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As someone who will have been sober for four decades on Feb. 21 of next year, I really don’t have to wonder about the answer to that question. “The temperance revival,” as Bellafante so unfortunately terms it, has hopefully carried away some percentage of the broken families, ruined careers, lifelong health issues and bottomless depression those who struggle with alcohol misuse often face.
To be fair, midway through the story, Bellafante underscores the positive benefits for those who try to cope with addiction. But the overall frame of the story underlines a popular myth that often is a major stumbling block for those looking to explore recovery — the notion that not drinking relegates one to some kind of joyless purgatory, where you sit guzzling coffee and doing needlepoint and preaching the evils of Demon Rum to all who will listen.
The Journalists Recovery Network takes no position on how to structure your recovery; we have members who are in 12-step programs, who want nothing to do with 12-step programs, who are fully abstinent and who are not. We simply share what has worked for us, the resources that are available, the reality that journalism is a crushingly stressful occupation and the likelihood that a good number of us may misuse alcohol and other substances to try to deal with that.
What our organization does fully agree on is that yes Virginia, there is not only a real Santa Claus but also rewarding life and even FUN without drinking and using. As a sober person, I have closed bars, eaten too much, laughed too loud, cried, treasured good friends, told silly jokes, danced to great music. The only difference is that I didn’t also put others in danger and/or end up in an ER or rehab at the end of the evening.
JRN hopes to lead a new awareness of the need for healthy stress reduction techniques among journalists and be a resource for those who are concerned about over-dependence on alcohol or other substances.
Make no mistake: recovery is hard, particularly early on. But to explore it, you aren’t risking becoming Carrie or Carl Nation, leaders of a national temperance movement, mean-spirited scolds who go to bed at 8 p.m.
You’ll be exploring a new and vibrant life. You’ll even have fun.
If you are a journalist in recovery from alcohol or substances and are interested in learning more, email us anytime at journalistsrecoverynetwork@gmail.com.
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