October 14, 2026 | Cheshvan 3, 5787 | | | |
Dear Friends,
Some weeks, a story in the news stays with me long after I’ve put down my phone. This week, it is the discussion of televising an execution. I keep thinking about the victims and their families, about our children, and about what our Jewish tradition asks of us in a moment like this.
The proposed livestream of the execution of the man convicted of murdering 13 people at Fort Hood raises painful questions. For the families whose loved ones were taken and the survivors whose lives were forever changed, this conversation is deeply personal. We cannot lose sight of them.
Let me be clear about where I stand: I am adamantly opposed to televising this execution.
Our tradition does not offer a simple answer about the death penalty. The Torah permits it. But the rabbis were deeply uneasy about the power to take a life. The Mishnah (rabbinic oral discourse) calls a court that executes once in seven years destructive. One rabbi says even once in seventy years. Rabbi Tarfon and Rabbi Akiva say that, had they served on the court, no one would ever have been executed. Another rabbi pushes back: Would that allow more murder?
That disagreement matters. Our tradition understands the responsibility to protect people. It also understands how much is at stake when we take a life.
Broadcasting an execution raises another question: What are we hoping people will experience by watching? What does it teach us - and our children - about accountability, dignity, and the value of life?
The Torah requires the burial of an executed person that same day, limiting how long the body may remain publicly displayed. It does not speak to a screen in our hands, but it gives us something to wrestle with. Even here, there are boundaries.
And then there is this teaching that stays with me: the Mishnah describes God as suffering even when the wicked are punished. Even then, there is sorrow.
I keep returning to that.
We can feel anger. We can demand accountability. We can carry deep concern for the victims and their families. Our tradition makes room for all of that, while asking us to pay attention to what happens within us, too.
May we bring that same care to this conversation. Human life deserves nothing less.
Jason Nevarez
Senior Rabbi
rabbinevarez@cbisd.org
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Shira Chadasha Erev Shabbat Services
Friday, October 16 @ 8:30 pm
| Join us for Erev Shabbat Shira Chadasha Services (New Song) in the Foster Family Chapel. Replenish your soul with contemporary music and prayer in this intimate and informal service open to all and followed by an oneg. This service is in person only. | | | | |
BIBS: Beth Israel Babies is back!
Wednesdays, October 21, 28; November 4, 18;
December 2, 9, 16 @ 9:15–10:00 am
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BIBS is a warm, engaging participation class for babies and the adults who love them! Enjoy age-appropriate play, exploration, music, movement, and early Jewish experiences at Beth Israel’s Bill & Sid Rubin Preschool in the UTC area.
Register for one or multiple classes of your choice.
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Men's Club Speaker's Forum & Dinner: Understanding the November Ballot Initiatives
Wednesday, October 21 @ 6:30 pm
| Join Beth Israel member Jason Bercovitch, Senior Advisor to Rep. Scott Peters, for a nonpartisan presentation explaining what each ballot measure would do and who supports and opposes each proposal. Space is limited. RSVP today! | | | | |
Keshet Kickoff
Friday, October 23 @ 7:30 pm
Shabbat Oneg following Erev Shabbat Services
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Keshet returns with an all-new event to kick off the year! Come meet, connect, and be part of the Beth Israel LGBTQ+ community at this special addition to the oneg.
As we honor Queer Jewish History Month, this welcoming space invites congregants of all ages to learn, write, draw, and engage. No RSVP required.
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Member Meet Up: JewJam
Saturday, October 24 @ 12:30 pm
| Do you enjoy making Jewish music? Join us for JewJam, a monthly gathering for the joy of playing, singing, learning, and also just listening to Jewish music. | | | | |
Executive Director Search Information Session
Thursday, October 29 @ 6:00 pm
| Join us for an Executive Director Search Information Session to hear from our Search Committee Co-Chairs and committee members about the search process, our progress, and next steps. Refreshments will be served. | | |
The Building for the Future Campaign is enhancing our campus for generations to come. From restoring and improving our sacred spaces to creating a new progressive mikvah, these projects will strengthen our congregation and expand opportunities for Jewish life, learning, worship, and connection.
If you have not yet made your campaign commitment, we invite you to join us. Your support will help make these important improvements possible and ensure Beth Israel continues to be a welcoming home for our community for generations to come.
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Adult Evening Book Club
Thursday, October 15
7:00 pm. RSVP here
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Men’s Club Discussion Group
Monday, October 26 | 10:00 am
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Member Meet Up: Knitting and Crocheting for Caring Community
Sunday, November 1 | 9:00 am RSVP here
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Morning Mindfulness with Julie Potiker
Wednesdays | 10:00 am
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Member Meet Up: Tuesday Afternoon Mahjong
Tuesdays | 1:00 pm-3:00 pm
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Judith & Henry Krumholz on 59 years!
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Beverly & Leonard Bernstein on 19 years!
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Eveie & Matt Schwartz on 17 years!
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Beethoven, Schubert & the Voice of the Viola–A Jewish Community Symphony Performance
Sunday, October 25, 2026 @ 3:00 pm
David & Dorothea Garfield Theatre
Lawrence Family JCC
Experience an afternoon of powerful orchestral music featuring Beethoven’s dramatic Fidelio Overture and Schubert’s beloved Unfinished Symphony. Viola soloist Gabriel Mayer (Beth Israel member) joins the Jewish Community Symphony for two beautiful works showcasing the rich, expressive voice of the viola: Telemann’s Concerto for Viola and Strings and Bruch’s Romance for Viola and Orchestra.
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Shanghai, Homeland Once Upon a Time: Jewish Refugees and Shanghai
Through January 3, 2027
This intimate walkthrough exhibit takes you through the history of Jewish refugees who fled to Shanghai during the Holocaust and established their own community in the heart of an occupied city. Read more.
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