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I'm excited to serve as a youth chaplain next week at Shrine Mont. I'll be helping with All Saints Camp, one of the newest offerings on the mountain where campers choose their own adventure: Art Camp, Sports Camp, and Music & Theater Camp.
One of the things I always do at the end of the day's chaplain's time (like Sunday School but with more running around) is a sort of Ask-Me-Anything Q&A. Campers get to ask me anything about God, faith, what's going on in the world, my favorite Disney princess, whatever it is, and I'll do my best to answer. It's an opportunity to ask questions campers may not get to ask others and talk about what's going on in their own spiritual journey.
And one of the questions that always comes up - and one I'm dreading this year - is some version of the question: why do bad things happen?
And my answer is always some version of the following.
Some people think that bad things happen because it serves a purpose, or it's part of some greater plan. God works in mysterious ways. Maybe God's trying to teach us something or test us in some way to make us stronger, more caring people. It's true that, sometimes, good can seem to come out of the bad. And it's a good thing when, in the face of tragedy, loss, or cruelty, we manage to learn something and emerge better, stronger, kinder than before.
But we have to be careful. There's a difference saying between good came after bad - and good came because of the bad. There's a difference between saying something awful happened and we learned something - and saying God did something so that we would learn something. Though life can be cruel to us, I don't believe that God is.
It's possible - and I certainly hope - that there's a plan, that it all makes sense somehow, some day. But, sometimes, some things just don't seem to make any sense at all. And when that happens, I believe in and look to a God who suffers with us when we do. When we lose a loved one, when we endure or witness injustice, when we are the victims of disaster, God who took on flesh for us suffers, too. God is there for us, not as a teacher but a friend. When your heart breaks, so does the heart of God.
So, whatever happens, don't be afraid. Be brave - not because you think you know God's plan - but because, whatever happens, you are never alone.
At least, that's what I say, what I will say. Sometimes, it can be hard to believe.
Faithfully,
Kevin
The Rev. Kevin Laskowski
Priest-in-Charge
St. John's Episcopal Church
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