38th Anniversary

  

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AND PICTURES


CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


JON LOMBARDI

recovering from surgery

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Lorna Klein

Joyce Levine

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager




BULLETIN:

LATEST BULLETIN



PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer