Separating/Divorce FNQs
(Frequently Thought But Not-Asked Questions)
Question # 14: Hiring an attorney means I want a divorce immediately or that I'm consenting if my spouse said they want a divorce.
If I sign this retainer, there's no turning back, right?
The end of a marriage is very emotional and confusing. Some people reach out to us because they've mourned and they're ready to move forward with a separation. Others may be frustrated, curious, and hurt, but not sure what they want to happen. It's not uncommon for a spouse to have several meetings with an attorney, learn about their options, and decide they want to try marriage counseling first. Or for a couple to start the divorce mediation process and realize that they need more time to figure things out.
The point is that you hire an attorney to look out for your interests and inform you of your options. (The sooner the better!) We're here to support you. This is your process, not ours. And just like life, the process may not be linear, but it's always better to be more informed and prepared.