Gracious Words

“Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.” Proverbs 16:24 


The actual word “gracious” carries the meaning of kindness and warm courtesy. It is also full of tact and propriety. 



Initially, when reading this verse, the thought was outward about speaking to others. But after pondering it for several minutes, we see that it can also have personal and good repercussions for our own selves. 


Words can be used in so many ways. They can build up and/or they can ruthlessly tear down. The recipient of them will undoubtedly remember the “spirit” in which they were spoken.

It’s easy, in the heat of a moment, to simply let words slip off our tongue that sting and wound others. But do we realize those words often flow from a heart of pride? Those words are usually about building up and garnering attention for ourselves. 


But what if we took a different approach to the words that we speak, intentionally filtering them with the help of the Holy Spirit? 


Most certainly, we would begin to see a shift in our perspective on how our words deeply affect others, as well as our own hearts. 

Perhaps negativity, gossip, anger, slandering, and selfishness would start to dissipate in our own lives as we let the sweetness of His words flow through us. 


That thought alone brings healing to my heart. 



Don’t say words just to be heard. Tell them to bring life to the hearts of others. 


“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what helps build others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29 



Jodi Renee O’Hara is a graduate of Liberty University and holds degrees in English Linguistics and Biblical Studies with a minor in Music Education. She currently resides in the Greater Dayton area in Ohio with her husband, Mark and the three adorable, very large dogs. (Teddy, Penelope, and Moose) 


Jodi has had the joy of singing and speaking at conferences and churches. She also sang for The Walt Disney Company with the Voices of Liberty.

She is currently pursuing her Master's Degree in Clinical Behavior and Mental Sciences at Liberty University, with the goal of becoming a licensed Christian counselor. 


Her passion is helping women discover their true identity in Jesus Christ in the midst of a world of busyness and chaos, where perfection is expected, but often leads down a path of destruction.


She recently had a devotional journal published in 2025. The title is “Porch Ponderings,” and it is available on Amazon.  

 

Jodi’s greatest treasures are people. She and Mark share 5 beautiful children, 4 more by way of marriage, and 11 beautiful grandchildren. Their goal together is to live authentically, so that those they are with will see Jesus and His restoration plan for lives that don’t go according to the original plan, and yet, understand that God is in it all and He is good.



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