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Letting go...
I just facilitated a workshop for Montgomery County employees (supervisory-level) titled "Successful Delegation: Achieving Results Through Others". Yet, I am somewhat remiss at practicing what I "preach". This is one leadership practice that deserves greater discipline.
At the end of last week (it doesn't matter which week as you're reading this) I felt exhausted and impatient. It was a good week, full of business contract fulfillment, preparation for a big event, facilitation, which I love doing, and participation in an all-adult Girl Scout weekend at camp. I should have been high on achievements yet found myself tense from the stress of "doing it all". How about you? When you're in leadership positions - assuming you like being a leader - do you find yourself stressed instead of energized at times? Why do we do this to ourselves?
"No one else can do this [task] as well as I can."
"It takes longer to convey to someone else that which I can do faster myself."
"I'm not sure (the proverbial 'they') are ready to tackle this."
"They're just as busy; I feel guilty asking them to do more."
"I don't want others to think I'm incompetent / can't handle it all."
"My ego precludes me from asking for help."
Are any of the above familiar for you? At one time or another they have all been thoughts I've had throughout years in leadership roles in corporate, volunteer-run organizations, and my own business. They are also challenges shared by participants in my workshop...who happen to have been all women!
So from this point forward, let's stop doing this to ourselves. Let's look at all our "dos" and "shoulds" to determine what we can let go and let others do. Part of our leadership role is to help those we lead learn and grow. One way to do that is to delegate and support them in taking on greater responsibilities. We're strong women! Let's get better at asking for assistance from our staff, volunteers, and board members.
Delegate, yet don't abdicate (final, ultimate responsibility)! Let me know how this feels for you.
Until next time,
Sylvia Henderson
President, Montgomery Women
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