JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


June 21, 2024

15 Sivan 5784



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MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


I am moving back to my discussion of our daily prayers. We are still in P’sukei D’Zimrah, “Verses of Song”. As you may recall, we are still in the first third of the morning service and, liturgically, we are in the process of praising God. Why start with praise? There are two main reasons. The first is that if we are going to spend the much of the rest of our prayer time making requests of God, it is good policy to “butter the Holy One Up” before making the requests. The second is that before we endeavor on making our requests, we need to be primed to do so. Put another way, it would not be a good idea to play pickleball without first stretching our bodies. A failure to stretch first will lead to the greater possibility of injury. Likewise, if we don’t prepare to pray our prayer is more likely to broken or ineffectual.


As we get near to the end of P’sukei D’Zimrah, the Rabbis inserted, into the liturgy, a biblical passage directly from the Exodus story. When the Israelites left Egypt, the Egyptians gave chase. The Israelites found themselves between the Red Sea and the Egyptian Army. 


You know the rest. Charlton Heston raises his staff and the Red Sea parts. The Israelites walk between two walls of water to safety and, as the Egyptian Army gives chase, Moses lifts his staff up again and the waters collapse on the Egyptian army.


After witnessing this miracle and their deliverance, the Israelites sing a song known as the “Song at the Sea”. This song represents, perhaps, the most beautiful example of biblical poetry. Several of its verses are used in other parts of the liturgy. Most notably this is where we first see:

Mi cha-mo-cha ba’-ei-lim, A-do-nai

        Mi cha-mo-cha ne-dar ba-ko-desh

        No-rah te-hi-lot, o-seh fe-leh

 

         Who is Like you Adonai, among all that is worshipped

         Who is like you, majestic in holiness,

         awesome in splendor, working wonders.

 

And:  Adonai Yimloch L’Olam Vah-Ed

 

      Adonai shall reign throughout all time.


So why is this placed at this point in the prayer service? Here are two reasons. 


First, the events at the Red Sea are incredibly important part of our tradition. In many ways it represents the climax of the Exodus story. Having witnessed the plagues, having left Egypt, and having witnessed the destruction of the Egyptian army, this is the first time in the Torah that the Israelites publicly, as a complete people, exalted God. (It is mentioned in the Psalms and in Isaiah, so it was a no-brainer to include it in the liturgy). This way, every day, we are reminded of what God did for us as a people.


Secondly, as I often to say during services, the event at the Red Sea represents a moment that God was imminent. God was very present as the sea was split. Why is this important to the liturgy? Because, shortly in the prayer service we will be acknowledging God’s presence and then making requests of God. By giving us a piece of Torah text that visualizes a “present” God, it puts us in better position to make requests of that God.


So central is this text to the prayer service itself, that it is customary to stand as we sing/recite it. Here is a traditional version of Shirat Hayam: CLICK HERE TO VIEW


Here is the Mi Chamocha you might recall from Rosh Hashanah and/or Yom Kippur:

CLICK HERE TO VIEW


The liturgy was organized for a purpose, or many purposes. There is something in it for everyone. One just needs to look. 


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

         

Shabbat Candle

Lighting time

Friday evening

June 21, 2024

8:10 PM


Friday, June 21, 2024

JOIN US FOR

SERVICES

6:00 PM


SHABBAT ON THE BEACH

Spray Beach

24 th Street

Bring your own chair


IN PERSON

& ON ZOOM


In case of inclement weather, services will be held at the JCC at 6:00 PM

Check the JCC telephone message for any updates.


ADDITIONAL JUNE DATES FOR BEACH SERVICES


Friday, June 28 @ 6:00 PM

Loveladies


CLICK HERE FOR BULLETIN WITH ALL THE SUMMER DATES

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Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday,

June 22, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON &

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Beha’alotcha

Numbers 8:1-12:16

Beha’alotekha (“When You Raise”) opens with God instructing Moses to inaugurate the Levites for service in the Mishkan (Tabernacle). It also recounts the stories of people who request a second chance to offer the Passover sacrifice, complaints of the Israelites and their punishments, and a disease that affects Miriam

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

Zechariah 2:14-4:7

This haftorah contains a vision of the golden Temple Menorah, whose daily kindling is discussed in the opening of this week's Torah reading.

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH

8:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH


WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation

from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT



SUNDAY, June 23

NO Pickleball


Welcome Back Brunch

10:00 AM

*****


MONDAY, June 24

Choosing Hope Class

10:00 AM



TUESDAY, June 18

Pickleball

3:00 PM

******


WEDNESDAY, June 26

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM

*********



THURSDAY, June 27

Pickleball

10:00 AM


Torah Study with Rabbi

11:00 AM


Intermediate Hebrew with Ira

2:00 PM

***********


FRIDAY, June 28

Studying the Prophets

with Rabbi Jay

9:00 AM


CLICK HERE FOR MONDAY CLASS
CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY TORAH STUDY CLASS
CLICK HERE FOR FRIDAY PROPHETS CLASS


MAH JONGG & CANASTA



WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

SUNDAY 10:00 AM

TUESDAY 3:00 PM

THURSDAY 10:00 AM


Reminder: Pickleball for

members only!

UPCOMING EVENTS


Friday, June 21 @ 6:00 PM

Shabbat on the Beach

Spray Beach


Sunday, June 23

JCC Membership Brunch at the JCC


Friday, June 28 @ 6:00 PM

Shabbat on the Beach in Loveladies


Sunday, June 30 @ 4 - 6 PM

Interfaith Concert with

The Island Singers

CLICK HERE FOR THE SCHEDULE OF EVENTS THIS SUMMER

 

Last Sunday, a enthusiatic crowd of 200 gathered at the dock at the Barnegat Light Yacht Basin as clergy, including Rabbi Jay, offered blessings to the fleet of boats in Barnegat Light Bay. There are 50 boats in the fleet, including,scallopers, longliners, gillnetters, draggers and head/charter boats. Following the ceremony, folks boarded Miss Barnegat Light and joined the fleet for a short ride in the inlet. As the boats passed the Coast Guard boat , they received blessings from the clergy on board.

JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM


NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Wednesday, July 17th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

Jackpot Summer by Elyssa Friedland

After the Jacobson siblings win a life-changing fortune in the lottery, they assume their messy lives will transform into sleek, storybook perfection–but they couldn’t be more wrong.

 

The four Jacobson children were raised to respect the value of a dollar. Their mother reused tea bags and refused to pay retail; their father taught them to budget before he taught them to ride a bike. And yet, now that they’re adults, their financial lives are in disarray. The siblings reunite when their newly widowed father puts their Jersey Shore beach house on the market. Packing up childhood memories isn’t easy, especially when there’s other drama brewing. Matthew is miserable at his corporate law job and wishes he had more time with his son; Laura’s marriage is imploding in spectacular fashion; Sophie’s art career is stalled while her boyfriend’s is on the rise; and Noah’s total failure to launch has him doing tech repair for pennies. When Noah sees an ad for a Powerball drawing, he and his sisters go in on tickets while their brother Matthew passes. All hell breaks loose when one of the tickets is a winner and three of the four Jacobsons become overnight millionaires. Without their mother’s guidance, and with their father busy playing pickleball in a Florida retirement village, the once close-knit siblings search for comfort in shiny new toys instead of each other. It’s not long before the Jacobsons start to realize that they’ll never feel rich unless they can pull their family back together.


INTERFAITH CONCERT

WITH THE ISLAND SINGERS

SUNDAY AFTERNOON JUNE 30TH


FAMILY CIRCUS AND JUGGLING

Sunday, July 7 @7:00 PM

at the JCC

New Vaudeville!

The Next Generation of Jester



Ben Lipman combines juggling, magic, mime, and circus arts from around the world, giving vaudeville entertainment a modern attitude. He performs mesmerizing daring stunts while the audience becomes part of the show, captivating crowds of all ages.

Cost is $25 per adult and Children under 18 is $18. 

Please RSVP to Jill Denker at Jill.Denker@hotmail.com by 7/1/24

MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THE GYPSY MOON DUET...

Sunday, August 4th at 7:00 PM

Dinner

Concert by the Gypsy Moon Duet

An In-House Silent Auction

$40 per person


The committee is excited about the silent auction prizes they have collected so far. You could win a woman’s bicycle, Yankee tickets, Mets tickets, artwork, and a stunning antique pendant with rubies. It is going to be a great event!!!!!

To Order your Shirts or Caps, Click Here
To pay by credit card on the JCC Website

CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Grace Berman

Dr. Raul Fleischmajer

Hilde Hess Lewisohn

Sylvia Marcus

Gene Mendlow*

Ida Opatosky

Leonard Ostreicher

Murray Rosenthal

Barbara Cohen

Max Faich

Joseph Herman

Hilda Baron

William Novick

Gertrude Polinsky

Mitchell Konner

Joan Podos

Sidney Tannenbaum

Bernard Gross

Michael Salonsky

Freda Schlanger*

Norton Geier

Sophie Hellman

Fay Neustadt*

William Schlanger*

Sallie Wichman

Gail Wolfe

 



We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 7:45 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.


*Denotes yahrzeit plaque which will be lit this week



Cake

Karlene Turtz

June 22

Andrea Silvershein

June 23

Phyllis Sisenwine

June 24

Carol Zemble

June 24

Elliot Greene

June 25

Alan Kanis

June 26

Martin Hochman

June 27

Norma Hochman

June 27

Nathan Fink

June 28


Frederic & Arlene Schragger

June 22

59th Anniversary

Warren & Marlene Matz

June 23

56th Anniversary

James & Bonnie Shrager

June 23

61st Anniversary

Barry & Bobbi Freedman

June 24

45th Anniversary

Carl & Lori Appel

June 25

35th Anniversary

Craig & Lori Israelite

June 26

41st Anniversary

Michael & Malenie Piscetelli

June 27

15th Anniversary

Mark & Elly Rosenthal

June 27

48th Anniversary

Arthur & Susan Davis

June 28 

JERI & BEN RIFFLE

CARING COMMITTEE


This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.


Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 


SHARE YOUR NEWS

AND PICTURES



CONTACT: 

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Emilie Krill

Jr. Miss Stafford

Granddaughter of Jeri & Ben Riffle

JCC of LBI Scholarship Winner

Nicholas Gatto with

JCC Scholarship Chair Jeri Riffle

Nicholas is the grandson of Ira & Ina Morgenthal

JCC OF LBI SCHOLARSHIP WINNERS


Southern Regional High School: Nicholas Gatto

Barnegat High School: Colin Hall. 

Pinelands High School: Mateo Kirby 


Graduation



SEND ANNOUNCEMENTS OF YOUR GRADUATES TO rvalen1963@aol.com.

PICTURES ARE WELCOME


YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP


OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine

Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Jon Geier


Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman



WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2

CLOSED THURSDAY



 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst

Contributing Columnist

Sheila Weisel