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JEWISH COMMUNITY
CENTER OF
LONG BEACH ISLAND
E-LETTER
March 28, 2025
28 Adar 5785
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ALL FOR HOME AND HOME FOR ALL
I submitted this essay last year for publication. However, stumbling on it this year, I realize that, since the JCC is celebrating its 75th Anniversary, it really is most appropriate for this year. I hope you will agree.
The very last line of the Book of Exodus provides much information about God’s intended relationship with the Israelites and the Jewish world. Therein it says:
(T)he cloud of God would be on the Mishkan (Holy Tabernacle) by day, and fire would be on it at night, before the eyes of ALL of the House of Israel in ALL their journeys.
By telling us that God is present day and night we are, in effect, learning that God is always available. However, God’s presence is not limited to any one Israelite or group of Israelites. God is present to “ALL” of the House of Israel and at “ALL” places and times.
This simple sentence provides a foundational concept for what our JCC is and should be. Synagogues are the modern day version of the Mishkan. While we don’t (as a general rule) see God in the form of a cloud or fire, we do have a sanctuary with an Eternal Light. We may not have the Ark of the Pact carrying the Ten Commandments, but we do have an ark that holds our Torah scrolls (and a likeness of the Ten Commandments hung above the ark). We may not have Priestly garments, but we do have Tallitot.
When the JCC was created 75 years ago, it was not created for the use or benefit of a select group of people. Similarly, when the new building was dedicated, it was not dedicated for the use or benefit of a select group of people. The intention was to create a community and a destination where anyone could come to pray, or to learn, or to be Jewishly recharged, or to be culturally stimulated.
In addition, today, some folks come to be in the kitchen to cook, while others come to be in the kitchen while playing pickleball.
The JCC, like the Ocean to which it is so near, has a strong gravitational pull. Like the Lighthouse in Barnegat which steers ships away from a dangerous shore, the JCC should be a beacon to all Jews everywhere that brings them safely in from wherever they are. This goal has never been more important than it is today.
As a community, we have an obligation to our biblical ancestors, to our more recent founders, and to God, to make sure that in all we do, we ensure that our “tabernacle” can be seen, and used, by “ALL the House of Israel and at ALL times”.
God seeks relationship with us and desires that we be in (good) relationship with each other. Presence, vision, kindness, and a resolve to do what is correct, should always be on our minds and in our actions.
The Jewish people: Celebrating thousands of years welcoming God in our midst.
The JCC of LBI: Celebrating 75 years of Faith, Family, Friends.
A home. A heart. A sanctuary. A place for us. A place for God.
Chazak! Chazak! Venischazeik! (Be Strong! Be Strong! And may we be strengthened)
Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
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April 13
April 14
April 19
April 20 - Yiskor
Services In person and on Zoom
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Candle Lighting Time
(Southern Ocean County)
Shabbat Eve
Friday, March 28, 2025
6:52 PM
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Shabbat HaChodesh
Shabbat HaChodesh precedes the first of the Hebrew month of Nisan during which Passover is celebrated. Exodus 12:1-20 and the laws of On the first day of Nisan, G-d presented the first commandment of how to “sanctify the new moon” for the onset of Rosh Chodesh and thus Nisan becomes the first month of the Jewish year (counting by months).
Friday
March 28, 2025
Services
7:30 PM
ZOOM ONLY
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join Services
on Zoom
FRIDAY NIGHT
Saturday
March 29, 2025
9:00 AM
IN PERSON AND
ON ZOOM
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
SHABBAT
TORAH READING
Parashat Pekudei
Exodus 38:21-40:38,
12:1-20
Pekudei is the final Torah reading in the Book of Exodus. It describes the making of priestly garments worn in the Mishkan (Tabernacle) and the completion of its construction. At God’s command, Moses erects the Mishkan and puts its vessels in place, and God's presence fills the Mishkan.
Here is Parshah I
Here is Parshah II
HAFTORAH
Ezekiel 45:16-46:18
This special haftorah is a prophecy regarding the Paschal Offering that will be brought during the Messianic Era, reflecting the theme of the Hachodesh Torah reading—Moses' command to the Israelites in Egypt to prepare and bring the Paschal lamb.
Here is the Haftorah
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HAVDALLAH
7:30 PM
ON ZOOM ONLY
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
HAVDALLAH
WEEKDAY SERVICES
Monday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
MA'ARIV
Sunday - Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
SHACHARIT
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READ RABBI JAY'S ARTICLE IN THE JEWISH JOURNAL: PASSOVER HEROES.
CLICK HERE TO VIEW
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COUNTDOWN TO PASSOVER
FIRST SEDER: Saturday, April 12
SECOND SEDER: Sunday, April 13
5 Steps to Get Your Passover and Spring Cleaning On
from jamiegeller.com
While you are already cleaning for Passover you might as well go full spring clean and declutter with these 6 steps.
1. Plan -Start by planning out when and where you will clean each day and put it on your calendar. Generally, it is best to start in the least used rooms, work towards the bedrooms and bathrooms, and end with the kitchen.
2. Don't Do It Alone - Don't let your kids, grandkids or husband get away without helping out. Everyone should be responsible for a space — their own and/or another — but do each room as a group or in pairs. Turn cleaning into quality family time.
3. Have Fun -Plan some games to make it more exciting. Have a contest to see who can clean the best and rate them on speed, thoroughness, and final results. Hide something like a new toy at the bottom of your kids' closets so they have to clean to find it. Give young kids their own sponge and spray bottle of water and vinegar to clean after you declutter. Play some music and take dancing breaks. End the day with a reward, like going out for dinner.
4. Clear Out - Even though we started this to clean for Passover, we are using it as a way to clean up our home in every sense of the word. Go through everything you own and put them into one of 3 places: neatly in a place they belong, in the trash, or in a donation bag. Big tip: If you haven't worn or used it in a year, get rid of it — this applies to everything in your home, even food, spices, and appliances.
5. Get Help - While you must be the one to go through all your closets and drawers it is okay to bring in the reinforcements (cleaning professionals) to do the heavy lifting once you have cleared the clutter, especially if you don't have confidence in your sweeping and mopping skills like me.
6. Take Pictures - Make sure to take some before and after pictures and share them with us on this post and/or on social media. It will inspire others to get moving and cleaning.
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14 Make-Ahead Passover Dishes to Freeze for a Stress-Free Holiday
From meatballs to brisket and matzah ball soup
from The Nosher
See one of the recipes below. Click here for the entire article
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The Best Matzah Lasagna
Total Time: 1 hour Yield: Serves 6-8
Ingredients
6–7 sheets matzah
3 ½ cups (1 jar/25 oz) marinara or your favorite tomato sauce
2 (16 oz) containers whole-milk ricotta
1 cup chopped basil + more for garnish
4–5 sprigs thyme, leaves removed from stems, about 2 tsp
1 large egg
1 tsp kosher salt
½ tsp black pepper, or to taste
5 cups (16 oz) shredded low-moisture mozzarella
1 ½ cups (5 oz) shredded cheddar cheese
¼ cup grated parmesan (optional)
Instructions
Preheat the oven to 375°F.
Add the ricotta, chopped basil, thyme, egg, salt and pepper to a bowl, and mix until just combined.
Assemble the lasagna in a 9”x13” casserole dish that is at least 2.5”-3” deep. Start by adding 1 cup of the marinara to the bottom of the dish. Layer two sheets of matzah on the bottom, break as needed to fit them into a single layer. Top the matzah with 2 cups of the ricotta mixture (half of the mixture), and smooth it into an even layer with an offset spatula or the back of a spoon. Evenly top the ricotta with 2 cups of shredded mozzarella and ½ a cup of shredded cheddar.
Repeat the process by dolloping 1 cup of sauce over the shredded cheese. Top the sauce with two sheets of matzah, the remaining 2 cups of the ricotta mixture, followed by 2 cups of shredded mozzarella, and ½ a cup of shredded cheddar.
For the last layer, top the cheese layer with two sheets of matzah, then finish it off with the remaining tomato sauce (if you enjoy a saucier lasagna, you can add an additional cup of tomato sauce over the top before you finish it off with the shredded cheeses). Add the remaining 1 cup of mozzarella and ½ cup of cheddar. Finally, sprinkle the parmesan over the top.
Cover the lasagna with foil, and bake for 30 minutes covered.
Uncover the lasagna and bake for an additional 15-20 minutes or until browned and bubbly on top. Allow to cool for 15 minutes before serving so that the lasagna can set and hold its shape.
Notes
This recipe requires one full jar of marinara, but if you like a saucier lasagna, add an additional cup (or a small 8 oz jar) of tomato sauce to the top of the lasagna.
To make the lasagna ahead, bake for 30 minutes covered, remove from the oven and allow to fully cool. Refrigerate or freeze the lasagna. If refrigerated, reheat at 375°F for 15 minutes covered, and 15 uncovered; and if it’s frozen, reheat for 20 minutes covered, and 20-25 minutes uncovered.
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SUNDAY, March 30
Pickleball 10 - 1
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TUESDAY, April 1
Pickleball
10 - 1
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WEDNESDAY, April 2
Canasta & Mah Jongg
12:30 PM
Singles Group
3:00 PM
In person only
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THURSDAY, April 3
Torah Study
11:00 AM
Pickleball
10 - 1
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Wednesday, April 2
Singles Group Meeting
3:00 PM
Friday, April 4
Shabbat Dinner
6:30 PM
Wednesday, April 16
WAX Book Review
4:00 PM
Friday, April 25
WAX Luncheon
12:00 Noon
at Kubel's
Tuesday, April 29
Paint & Sip
10:00 AM
SEE DETAILS ON THE ABOVE ACTIVITIES IN THE FLYERS BELOW
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MAH JONGG & CANASTA
WEDNESDAYS
12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM
April 9, 23. May 21, 28.
Play starts at 11am and ends at 1:45
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PICKLEBALL
Sundays, Tuesdays
and Thursdays
10 - 1
NO PICKLEBALL 4/13 AND 4/20
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JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION
WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM
NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING
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Wednesday, April 16th at 4:00 PM
Discussion Leader: TBA
Book: Eternal Life By: Dara Horn
Rachel is a woman with a problem: she can’t die. Her recent troubles—widowhood, a failing business, an unemployed middle-aged son—are only the latest in a litany Continued on page 23 2 3 Volume 18/ Issue 2 JCC Women Auxiliary: Book Group Discussion – continued Wednesday at 4:00 PM Eternal Life by Dara Horn spanning dozens of countries, scores of marriages, and hundreds of children. In the 2,000 years since she made a spiritual bargain to save the life of her first son back in Roman-occupied Jerusalem, she’s tried everything to free herself, and only one other person in the world understands: a man she once loved passionately, who has been stalking her through the centuries, convinced they belong together forever. But as the twenty-first century begins and her children and grandchildren—consumed with immortality in their own ways, from the frontiers of digital currency to genetic engineering—develop new technologies that could change her fate and theirs, Rachel knows she must find a way out.
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WE NEED HELP! The 75th Anniversary planning committee and is looking for help preparing a media presentation for the August 10 Gala. If you, your teenage children, or you know someone who has this skill please let us know. We have news clippings, video interviews, pictures etc regarding the 75 years of JCC history on the island. Compensation will be provided. Please call Jon Geier at 703-589-2440 or Diane Hoffman at (732-742-2881). Thanks so much.
COMEDY SHOW
We are excited that our first JCC section is sold out. An additional section has been put aside and will be available to JCC members until ticket sales are open to the public. Seats can then be purchased in the rest of the theater. Remember comedy shows at the Surflight are usually sold out.
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ABOUT THE COMEDIANS...
Robin Fox
New Jersey Stand-Up Comedian Robin Fox spent 17 years as a full-time mom and dieting. Then one day, Robin gave up dieting and decided to make her life long dream of being a comedian a reality. Today she is happier than she can ever remember and will never look back! Original and funny, she talks from her heart about the frustrations of suburban living, marriage, and being an empty nester. No longer is she willing to just be the funniest mom on her New Jersey cul-de-sac. This New Jersey mom is now a regular on the comedy scene playing at the top clubs in NYC and performing nationally.
Joe Bublewicz
A 20 year veteran of the national comedy circuit, Joe’s ability to take you on a tour of life’s absurdities will create an atmosphere of non-stop laughter by blending just the right mix of sarcasm, logic, and personality into a hilarious stand-up performance. His creative humor and sardonic style of comedy has made him a favorite at all the major comedy chains throughout the country. It’s a night out that will leave you wanting more.
Wayne Cotter
Wayne Cotter is a veteran of the talk shows, having appeared dozens of times with both David Letterman and Jay Leno. A top nationally touring comedian, Wayne hosted the Fox Television Network series “Comic Strip Live” for many years, and has been nominated as “Best Standup Comedian” in the American Comedy Awards. Although he studied Electrical Engineering at the University of Pennsylvania and began a career with a New Jersey computer company, before long Wayne started moonlighting as a Philadelphia comedian. He continued this double life for some time, and ultimately came to the visionary conclusion that the computer industry was going nowhere and left town to pursue showbusiness full time.
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The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.
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We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample of some of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.
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The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:
Edward Brinberg
Morris Herman
Felix Horowitz
Robert Muscente
David Polinsky
Anita L. Ross
Sam Wittenberg
William Berger*
Hannah S. Cohen
Bernice Franks*
Alvin Kaplan
T. Daniel Lang*
Jacob Liebenberg
Isadore Opatosky
Joseph Schlanger*
Marvin Henry Weinberger*
Ethel Zwillman
Ann Celnik
Chaya Cohen
Samuel Kreiger
Leslie Siegel
Sam Singer
Richard Sugarman
Michael Beck*
Louis Cohen
Irving List*
Lillian Barham
Edward Greenberg
Charles Miller
Fannie Shapiro
Ruth Weisberger
Lawrence Alpert*
Charlotte Chazin*
Minnie Einhorn*
Martin Hartman
Sheila Kleinfeld
Fred Pollack
Jeanette Rosen
Dora Weinstein
Isadore Abend
Mary Halpern
Herbert Iris
Irving Maginsky
Marion Rosenzweig
Leon Shechtman
We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45.Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.
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Philip Garfinkel
March 29
Meryl Gindin
March 29
Charles Moss
March 31
Rudolph Valentine
April 1
Lewis Chakrin
April 2
Joel Gold
April 2
Steven Goldsmith
April 3
Linda Sclarow
April 3
Hugh Chairnoff
April 4
Maxine Paris
April 4
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Jeff Sussman & Patricia Adell
March 29
44th Anniversary
John & Debra Schweighardt
April 1
24th Anniversary
Philip & Shari Garfinkel
April 2
19th Anniversary
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BAR MITZVAH PROJECT
Joanne & Howard Babbitt's grandson, Jonah, will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah this summer. For his project, Jonah is collecting new or gently used sneakers for those less fortunate. If you are "closet cleaning", and would like to help Jonah reach his goal of 250 pairs, please contact Joanne or Howard and they will be happy to pick them up from you.
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SHARE YOUR NEWS
AND PICTURES
CONTACT:
rvalen1963@aol.com
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CARING COMMITTEE
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.
973-634-5349
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AROUND THE OCEAN COUNTY
JEWISH COMMUNITY....
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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.
Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay
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GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"
SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
PAVER FORM
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:
dihoff1@aol.com
PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book
TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES
TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180
ENDOWMENT FUND
Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.
Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.
A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.
YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.
Here is the order form:
YAHRZEIT
KOL HAKAVOD
Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD
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2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS
Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:
RENEW NOW
And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:
JOIN NOW
BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY
2025 DUES FORM HERE
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JCC FUNDS
Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.
ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.
GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.
KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.
ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
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JCC LEADERSHIP
OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Jon Geier
Treasurer- Stu Cofsky
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst
BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt
Diane Buskirk
Lorna Klein
Paul Levine
Ken Podos
Sondi Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
Bonni Rubin-Sugarman
Rose Valentine
Ken Yudman
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY
President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein
Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader
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