JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

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April 17, 2026

30 Nisan 5786

 

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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


Dear Reader: 


We are called the “People of the Book” because we introduced the Torah to the world and have made it a consistent part of who we are as a people. In truth we should be called the “People of the Books” because we do not limit ourselves to the Torah. We study the Prophets, and the Writings, and the Megillot, and the Haggadah, and the Talmud, and commentaries on each of these, and commentaries on the commentaries, and our liturgy, and Jewish poetry, and Jewish prose, and Jewish cookbooks.


But the Jewish way to read or study, is not simply to read or study. We read and re-read, and discuss, and digest. The Rabbinic way to do this is by a method called “Chevrutah”, which is best translated as “friendship” or “fellowship”. We don’t study alone; we study with a partner or in a group. When we study in this way, each partner has input into the interpretation or understanding of what is being read.


When I first came to the JCC, some 13 years ago, in the winter we did not have enough people on Saturday mornings for a minyan. Since I was at the JCC for the entire Shabbat, from sunset on Friday through an hour after sunset on Saturday, I decided to study Torah on Saturday morning. I invited the community to join me.


I did not know what would happen. Would it just be me and the Torah, or would someone choose to wake up on a Saturday morning and join a Rabbi in the Library?


The first week 2 people showed up. After a few weeks we were 4 people. A little while longer, and we became 7 people. Soon Father John Frambes, Z”L, from St. Francis, joined us. He eventually brought in a few of his congregants. Then Reverend Roy Minnix joined us.


Ultimately, we became a community of 15-20 people studying Torah from 10 until noon on Saturday mornings. If, on a given Shabbat, everyone showed up, we moved from the library to the social hall. People who had never looked at the Torah, or who had previously thought it was an irrelevant book of stories about old Jews, were now learning that it told the story of our people, past, present, and future. We learned that it is a book of laws, a book of poetry, a book of wisdom, a love story, and a book about how to live a better life. We learned that it is not just a book, but an encapsulated universe capable of creating new universes.


We learned the joy of studying in Chevrutah. We learned the joy of listening to different interpretations. We learned the joy of understanding a well-known passage in a way we had not previously considered. We learned the joy of the taste of coffee and Torah on our lips on a Shabbat morning. (I, and my waist, learned the joy of eating way too many Entenmann’s PoP’ems, always supplied by Dr. Lee Gardner).


After a while, we realized that we had enough people for a minyan. We shifted our Chevrutah to a Shabbat Minyan. It is important that we have our Shabbat minyan, but I do so miss those Saturdays of discussing one line of Torah for two hours.


I shifted Torah study to Thursday mornings at 11:00, on Zoom. Some of our original Chevrutot are still joining us, but we have a number of new Chevrutahs.(Didn’t we used to sing: “Make new friends but keep the old.”?) Please join us.  It is one thing to study, but it is quite another thing to study with friends. Here is the link: https://zoom.us/meeting/88250553113?occurrence=1776956400000


Right now, since Passover is behind us and we are counting the days until the receipt of Torah on Shavuot, it is customary to study a portion of the Mishnah known as: “Pirkei Avot”, “Wisdom of our Ancestors”. It contains ancient wisdom of the rabbinic sages, emphasizing the relationship between Torah, wisdom, and ethical conduct.

Learning Torah as an adult opens our eyes to a whole new window of what our tradition is all about. Study, discuss, make friends and maybe even have a Pop-Em. You will not only be learning, but I also guarantee you will be teaching too.


Shabbat Shalom and Chodesh Tov– Rabbi Michael S. Jay



Rabbi Jay will be in his office at the JCC after services on Saturdays. The Rabbi is also available at any time or place to schedule in-person, or virtual meetings at your convenience. The Rabbi can be reached by call/text 973-865-9534 or email at Mjayrab@gmail.com

 

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, April 17, 2026

7:18 PM

Rosh Chodesh Iyyar


Friday

April 17, 2026

SERVICES

7:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT

Saturday

April 18, 2026

TORAH STUDY

9:00 AM

SERVICES

10:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services and Torah Study

SATURDAY MORNING


TORAH READING

Leviticus 12:1-15:33;

Numbers 28:9-15

Tazria (“She Bears Seed”) opens by describing the purification process for a woman after childbirth. It then describes different forms of tzaraat, a discoloration condition on skin or clothing, and the requirement of an infected person to dwell alone outside the camp and be inspected by a priest. Metzora opens by describing the purification process and accompanying sacrifices for one infected with tzaraat, a discoloration condition on the skin. It then describes the process of treating a house infected with tzaraat.

Here is Leviticus Portion

Here is the Numbers Portion


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 66:1-24

The usual haftarah for Parashat Tazria-Metzora is II Kings 7:3–20 , which relates a story of four people with tzara'at. However, because this year Tazria-Metzora falls on Rosh Chodesh (the start of a new Hebrew month), it's instead accompanied by a special haftarah (Isaiah 66:1–24). This reading speaks of a time when everyone will join together on Shabbat and Rosh Chodesh to worship God.

Here is the Haftorah


TORAH QUESTION?

How does the Torah portion relate to how we should treat affliction of the mind and soul.

WEEKDAY SERVICES


Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


Tuesday, April 21

Yom HaZikaron Israeli Memorial Day. 

Remembers those who died in the War of Independence and other wars in Israel. 


Wednesday, April 22

Yom HaAtzma’ut

Israeli Independence Day. Commemorates the declaration of independence of Israel in 1948.

"Stories from the Museum of the Southern Jewish Experience" with Lizzi Meister, which took place on March 26th. You will find the recording link below
https://us02web.zoom.us/rec/share/bJJwojZShq3iXoWa3vcu-J8x9cQad_MrSrLu_FpEti3MgfP7BKEsLJ7jtggyXIDp.l4pLcbjSnFt-8Aqk?from=hub

Passcode: mG6A+^L5


 SUNDAY, April 19

Pickleball

10:00 AM - 1 PM

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TUESDAY, April 21

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

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WEDNESDAY, April 22

MAH JONGG

12:30 PM

WAX Book Club

4:00 PM

*******


THURSDAY, April 23

Pickleball

10:00 AM - 1 PM


Torah Study

11:00 AM


Wednesday, April 22:

“The Midwives’ Escape: From Egypt to Jericho” By Maggie Anton

Friday, May 1

WAX Shabbat & Dinner

6:30 PM


Friday, May 8

Safety & Your Skin with Chuck Sidwas

11:00 AM - 12:30 PM


Monday, April 11

Easy Hiking with Lisa Riley

10:00 AM - 12:00 Noon


Friday, April 15

WAX Brunch

11:00 AM


Wednesday, April 20

WAX Book Club

4:00 PM


PICKLEBALL

Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays

10 - 1

MAH JONGG & CANASTA 

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM 


CLICK HERE FOR A WAX CALENDAR OF EVENTS

WAX BOOK DISCUSSION GROUP

Wednesday, April 22nd at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

The Midwives’ Escape: From Egypt to Jericho

By Maggie Anton


An Egyptian mother and daughter, Asenet and Shifra, a midwife and her apprentice, wake up on the morning of the tenth plague to find Asenet's husband and son, both firstborns, dead. Asenet's sister Pua, married to an Israelite, urges Asenet's family to leave Egypt with them, which they reluctantly do, along with Asenet's wainwright father and his two apprentices. Recognizing that the Hebrew god is more powerful than any of the Egyptians' gods, other non-Israelites join the exodus, including Hittite and Nubian palace guards. Once hearing and accepting God's commandments at Mt. Sinai, these two Egyptian midwives join the Israelites on their forty-year journey to The Promised Land where they tend to the wounded, share hardship and adversity, fall in love, and start a new home and a new generation.

MARK YOUR CALENDAR FOR JUNE 10

The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.

CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Nathan Blumberg

William Frank

Ann Hirsh Mednikoff

Rudolph Valentine*

Michael Yudman

Lorraine B. Barol

Anna Blumenthal*

Dr. Morton Kaplon

Aaron Powitz

Fred Gottesman

Ada Heller

Fanny Kelsen

Rabbi Lazar Lebovitz

George Rosner

Pearl Elefant

Jack Halpern

Helen Herzig

Phil Pepperman

Batia Shatz

Margaret Stern

Tessie Weisel*

Anna Kaufman Wittenberg

Ann Bernstein

Max Braun

Libby Flumenbaum

Burton Greenblatt

Harold Kugel

Leon Schachter

Alfred Baker*

David Ehrlich

Ben Levenstein

Sylvia Morgenstern*

Nathan Rubenstein*

Ted Cohen

Abraham Mizrahi

Shelia Weisel*


 

We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.

"May God remember forever our dear ones who have gone to their eternal rest. May they be at one with the One who is life eternal. May the beauty of their lives shine for evermore, and may our lives always bring honor to their memory."



Martin Weinberg

April 18

Lisa K. Marinelli

April 19

Michael Babst

April 20

Frank Brancati

April 20

Naomi Koller Fishman

April 20

Alison Friedman

April 20

Ellen Oxfeld

April 21

Susan L. Beekman

April 22

Bunny Kaufman

April 22

Jacob Pleeter

April 22

Brian Chevlin

April 24

Ruth Miller

April 24

 


STACEY & KEN PODOS

on the birth of their grandson

 Etai Jonas Podos

SHARE YOUR NEWS AND PICTURES

CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


We would like to expand our Caring Committee to reach out to folks who need a "how are you doing?" call once and a while. Please contact

Debby Schweighardt

973-634-5349 if you are interesting in participating



CARING COMMITTEE

This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 973-634-5349


GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Scroll down to see the new Ner Tamid Fund


Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.


ENDOWMENT FUND

This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.


GENERAL FUND

Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.


KOL HAKAVOD FUND

Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.



RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND

This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.


ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND

The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.



NER TAMID FUND

The Ner Tamid Fund was established in 2025 as part of the JCC’s 75th Anniversary Celebration. Its purpose is to fund necessary maintenance or improvement of our beautiful JCC building as well as the Parsonage. To ensure that the JCC remains an Eternal Light for the Jewish Community on and off the island and in Southern Ocean County generally, please consider making a separate donation to the Ner Tamid Fund, or allocating a small portion of your High Holiday donation to that fund.

 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Lorna Klein

Joyce Levine

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager




BULLETIN:

LATEST BULLETIN



PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Krieger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer