JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


September 27, 2024

17 Elul 5784



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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


As I have often mentioned from the Bimah, the month of Elul is one of reflection, introspection, and repentance. As the month draws to a close, the mood of repentance becomes more urgent and prayers for forgiveness called Selichot (properly pronounced "s'lee-KHOHT") are added to the morning prayers.

 

Selichot prayers are recited in the morning, but start late on Saturday night, from the Saturday before Rosh Hashanah until Yom Kippur.

The JCC has a special Selichot service on Saturday evening, September 27th starting at 7:00 PM. Below I will provide information about our Selichot program and service.


Why do we say Selichot prayers? We say them because much of the High Holy Day season is about giving and receiving forgiveness. Indeed, a fundamental part of the Selichot service is the repeated recitation of God’s Thirteen Attributes of Mercy: Adonai [1], Adonai[2], God [3], merciful [4], and gracious [5], long-suffering [6], abundant in goodness [7] and truth [8], keeping mercy unto the thousandth generation [9], forgiving iniquity [10] and transgression [11] and sin [12], who cleanses [13].

 

The Thirteen Attributes are repeated in order to show how merciful and forgiving God is. While we are certainly asking for God’s forgiveness, the implication is that, since we are created in God’s image, we should be following God’s example and granting forgiveness as well.

 

This may seem cliché or trite, but before we can forgive others we need to forgive ourselves. Our first job as we approach the High Holy Days, as part of our “self” review, is to determine what we each need to forgive ourselves for and grant that forgiveness. Once we have granted “self”-atonement, we can then work on forgiving others and requesting forgiveness. Begin the process with yourself.

 

Saturday, September 28th, at 7:00 PM, the JCC will have a Selichot program and services. The evening will start with Maariv and Havdalah. We will then place our beautiful white Torah covers, lovingly made by Judith Pripstein, Z”L, on our 5 Torah scrolls. Next, Sheri and I will teach a short class on Cheshbon Hanefesh, the “accounting of the soul”, we customarily do in preparation for the High Holy Days. After our class, we will have a Selichot service. This is the real beginning of the holidays. Join us!!

 

One last thing:

We have been blowing the shofar every morning for the last few weeks because it is Elul.

 

There are three basic notes that we blow on the Shofar in Elul.

We start with a Tekiah - one unbroken blast.

This is followed by Shevarim - a set of 3 small blasts.

 Next is Teruah - a set of 9 very short blasts.

And then to round out the pattern, we have Tekiah - one unbroken blast again. 

 

The 20th century mystic and religious Zionist known as Rav Kook

explained the meaning of the blasts as follows:

Tekiah - the world was created complete.

Shevarim - human beings, and natural forces, have broken and shattered the world.

Teruah - sometimes it seems broken beyond repair.

But- Tekiah - with God’s help, we can rebuild it again and make it whole.

 

As always, if you have questions or thoughts, please email me at mjayrab@gmail.com or call me on my cell phone, 973-865-9534.

 

Shabbat Shalom and Shanah Tovah U’metukah– Rabbi Michael S. Jay



Shabbat Candle

Lighting time

Friday evening

September 27, 2024

6:26 PM

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SERVICES


September 27, 2024

6:00 PM

IN PERSON AND ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday,

September 28, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Nitzavim-Vayeilech 5784

Deuteronomy 29:9-31:30

In Nitzavim (“Standing”), Moses addresses the Israelites, emphasizing the importance of following God’s covenant and of not worshiping other gods. He describes the process of repentance and returning to God, and stresses that God’s commandments are achievable and “not in the heavens.” Vayeilech (“He Went”) opens as Moses tells the Israelites that he will not lead them into the Land of Israel, and that Joshua will take over. He instructs the Israelites to gather and read Torah publicly every seven years. At God’s command, Moses writes a poem bearing witness to God’s covenant with the Israelites

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 61:10-63:9 

Here is the Haftorah

SELICHOT

Saturday night, September 28 @7:00 PM

In person and on Zoom

Schedule:

Havdallah

Changing of the Torah mantels

Class with Rabbi & Sheri

Selichot Service

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WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation

from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


MONDAY, Sept. 30

Rabbi's Class

10:00 PM


CLICK HERE FOR RABBI'S MONDAY CLASS

MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


NO MAJ/CANASTA

10/2 AND 10/9

NO PICKLEBALL UNTIL 10/15


HERE IS THE

SCHEDULE TO ACCOMODATE ALL LEVELS OF PLAYERS


Tuesdays

3-4 Beginner and Skills Practice

 4-5 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

5-6 Experienced Players, Singles


Thursdays

10:30-11:30 Beginners and Skills Practice

11:30-12:30 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

12:30-1:30 Experienced Players, Singles


Sundays 

NO PICKLEBALL 9/15 

 10-11 Beginners and Skills Practice

  11-12 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

12-1 Experienced Players, Singles

 



Reminder: Pickleball for

members only!


 

COUNT DOWN TO THE HIGH HOLIDAYS


Rosh Hashanah

Wednesday evening, October 2, 2024

Thursday, October 3, 2024

Friday, October 4, 20024


Yom Kippur

Friday evening, October 11, 2024

Saturday October 12, 2024


CLICK FOR THE JCC HIGH HOLIDAY BROCHURE




DEADLINE TO BE INCLUDED IN THE JCC HIGH HOLIDAY GREETINGS IS NOON ON MONDAY 9/30

609-492-4090

jccoflbi@gmail.com


Break the Fast at JCC


Restarting a Tradition...

This year the JCC Board is sponsoring a Break the Fast after the final Yom Kippur service. There is no cost but we do need RSVPs, no later than October 10th, so we know how much food to buy. We know many people break the fast with family and friends but many congregants don’t have that opportunity. We hope many of you will join this special community event.


CONTACT THE JCC OFFICE TO MAKE YOUR RESERVATION

DEADLINE FOR RSVP 10/7


609-492-4090

jccoflbi@gmail.com


Friday,

September 27

WAX Brunch before High Holidays

Jersey Girls, Beach Haven

11:00 PM


Sunday, September 29

Federation Film Festival

Film: "No Name Restaurant"

7:00 PM


click here to see a list of upcoming events

JEWISH FEDERATION FILM FESTIVAL COMES TO LBI


SUNDAY EVENING,

SEPTEMBER 29, 2024

7:00 PM

at the JCC of LBI


Showing the film "No Name Restaurant"


ALEXANDRIA, EGYPT. To save the synagogue of the once largest Jewish community in the world from being shut down, Ben, an ultra-Orthodox Brooklyn Jew visiting Jerusalem, is sent out to be the desperately needed tenth man for the ceremonies of Pesach. Having missed his plane and been kicked off the bus in the Sinai Desert, his last hope is Adel, a grumpy Bedouin looking for his camel. When their car breaks down, it becomes a matter of their very survival. Although rescued by the monks of St. Catherine, Ben is too sick to go on. It is the Bedouin disguised as Ben who is now rushing on towards Alexandria to save the Jewish community.


$12 PER FILM

$13 AT THE DOOR


SEE TRAILER ABOVE



CLICK HERE FOR YOUR TICKETS

WAX BOOK GROUP

WEDNESDAY AFTERNOONS EACH MONTH

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING

NO BOOK FOR OCTOBER


Wednesday, November 20th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

The Little Liar

By: Mitch Albom

Eleven-year-old Nico Krispis has never told a lie. His schoolmate, Fannie, loves him because of it. Nico’s older brother Sebastian resents him for both these facts.When their young lives are torn apart during the war, it will take them decades to find each other again. Nico’s innocence and goodness is used against his tightly knit community when a German officer

barters Nico’s reputation for honesty into a promise to save his loved ones. When Nico realizes the

consequences of the betrayal, he can never tell the truth again. He will spend the rest of this life changing

names, changing locations and identities, desperate to find a way to forgiveness—for himself and from the

people he loves most. Albom’s extraordinary storytelling is at its powerful best in his first novel to confront

the destruction that lying can wreak both on the world stage as well as on the individual lives that get

caught up in it. As The Stranger in the Lifeboat spoke to belief, The Little Liar speaks to hope, in a breathless page-turner that will break your heart open and fill it with the power of the human spirit and the goodness

that lies within us all. Narrated by the voice of Truth itself, The Little Liar is a timeless story about the power

of love to ultimately redeem us, no matter how deeply we blame ourselves for our mistakes.

SUNDAY, OCTOBER 13 TO GIVE OUT WATER AND CHEER THE RUNNERS PARTICIPATING IN THE 18-MILE RUN


Come to the front of the JCC building at 10:00 AM. Let the office know you will be volunteering.


The run is dedicated to the Israeli Olympic Athletes murdered in Munich 52 years ago.

"May their memory be a blessing"

Again this year with our participationn

in the PJP Consortium,

you can visit Jewish communities around the world virtually.

To Order your Shirts or Caps, Click Here
To pay by credit card on the JCC Website

NEW!!!!!!


The Wax Gift Shop in the lobby is currently Show Casing a local crafter of candles and soaps- Lavinia’s Haven. Please stop by for your holiday hostess gifts!



CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Sadie Bodanji

Martha Horowitz

Anne Kanowith

Sydell Levy

John E. Frankfurt*

Sarah Kirsh

Rose Taube Lehrer

Lester Miller

Rose Epstein Danon*

Kyle Frand

Hilda Kelsen

Lucille Jerome

Esther Martin*

Rachel Mosios

Andrew Ross

Yetta Zimmer

Irwin Horowitz

Gussie Ungar

Barbara Goldstein

Elizabeth Greene

Dr. Irving Young

Alfonso Muscente

Abram Plon


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about 45 minutes to an hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.


*Denotes yahrzeit plaque which will be lit this week

Stewart Cofsky

September 28

Joyce Davis

September 28

Jerome Marcus

September 29

Jill Yudman

September 29

Mary Pleeter

September 30

Howard Fruchterman

October 1

Michael Green

October 1

Carolyn Ross

October 1

Jill Denker

October 2

Lisa Litovsky

October 3

Gregg Gilman

October 4

 

Barry & Elaine Sussman

October 2

41st Anniversary

Gary & Dale Morgenstern

October 4

44th Anniversary


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CONTACT: 

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CARING COMMITTEE


This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.


Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 


STACEY & KEN PODOS

on the bar mitzvah of their grandson

Cooper Zodda

on Saturday, September 14

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP


OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos


Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


*New Board Members

JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2


NO JCC BUSINESS DONE

ON SHABBAT


 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst