Q&A with Chuck
How, when and why did you choose CASA?
While working I traveled quite a bit and did not have a lot of free time for volunteering. I was so fortunate to grow up have loving parents & siblings, as well as a great wife and kids of my own in later life. I always promised myself that when I retired I would try to give back, because I was so fortunate to have so much. When I retired 6 years ago I knew it was time. Once I learned about CASA, it seemed like the perfect fit, and as it turned out, it definitely was!
Can you share a little bit about the case you're on and what your youth is like?
This particular case I am on now is the first case where I have had a child older than 12 years old. My current CASA child is 17. This case has, in many ways, been the most difficult, but also the most rewarding. The youth that I am working with has some very real problems - intellectually, scholastically, legally, and emotionally. And he has never had a male role model who has consistently kept their word and advocated for him. Slowly gaining his trust, and having him turn to me when his problems get the best of him, has been quite an experience.
What has your experience has been like as a volunteer?
The three things that stand out the most to me about being a volunteer for CASA is the realization that you really are making a difference in a child’s life, a positive difference. That kind of says it all. The second part of the experience that I’ve enjoyed so much is getting to know fellow CASAs and the CASA staff - to see that there is such a large group of people who simply care about the well-being and futures of children. It is very heartening to be a part of that.
I would also like to mention the respect that is shown to CASAs in the courtroom setting. We are not just an add-on, we are an intricate part of the procedures... advocating for the child and the child’s best interests. Our role is respected and taken very seriously by all those in court.
What are some activities you do with your youth on your case?
The CASA Fort Fun Teen Challenge was one of the best. He loved it... so much so that I took him back a second time. He loves basketball, so shooting around with him in the gym after school was great. And just taking him for a bite, hanging out with him at home for a bit, etc. His mom & grandma tell me “he just likes being around you”, which is really nice to hear.
What is one moment that has stood out to you as a volunteer?
I have had some of my younger CASA kiddos tell me they love me. Incredibly humbling and amazing to hear that. One of them asked his aunt & uncle in front of me if I would be attending their Christmas dinner, “because Mr. Chuck is part of our family."
Is there anything else you would like to add?
I would just like to add, for anyone who is considering volunteering as a CASA... you are not on an island. The support that you will receive from your case, supervisors and the CASA staff, not to mention some of the partner organizations that we work with, is simply amazing. You are never alone in your quest to help these children.
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