November 11, 2026 • א׳ כסלו תשפ״ז

Dear Chaverim,


Last week, I had the pleasure of visiting with chaverim in the Cherry Hill and the Philadelphia area, including Rabbis Michael Davies, Jonathan Bienenfeld, Ari Federgrun, and Steven Goltlib. I always come away from these visits inspired by the dedication and creativity of our members in their communities. In my visit to Philadelphia, some of the conversation was about the (then) pending pro-Palestinian bike ride that targeted Jewish- and Israeli-owned restaurants. Baruch Hashem, we saw the support for our community far outnumber the protestors. 


I also had the privilege of participating in the Rebbetzins’ Yarchei Kallah. It was truly moving to see our Rebbetzins learning together and strengthening one another.


Our Rebbetzins carry so much of the weight of communal life, often without the recognition or support they deserve. Three years ago, the RCA took over the Rebbetzin portfolio from Yeshiva University. Since then, through the Rebbetzins’ Circle, we have built ongoing programming throughout the year: learning, peer connection, and practical resources.


I want to publicly thank Adina Morris for all of her hard work on the convention – and all our Rebbetzins, our true partners in avodas hakodesh, and I invite you to do the same! If your Rebbetzin is not yet part of the Rebbetzins’ Circle, please encourage her to join us by emailing amorris@rabbis.org.

With warm regards and wishes for the first wonderful Shabbos in Kislev,

R. Menachem Penner

Chomer Lidrush

A spark to start your drasha heading into Parshas Toldos

1) Becoming, Not Arriving


This week's original derasha starts from a Rashi that seems backward (and has always bothered me!). Hashem answered Yitzchak, "lo,” - him - “v'lo lah" (25:21), because the tefillah of a tzaddik ben tzaddik outweighs that of a tzaddik ben rasha. But Rivka, raised among resha'im, is a ba'alas teshuvah; shouldn't her tefillah count for more?


Rav Moshe Sternbuch, in A Voice in the Darkness (adapted by R. Daniel Yaakov Travis), offers two answers.


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2) Before Anyone Was Paying Attention


A guest contribution from our chaver R. Zev Shandalov


"Vayigdelu hane'arim" (25:27): Rashi notes that as long as Yaakov and Esav were young, their deeds did not set them apart and no one looked closely at who they were, but at thirteen one went off to the beit midrash and the other to avodah zarah. Writing a guest post for us, R' Shandalov brings up Rav Don Segal's question: How could two brothers raised in the same home by the same parents turn out so radically different?


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3) This Is What My Parents Taught Me


"V'eileh toldos Yitzchak ben Avraham, Avraham holid es Yitzchak" (25:19). The parsha named for toldos opens on what passes from a father to a son, and a recent episode of Rabbi David Fine's podcast, “Defining Moments”, offers a rabbi a moving way in. Rabbi Fine interviews Nurit Leon, mother of Staff Sergeant Adi Leon, a twenty-year-old Givati soldier who fell in northern Gaza.








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4) Three Ways to Stand Among the Nations


Yitzchak achieves extraordinary success in Gerar, but his prosperity produces resentment: "Vayekan'u oso Pelishtim" (26:14). The Pelishtim stop up Avraham's wells, even though, as Rav Shimshon Refael Hirsch notes, they benefited everyone. Eventually Avimelech tells Yitzchak, "Lech me'imanu ki atzamta mimenu me'od" (26:16). Rav Hirsch sees three stages of Jewish life among the nations in the three Avos.






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Manning the Media

“Denying Jews the Right to Pray in Ohio,” by Edward Blum and Cary Kozberg, Commentary (November 2026)


In 2021, Daniel Grand of University Heights, Ohio, invited friends to daven with him at home on Shabbos. The city told him he needed a land-use permit. After that came police patrols, surveillance cameras, and property citations. At a town meeting, a neighbor said it outright: “I am not Jewish, and I do not want our neighborhood labeled as Jewish.” Poker nights and book clubs on the same streets never drew the city’s attention. Only Jewish prayer did. The Supreme Court hears Grand’s case on December 9.

 

RCA Nachas


Our chaver R. Matti Laufer is launching a new book: The Chassidut of Halacha.


It will be released in a few weeks by Beit El Publishers, so keep an eye out for it.


The book follows the four sections of the Shulchan Aruch as four relationships: with Hashem, with ourselves, with our spouse, and with our community. It looks closely at the seemingly dry and technical corners of halacha and asks what they reveal about the human soul and the Divine presence within them.

Introducing Din: The Beth Din of America Podcast 🎙️


Our chaver and Menahel of the Beth Din of America, Rabbi Shlomo Weissmann is launching a new podcast:


In their first episode, guest host Bailey Spitz speaks with Rabbis Shlomo Weissmann and Itamar Rosensweig about a dispute between a father and a yeshiva over unpaid tuition, and how the panel worked through it.


🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2pduDLCqhEmeL6lyi4INLv


🎧 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id6830210493


Also available wherever you get your podcasts.

 
 

Do you have some nachas to share about yourself or another RCA member? Let us know!

 

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L'maan Tzion: Advocacy for Israel

Historic delegation of 500 African American and African Christian leaders to visit Israel 


Under the name Unfinished Business Pilgrimage, the delegation seeks to fulfill a historic vision: Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.'s planned visit to Israel in 1967, which never took place after his assassination.  


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